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How to use a G-Spot Vibrator

The G-Spot is on the front wall of the vagina – some say about three inches inside, behind the pubic bone. For others their ‘special spot’ is not so far in – perhaps an inch or so.

Similarly, some women find their G-Spot to be very responsive whilst others have a hard time waking theirs up.

The most definitive thing we can say, after 20+ years advising women on this most mysterious of erogenous zones, is that it might be elusive but it’s definitely worth exploring!

However,  no toy can guarantee orgasms – G-Spot or otherwise – so please don’t buy a G-Spot vibrator or dildo expecting it to act like a sat-nav that will definitely take you to your desired destination…

Learning to identify and relax into the sensations is the only way to identify your G-Spot and perhaps achieve a G-Spot orgasm.

That said, the curved end of a G-Spot toy will allow you to try to discover yours, because the shape naturally probes the area you’re looking to explore.

The G-Spot can take time to respond and when it does, it’s more likely to be through pressure and motion than delicate touch or vibration.

The G-Spot can take a long time to awaken and is most likely to do so when you are incredibly turned on and it is getting lots of attention.

The G-Spot loves consistent firm stimulation and if it receives this,  it swells and grows from being the pea-size to walnut-sized.

G-Spot Only: Vibrator Styles and Shapes

Desire G-Spot Vibrator
Desire G-Spot Vibrator £49

Vibrators that are designed for G-Spot stimulation only are always shaft-shaped with a curved or angled head.  When used inside, this style of vibrator allows you to hone in on the internal sensations without any distraction. That said, any toy that vibrates, whatever its size or shape, can be enjoyed externally so if it doesn’t help you find your G-Spot, all is not lost – you can always enjoy its buzz on your clitoris instead!

  • A  G-Spot Vibrator  with a round, bulbous head provides a feeling of fullness and a large surface area  with which to massage the area – try using small  circular motions to identify and awaken your G-Spot.
  • A vibrator with a flat end, such as Lelo Gigi  or Picobong Moka, also gives a large stimulating area, delivering  firm pressure across the whole surface. Used with a small in-out motion, it can tap away at the designated area.

Some of these vibrators may be too large for many women to enjoy, especially during a solo sex session.

Lots of women don’t include self-penetration as part of their pleasure-itinerary, so a smaller G-Spot toy might be preferable on your first forrays into G-Spot pleasuring.

  • At only 4 inches long, the Mini G Spot vibrator is the shortest G-Spot vibrator we carry – but still plenty long enough for G-Spot probing (remember it’s somewhere 1-3 inches inside).
  • For a super-slim shaft, the Diamond G-Spot Vibrator offers very precise, directional G-Spot stimulation – though this may be too precise for those who haven’t found theirs yet.

G-Spot Vibrators that offer clitoral stimulation too.

G-Spot Rabbit
G-Spot Rabbit £39

There are pluses and minuses to having dual stimulation during your G-Spot search. Whilst adding clitoral stimulation can never be a bad thing for most women, it can make it difficult to identify and zone in on specific G-Spot sensations.

  • A rabbit vibrator with massaging beads has given many women a ‘blended orgasm’  ie clitoral and internal, possibly G-Spot. You can, very carefully, bend the shaft so as to increase the arc of the stimulation.
  • A revolutionary vibrator, the Groovy Chick Massager works on a pivotal action and taps against your G-Spot. The unique action can make self G-Spot stimulation easier.
  • C-shaped vibrators such as We Vibe and Leo Noa are designed to stimulate your clitoris and G-Spot at the same time. They are also designed to be used during intercourse.

 

Some G-Spot Vibrator Tips & Tricks

  • Whilst stimulating your G-Spot, press down on your lower belly to make your G-Spot connect even better with the vibrator stimulation.
  • Try a long G-Spot vibrator ‘from behind’: on all fours, reach behind you and slip the vibrator inside with curve facing downwards. Although it’s a tricky position for solo sex, it’s a great position finding and stimulating your special spot.
  • Dont rush it! G-Spot orgasms need time to build. Tantalise yourself by inserting the vibrator only a short way in, with the head stimulating just inside. Only when you’re really aroused, work the vibrator further inside to pleasure your G-Spot.
  • G-Spot vibrators don’t only have to stimulate your G-Spot – the wide/flared base of many G-Spot vibrators (like the G-Twist), acts as  guard making this vibrator anal-safe for stimulating your man’s prostate gland; the curve of the vibrator offers precise prostate-pleasuring and the ridges down the vibrators shaft feel as sensuous anally as they do vaginally. Use lots of lube and always cover your G-Spot vibrator with a condom if using anally.

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