Just a quick question - is there a toy out there suitable for finding a man's G-spot? We've tried with a small dildo, but I'm not sure what I'm looking for or where to find it!
Can you help?
Hi there, thanks for getting in touch. We can absolutely help with directions for finding the P-Spot!
The male G-Spot - or P-Spot- is the back of the prostate gland, which sits just under the bladder.
It's amazingly sensitive and can produce powerful orgasms.
It's possibly best to start by trying to find it with your fingers.
If you're worried about hygiene, or have long or snaggy fingernails, pop a condom over them, or don some latex gloves.
You'll also want to some lubricant - Lush Pure Plus Lube is very good, but anything thick and water-based is a good choice.
You'll need lube because the anus, unlike the vagina, doesn't produce its own lubrication.
The male G-Spot is on the front wall of the rectum -if he's on his back, you want to feel upwards, towards the ceiling.
With one or two fingers, see if you can feel a bump through the rectal wall - it's about the size and shape of a walnut.
Stimulating the P-spot often feels like being suddenly on the very edge of orgasm, so he'll know when you find it!
We'd recommend starting with fingers, as there's nothing like feeling your way...
There are also a couple of toys that are very good for the -spot play.
Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men £11.99
The Rude Boy is a P-spot vibrator, and the Naughty Boy is its smaller brother, suitable for beginners.
We also recommend the Wirly Girly 3 for anal play if you prefer dildos suitable to use with a strap-on harness.
If you'd like more info, The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men, is full of fantastic tips, advice and lots more details than we can give here. This book is on the Team Sh! training reading list, so you know it comes highly recommended!
Hope all this helps. Please do give us a shout with any other questions.