Q&A: I’m an unconfident masturbator

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Hi Sh! Team,

I a question regarding the silver lipstick vibe. I’ve now used the Sh! Mini bullet several times and have not quite been able to orgasm with its use. This is my first toy, and I wasn’t much of a handy masturbator at all previously (and still am not super good at it).

Is the lipstick much stronger than the mini bullet? I know that I’m the type that requires a lot of sensory stimulation to get anywhere.

Thanks for taking the time to answer! I know you have many other customers to attend to.


Hi Zoe,

Nice to hear from you! Firstly, rest assured that just because you don’t quite climax with one toy doesn’t mean you’re not a good masturbator 😉 The wonderful thing about exploring what exactly tickles your pickle is that you can have a lot of fun trying all different toys with different sensations!

The Love Bullet Silver Lipstick Vibe has definitely proved popular as not only is it a cute little toy, it’s also strong and quiet with 8 different throbbing & escalating vibrating patterns to explore. However, the strength of vibration is similar to the Sh! Bullet, so we’d like to suggest a couple of other toys that might work better for you.

We often find that women fall into one of these two categories:

  1. Women who enjoy an intensely high-pitched buzz like the Sh! Bullet and the Silver Lipstick.
  2. Women who need a deep, rumbly vibration to get off.

It may be that you belong to the second category, in which case high-pitched toys won’t work magic on your bits.

Here are three vibrators with lovely, rumbly vibrations:

Bella G-Spot Vibrator, which has 8 fun modes. Whilst it’s designed to be used internally, it can also be used for clitoral stimulation.

Sh! Cordless Wand – millions of women all over the world swear by Wand vibrators, and we whole-heartedly agree with them. It’s had to not have an orgasm with one of these…

Je Joue Mimi – clit vibe with super-sensual silicone cover, water-proof and rechargeable.

 Here’s an easy guide to the clitoris and how to pleasure it – have fun! 🙂

Team Sh! xx

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