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Q&A: What toy will work in combination with a strap on?

Hi we are a lesbian couple looking for a vibrator that can be used with a harness to allow for some vigorous thrusting. We have a double dildo harness and the receiver is very happy with the dildo we have but  the harness wearer wants to have a vibrator with clitoral stimulater. We have tried various things but they do have a tendency to drop out at the wrong moment. Any suggestions of dildos or vibrators or mix and match that might work?

Thanks

A.

Thanks so much for your email. We have a few ideas that might work, we’re not sure what you’ve already tried but there are a several options for you to consider.
We know you’re happy with your existing dildo but if you’re open to buying another (you did say you had a double harness) you might consider something like the Cupid 3 vibrating dildo (or any of our vibrating dildos, they come in many shapes and sizes).
Cupid 3 Vibrating Dildo

All our Sh! vibrating dildos have a perfect space for a Sh! vibrating bullet to slot into the base and fit flush with the heart shaped base of the toy. This makes them super friendly for strap-on users.

They are also handmade in our London workshop, so pretty much an artisan sex toy.
You could also try something like a Vibrating Strap On Liner:  this looks a bit like a vibrating panty liner, it sits against the labia (under the harness) for the wearer to enjoy. They are designed to be word with a strap on so this could be a very good choice for avoiding any slipage issues.
vibrating-strap-on-liner
There are also  C-shaped vibes that can be worn under harness such as the Lelo Noa or the We-Vibe 4 Plus. These toys are designed to be worn during penetrative sex so they sit fairly flush against the body and stay in place as well as providing both clitoral and G-spot stimulation.

We hope this helps! If you have any other questions send them to us at advice@sh-womenstore.com. If you would like advice from Psychosexual Therapist Sarah Berry include the subject line ‘Ask Sarah’

Best Wishes, Team Sh! xx

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