Oh God, can you feel that? It’s actually summer. Lets us bow down or bend over and worship the sun gods.
Anyway this week we’re talking sex for when it’s hot 😛
Enjoy a little temperature play
It’s hot it’s sticky, wouldn’t some cool glass feel good against your body right about now? Glass is a great way to experiment with temperature play, try putting a glass toy in the fridge for a couple of hours and then enjoy its exhilarating touch. They are also, durable and waterproof, so you could also try bringing it into a refreshing cool shower.
Make the most of those long summer evenings
It’s light it’s warm, maybe you could even take things outside. As long as you find somewhere secluded. Bring some Champagne and strawberries and recreate that picnic scene in Stardust. You might even see a shooting star, the Delta Aquariid meteor shower peaks at the end of August and after that it’s the Persiad. And if that doesn’t work out maybe the thrill of getting down in the beauty of nature will have you seeing some other stars.
More of a city kid?
Why not take advantage of the long summer evenings to learn something new. Come along to one of our erotic classes, we’ve got a Blow His Mind class coming up on the 27th of July, plus plenty of other fun options to fill your evenings this summer.
It’s hard to sleep at night when it’s so warm. Snugly pajamas are out, sleeping naked is in. It’s definitely too warm to wear a bra, so why not try out some nipple adornments, for some cool fun. Or invest in some seductive lingerie to keep you from being weighed down by layers of clothing.
Or is that still too hot? Try a striptease and send the non-literal temperature soaring.
Aim for some afternoon delight
Did you know you’re most likely to have an orgasm at around 3pm?
Apparently this is when women’s bodies have the highest level of cortisol, which affects energy and alertness to stimuli. Stimuli that here means enjoying all the sex. And if your lover is male he might have an afternoon boost of estrogen which can make him more emotionally tuned in and likely to indulge in a session of hefty foreplay.
So bunk off work, go lie in an air conditioned room and get off.
Enjoy some alone time
Is the thought of someone touching you …uff just not doing anything for you right now?
That is cool. It’s all cool. Find yourself a good book and a good toy and a chill spot and enjoy some time to yourself. Work up a fun sweat, forget the frustration of overheated tubes and having to do things besides lie in the park and eat ice cream.
What about this fab book on phone sex, you don’t even have to think about someone touching your heat flushed skin. Equal parts funny and sexy for an enjoyable and informative afternoon, take notes for a cooler season.