Experiencing more than one orgasm during a single sex session is something many of us strive for. And it's not surprising, given the amount of pressure women & vulva owners have to orgasm at the drop of their panties. Watch any commercial or non-ethical p0rn film and you'd be forgiven for thinking that to be multi-orgasmic is a woman's natural state (even during blow-jobs!).

Let's get one thing clear - it really isn't. Many women struggle to orgasm. Being orgasmic is often not a spontaneous bodily response, but a learned skill.

But, the other side of the orgasmic coin is the fact that women & vulva-owners' bodies are often the most capable of multi-orgasmic pleasure. Men & penis-owners can also be multi-orgasmic, although this is not shown in p0rn films.

The best way to explore your multi-orgasmic potential is experimentation, stamina and varied stimulation.

Read on for our tips on how to become multi-orgasmic.

First, let us put a li'l disclaimer here: We can't guarantee that you will become multi-orgasmic. Where the exploration takes you is anyone's guess. However, what we can promise is that you'll have lots of fun when you try this out!

Take the pressure off - being multi-orgasmic can't be the 'GOAL.'

The best way to hinder becoming multi-orgasmic is by putting too much pressure on yourself. So our first tip is to take all the pressure off. Like, all the way off. Stop thinking about multiple orgasms as a goal and start feeling the journey.

Taking things slowly and steadily creates the mood, soothes the mind, and puts you in a better position to fully relax into your sexcursion. Don't rush it - after all, your first orgasm isn't the end of the journey, it's just the beginning.

Create a sensual pleasure-den worthy of multiple orgasms.

Working up to multiples is not a quickie session. Spend some time creating the perfect environment in which to be receptive to multiple pleasures, whether with a partner or solo (the same rules apply if you are masturbating – no cutting corners!).

• How do you like the lights? What makes you feel most comfortable and sexy? Absolute darkness, mood lighting, sunshine strategically shining in?
• Light scented candles or a massage candle, which can be used for sensual massage, to ensure your sense of smell is aroused.
• Would being fully nude, wearing lingerie, or being/getting slowly undressed add to your arousal?
• Have you made sure you won’t get interrupted? Is there enough time and privacy for this multi-orgasmic marathon?
• Would a soundtrack of sexy music make you feel extra aroused, or would you prefer just the sound of breath and moans?
• Are all sex toys fully charged and within arm's reach?
• Is your bottle of lube handy?
• What about Clit & G-Spot Arousal Enhancers?
• Would a strategically placed mirror add arousing visuals?
• Have you been for a pee?
• Above all, are you in a receptive mood for multiple pleasures?

It’s all in the details.

Will you be exploring with a partner? If so, start with an erotic massage. Bring out the massage oil, ice cubes, blindfold , and handcuffs. This is the time to bring out all your favourite playthings to help build anticipation, arousal and sexual energy.

The more anticipation and arousal created, the greater the chance of turning one orgasm into several. And, even if your erotic sesh doesn't lead to multiples, you’ll both have had such an exceptional time you won’t even care!

Building up to becoming multi-orgasmic usually means a clitoral orgasm first.

Clitoral stimulation is generally the best way for women & vulva-owners to reach orgasm, so this is a good place to start. Play in all your favourite ways, but take your time - slow it right down. The longer the build-up, the better the orgasm, so try edging, using a different finger technique, or explore all the modes of your vibrator. All of these tips can help prolong the build-up.

Once the first orgasm has peaked, your clit may feel too sensitive for more stimulation. This is perfectly normal. And it means you can move on to explore other erogenous zones...

Now is the time to move your orgasmic focus to internal pleasure.

Grab the lube and add an extra dash because it's time to introduce a penis, dildo or a strap-on into the mix. Glide the lubed-up love wand in place and focus on the erotic sensations. Find the angle and amount of pressure that stimulates your internal sweet spots - there are a few orgasmic spots to explore.

The A-Spot is an area deep inside, thought to be the female equivalent of the Prostate. This area can trigger intense orgasms if your toy or partner is long enough to reach these spots. Stimulatingh the A-spot can produce an immediate rush of natural lubrication, so don't worry if you suddenly get very wet.

Some women & vulva owners also enjoy cervix (C-Spot) stimulation, another form of deep stimulation. Others find C-spot play uncomfortable or even painful, so delve gently. Again, take your time to explore the sensations as this helps you figure out what makes your toes curl in the best way...

For most of the multi-orgasmic women & vulva owners, g-spot stimulation to g-spot orgasm is the easiest route to their second orgasm. It takes time to build up to a G-spot orgasm, but it's well worth the long build-up.

G-spot play may also cause female ejaculation, which is a pleasurable release of fluid. Many women inadvertently stop a G-spot orgasm in its tracks, worrying they are about to pee the bed as the sensations to release fluid are similar to the feeling of needing to pee. Our tip is to always go to the loo before your pleasure session, so you can relax into the sensations and let your body take you where it wants...

Once you've had an internal orgasm, you can likely explore more multi-orgasmic possibilities.

• Listen to your body - what is it craving?
• Are you ready for more clitoral stimulation?
• Would you like oral or an oral sex toy?
• Do you want to move things to anal pleasure?
• How orgasmic are your nipples?

You are in a state of high sexual arousal - a state that is most likely to make you multi-orgasmic, so there's no stopping you!

Ready to explore your multi-orgasmic potential?

Whether you have one orgasm or ten, what matters most is that you feel empowered, present, and pleasured. Being multi-orgasmic isn’t a competition or a benchmark - it’s a possibility, an adventure, and above all, a celebration of your body’s capacity for joy.

So take your time, stay curious, and follow what feels good. Whether you end the night glowing from a single peak or a series of blissful waves, you’re doing it exactly right...

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