Q&A: I think my partner needs a longer toy? Suggestions?


My woman partner enjoys having a vibrator as part of our love-making, but she needs an extra-long one, I think, for full satisfaction. Can you
recommend please? Ideally re-chargeable, not just battery-operated.



Hey T!

Although the clitoris and the G-Spot are reachable without a lot of length having a longer toy can be a great way to add in some A-Spot attention. 

Whereas the G-Spot is located only a couple of inches into the vagina, on the ‘front’ wall, the A-Spot is tucked away at the back.

It’s still on the anterior (front) wall but just a few inches further back. You should be able to feel a patch of spongy tissue above the cervix. Stimulating your A-Spot is great for a lot of reasons, as well as producing strong, G-Spot like orgasms it also really helps to increase lubrication. It’s a great pleasure zone to explore but bSilhouette S10 Flexible Vibeecause of it’s location it really is worth investing in a longer toy.

We have a few good options for a longer vibe:

You could try the Silhouette S10 which is incredibly flexible and
adaptable as well as being 100% waterproof and USB rechargeable. It’s a really versatile toy and has a full 8 inches of playable length.

There is also the Sh! Swell which we recently featured as a toy of the month, it’s a great rechargeable toy with deep throbbing vibrations
and 6″ of playable length.

It that doesn’t seem like enough Minna Life: Ola Touch Sensitive Vibrator has 7.5″ of playable length and features an innovative squeeze-control technology that really connects you to your partner. If you want something that also incorporates clitoral stimulation the Fun Factory Lady Bi Rechargeable Dual Vibrator has a playable length of 6.5 inches, specifically designed for A-Spot stimulation.

Lady Bi Vibrator

There are also options like a long vibrating dildo, such as the Mistress Wirly Extra Long Vibrating Dildo which at 9 inches long, is more that you would ever need. There’s a vibrating bullet that slots into the base to provide added fun.

Whatever you pick make sure to use lube with your intended toy and consider checking out our A and U-Spot guides.

We hope this helps! If you have any other questions send them to us at advice@sh-womenstore.com. If you would like advice from Psychosexual Therapist Sarah Berry include the subject line ‘Ask Sarah’.

Best Wishes, Team Sh! xx

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