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Silicone Dildos STRAP-ON DILDOS • DILDO BASES • DOUBLE DILDOS • STRAPLESS

More Shapes. More Possibilities.

Discover silicone dildos for every kind of pleasure and play. From classic shapes and dildo bases to strapless and double-ended designs, explore sizes, shapes and textures for different bodies and tastes.

Soft, body-safe and wonderfully versatile, discover silicone dildos in shapes and sizes made for pleasure your way.

BODY-SAFE SILICONE EVERY SHAPE OF PLEASURE
A black & gold silicone Sh! duchess dildo, set against a softly blurred bedroom background with warm fairy lights.

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  • Cupid 3 Curved Silicone Dildo
    £49.00
  • Wirly 2 Slim Dildo
    £39.00
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  • Cupid 2 Curved Silicone Dildo
    £35.00
  • Duchess Dildo
    £49.00
  • Cupid 6 Curved Silicone Dildo
    £65.00
  • Cupid 3 Curved Vibrating Silicone Dildo
    £59.00
  • Twista 2 Long Spiral Dildo
    £65.00
  • Wirly 3 Slim Dildo
    £45.00
  • Wirly 6 Slim Dildo
    £55.00
  • Wirly 1 Slim Dildo
    £29.00
  • Wirly 2 Slim Vibrating Dildo
    £49.00
  • Cupid 1 Curved Silicone Dildo
    £25.00
  • Wirly 5 Slim Dildo
    £45.00
  • Honey 3 G-Spot Dildo
    £59.00
  • Bananapants Bumpher Dildo Base
    £43.00
  • Cupid 2 Curved Vibrating Silicone Dildo
    £45.00
  • Sh! Strapless Double Dildo
    £69.00
  • Honey 6 G-Spot Dildo
    £79.00
  • Cupid 6 Curved Vibrating Silicone Dildo
    £75.00
  • Honey 5 G-Spot Dildo
    £59.00

Quick Guide

Silicone Dildos Guide

From body-safe materials and choosing your perfect shape to lube, cleaning and strap-on play, here’s everything you need to know.

EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW Choosing & Using Silicone Dildos
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WHY CHOOSE A SILICONE DILDO?

Silicone is a brilliant material for sex toys: smooth, non-porous, durable and wonderfully tactile.

  • Body-safe & non-porous → Quality platinum-cured silicone doesn’t absorb bodily fluids and is easy to keep beautifully clean.
  • Soft & flexible → It has enough give to move comfortably with your body while still holding its shape.
  • Warms to you → Silicone quickly takes on body temperature for a softer, more natural-feeling experience.
  • Made to last → Look after a good silicone dildo and you can enjoy it for years.
  • Sh! tip → Not all toys labelled “silicone” are necessarily made to the same standard. We use premium platinum-cured silicone with strict manufacturing standards and full batch traceability.
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WHICH SILICONE DILDO IS RIGHT FOR YOU?

There’s no universally 'best dildo. The good one is the one that suits your body, your pleasure and the way you want to play.

  • Slim → A gentler choice for beginners or anyone who prefers less girth.
  • Curved → Great if you enjoy more targeted G-spot or prostate stimulation.
  • Textured → Ridges, ribs and spirals add extra sensation with movement.
  • Fuller → For experienced users who know they enjoy more stretch and fullness.
  • Width vs Length → You can control how deeply a dildo is used, but you can’t make a dildo less wide - so girth is especially worth paying attention to.
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ARE SILICONE DILDOS GOOD FOR STRAP-ONS?

Absolutely - and ours are designed with strap-on play firmly in mind.

A broad, flared base helps the dildo sit securely in an O-ring harness, while the right balance of flexibility and firmness gives the wearer plenty of control.

  • Check your O-ring size → Match the dildo diameter to the harness before buying.
  • Think about usable length → Some harness styles position part of the dildo between the body and harness panel.
  • Choose for the receiver → Their preferred girth, length and sensation should lead the decision.
  • Sh! bonus → Our dildos and harnesses are designed to play beautifully together.
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ARE SH! SILICONE DILDOS MADE FOR EVERYBODY?

Very much so.

Our dildo-making grew from Sh!'s lesbian and queer roots, but pleasure doesn't belong to one gender, sexuality, body or relationship.

Whether you're shopping for solo pleasure, vaginal play, anal play, pegging, strap-on sex or something you haven't put a label on at all, choose according to the body receiving it and what feels good to them.

Because bodies aren't one-size-fits-all and neither should dildos be.

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WHY ARE SH! DILDOS HAND-POURED?

Because we like doing things differently.

Sh! has been designing pleasure products since 1993, and our silicone dildos are individually hand-poured in the UK rather than anonymously mass-produced.

That means bold colours, playful shapes and fabulous marbling alongside thoughtful details created for real bodies and real-world play.

Every marbled Sh! dildo is one of a kind. Each hand-pour creates its own fabulous swirls and colour patterns — so no two are ever exactly alike.

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HOW DO YOU CLEAN A SILICONE DILDO?

One of silicone's great pleasures is how easy it is to care for.

Wash your dildo thoroughly with warm water and suitable soap or sex-toy cleaner after use, then allow it to dry completely before storing.

Non-vibrating Sh! silicone dildos can also be boiled for around three minutes for a deeper clean.

For vibrating versions, remove the bullet first and clean the silicone dildo and vibrator according to their individual care instructions.

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WHAT LUBE CAN I USE WITH SILICONE DILDOS?

Our easy answer: water-based lube.

It works beautifully with silicone toys, feels lovely on the body and is easy to wash away afterwards.

Silicone-based lubes can sometimes interact with silicone toys, so they are best steered clear of, which is why we always , recommend sticking with water-based,

And don't be stingy with it. More glide = less friction = happier bodies.

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REGULAR OR VIBRATING SILICONE DILDO?

Sometimes you want penetration. Sometimes you want penetration with added thrills.

Most Sh! dildo designs are available in regular and vibrating versions, so you can choose what feels good to you.

Silicone transmits vibration beautifully, but size makes a difference: the more silicone the vibration has to travel through, the more diffused it becomes. That means smaller vibrating dildos generally deliver a stronger, more concentrated buzz, while larger designs tend to feel softer and more dispersed.

Sh! tip → Before inserting the removable bullet, add a tiny drop of water-based lube to it. It'll slide in easily — and, importantly, pop back out much more happily when it's time to clean up.

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CAN YOU USE SILICONE DILDOS FOR ANAL PLAY?

Yes - but the base matters.

Any dildo used anally needs a sufficiently wide, flared base to prevent it travelling further inside the body. Sh! silicone dildos are designed with broad bases, making them all safe for anal and pegging play.

If you’re new to anal play, start slim, use plenty of lube and give your body all the time it wants.

No pushing through pain. Ever. Pleasure is the point.

6 'starry night' ( dark blue marbled with purple) limited edition Sh! silicone dildos astanding upright against a warm, softly blurred background with out-of-focus lights.
Pleasure Is Power

Materials Matter

What’s the Best Dildo Material?

Silicone, glass, steel, rubber, TPE, jelly... dildo materials can be a bit of a minefield. Our guide explains how they compare for body safety, feel, hygiene and durability and why we're firmly on Team Silicone.

Women-Centred Expert advice 30+ Years Experience

WHY WE LOVE SILICONE

Silicone, The Sh! Way

We’ve been designing and hand-pouring our own silicone dildos in the UK since 1993. Here’s what we love about silicone and what makes our Sh! Originals rather special.

Premium Platinum Silicone

Our Sh! Originals are hand-poured using premium platinum-cured silicone chosen for its body-safe, non-porous and wonderfully tactile qualities.

Platinum Silicone Non-Porous Body-Safe

Built to Last

Quality silicone is wonderfully durable and resilient. With the right care, a favourite dildo can bring pleasure for years.

Durable Long Lasting Made for Pleasure

Silky, Supple Feel

Smooth, flexible and wonderfully tactile, our silicone warms quickly against the body for a softer, more natural-feeling experience.

Soft Touch Body Warming Flexible

Easy to Clean

Non-porous silicone won't absorb fluids and non-vibrating designs can even be boiled for sterilising.

Hygienic Sterilizable Easy Care

Brilliant for Strap-Ons

Many silicone dildos have wide, secure bases that sit beautifully in a compatible harness, including our own designs made specifically with strapping in mind.

Harness Friendly Secure Bases Stable Fit

Made the Sh! Way

Our own silicone dildos are designed and hand-poured in our UK studio, in a choice of shapes, sizes and glorious colourways.

Pleasure First Women Designed Made With Care

GOOD TO KNOW

Silicone Dildo Questions, Answered

What people ask about silcone dildos.

Are silicone dildos better?

We think so! Platinum-cured silicone is the gold standard for body-safe sex toys. It's non-porous, phthalate-free, durable and wonderfully tactile, warming quickly to body temperature for a more natural feel.

Unlike cheaper materials, quality silicone won't absorb bodily fluids and is easy to clean and sterilise. That's why every Sh! dildo is individually hand-poured using premium platinum-cured silicone.

What does "platinum-cured silicone" mean?

Platinum-cured silicone is the gold standard for body-safe sex toys. It's non-porous, phthalate-free, durable and wonderfully tactile, warming quickly to body temperature for a more natural feel.

Unlike cheaper materials, quality silicone won't absorb bodily fluids and is easy to clean and sterilise. That's why every Sh! dildo is individually hand-poured using premium platinum-cured silicone.

Are silicone dildos flexible?

Yes - but not generally floppy.

Premium silicone has just the right balance of firmness and flexibility. It has enough give to move comfortably with your body while still being firm enough for satisfying penetration.

Different designs naturally feel slightly different too. Slimmer dildos flex more than larger, fuller shapes.

How long do silicone dildos last?

A long time.

Premium platinum-cured silicone is incredibly durable and won't become sticky, crack or peel like many cheaper materials.

With a little care, your Sh! dildo can bring pleasure for years, even decades - many of our customers are still enjoying toys they bought a very long time ago.

Can people with latex allergies use silicone dildos?

Usually, yes.

Silicone and latex are completely different materials, so silicone dildos are generally an excellent choice for people with latex allergies.

Our dildos are made from premium platinum-cured silicone and contain no latex.

Can I share a silicone dildo with a partner?

Absolutely.

Silicone's non-porous surface makes it an excellent material for shared play because it's easy to clean thoroughly between uses.

If you're sharing between partners or moving between different body areas, using a fresh condom over the dildo is the simplest way to reduce the risk of transferring bacteria.

Can silicone dildos be sterilised?

Yes. Many non-vibrating, 100% silicone dildos can be sterilised by boiling them in water for a few minutes, making silicone a great choice for toys that are shared between partners.

Always check the care instructions first, particularly for vibrating toys or products made from more than one material.

Can I use silicone lube with a silicone dildo?

We recommend water-based lubricant with all Sh! silicone dildos.

Confession time... years ago we completely submerged one of our own dildos in silicone lube for over a month just to see if it would react.

It didn't.

But not every silicone lubricant is formulated the same way, so we'd still recommend sticking with water-based. It's the safest choice, it's lovely to use and—let's be honest—a bottle of lube is a lot cheaper than replacing your favourite handmade dildo.

Are silicone dildos safe for anal play?

Yes. All of our silicone dildos are anal-safe, with a wide, flared base to help prevent the toy from slipping fully inside the body. Silicone is also non-porous and easy to clean, making it an excellent choice for anal play. Use plenty of compatible lube and choose a size that feels comfortable for you.