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How to Use a Clitoral Vibrator

Many clitoral vibrators are shaped to mirror the shape of your lips (labia), so they can be rested, externally long-ways to stimulate the whole vulval area –  an often overlooked region, that is, in fact, highly sensitive.

Learning all about your clitoris and how to pleasure it is key to getting the best from your vibrator, because much of the clitoris is hidden beneath the surface.

We’ve written about how what to consider, when choosing a vibrator for your clitoris, so here we’re going to give you  some tips on how to use it to get the maximum pleasure.

How to Stimulate Your Clitoris with a Vibrator

Sh! Easy Egg Vibrator
Sh! Easy Egg Vibrator – Egg or bullet-shaped vibe are great to stimulate your whole vulva…

 

Rather than just diving directly for your clitorial tip ( the ultra sensitive pea-shaped button at the top of your inner lips, that we all know as ‘The Clitoris’ ) , start by using your vibrator to stimulate around the whole outer region.

Beneath here, there is lots of erectile tissue so stimulation will cause blood to pump into the area, making  you very aroused , wet and swollen.

 

 

For most women the best place to stimulate the clitoris is not directly on the clitoral tip itself as this can sometimes feel far too intense to be pleasurable.

 

Clitoral Pleasure Vibe - Shaped to stimulate the sides of the clitoris...
Clitoral Pleasure Vibe – Shaped to stimulate the sides of the clitoris…

 

Try slightly off to one side – image your clitoris as clockface and explore the areas around then 11 ‘ clock or 1 O’clock – many women say these times feel really good for them…

 

 

How to Use a Rabbit Vibe
How to Use a Rabbit Vibe

One of the main reasons Rabbit Vibrators are popular is because the split bunny ear of the clitoral simulator deliver tingles to the super-sensitive sides..

 

Everyone feels things differently, but if you are trying a clitoral vibrator for the first time, try “approaching” your clitoris from the side, starting with your vibrator on a lower setting.

Explore the whole area, focusing on where feels really good before working up to high powered, mind-blowing crescendo…

 


 

 

The Pros & Cons of Strong Clitoral Vibes

Sh! Secret Vibrator (£35) Small Vibrating Silicone Clitoral Egg: 20 Powerful Settings
Sh! Secret Vibrator (£35) Small Vibrating Silicone Clitoral Egg: 20 Powerful Settings

 

Clitoral vibrators are often really powerful which many women find great for clitoral stimulation, especially if they have difficulty achieving orgasm.

 

 

 

But strong vibrators, can sometimes de-senstitize the your clitoris …

Wand Massagers are the strongest clitoral vibrators know to woman...
Wand Massagers are the strongest clitoral vibrators know to woman…

They can also give you numb fingers if you handle the vibrating element too much. If this happens, just nestle the vibrator between your lady-lips, lie back and explore the wide variety of vibrations and sensations on offer.

To tone-down too-strong vibrations, cup the vibrator in the palm of your hand and enjoy subtle vibrations through your fingertips.

If you find the vibrations too strong for your clitoris to enjoy, you can  wrap your vibrator in some fabric or a towel, which will tone down the intensity.

 


 

How to take care of your clit vibe

Aphrodisia Dual Vibe
When cleaning or handling, be careful not to water inside or, if it has a separate batter pack, not to loosen the connections…

Make sure you clean your clitoral vibe after every outing. Unless you have chosen a waterproof vibrator, be careful not to get any water inside the battery area or where the connecting wire (if your vibe has one) attaches to the toy.

Vibrators with separate battery packs may seem clumsy or a bit ‘old school’ but actually they are great for being able to lie back, close your eyes and control sensations from your hand, rather than having to fumble for the faster/slower buttons between your legs. For some women, this can help with the ‘switching the mind off’ that’s essential to orgasm.

They also make handling the controls over to your partner easier.

If your clitoral vibrator does have a separate battery pack,  it’s important not to put pressure on the connection. If a vibrator is constantly dangled by the wire, the connection will weaken over time and you may find it delivers a frustratingly intermittent buzz or even stops working all together.

 

 

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