How to Use a Double Dildo

How to Use a Double Dildo

Double Ender. Double Headed. Double Dildo. Double Dong (eww!)…

Known by many names but a double dildo is quite simply a sex toy, designed for two to share, to deliver penetrative pleasure to each partner simultaneously.

They come in two distinct styles; either extra-long with a dildo at each end, or curved in shape, with one longer and one smaller dildo.

Each style offers offers quite a different sexual experience for both partners and each have their own pros, cons and best positions to enjoy them in…

How to Use a Traditional Double-Ended Dildo

A traditional double-ended dildo is extra-long with a shaft at each end for each partner to enjoy together, either vaginally and/or anally.
You lie, sit facing or back up to each other with your genitals close together. One end is for you, and the other is for your lover…

With either, or both, of you gripping the middle portion of the dildo, it’s moved between you using a pull-me/push-me motion.

Double Ended Dildos
Double dildos are extra-long,with a dildo at each end for each partner to enjoy…

Best  Position for Double-Ended Dildo Play: Scissors 

Prop yourselves up with pillows and position one leg over each others opposite leg, so that you can get really up close and personal in the pubic area.

Slip each end of the dildo inside each of you and take it in turns to reach one hand under your propped leg to move the dildo between you.

Pros of Double-Ended Dildos

  • Playing with a double-ended dildo is voyeuristic and sexy, as you see yourselves/each other enjoying action together.
  • Using a double-ended dildo can feel intimately close as you share exactly the same activity and sensations,  as your lover.

Cons of Double-Ended Dildos

  • They can be tricky to co-ordinate.
  • Most double-ended dildos have the same size dildo at each end, leaving no leeway for lovers with different penetrative appetites.
  • Not a huge choice – Often the stuff of lesbian porn, many styles of double-ended dildos are ‘flesh-coloured’ ( who’s??!) and ‘realistic’ – you won’t find them here but this does mean that sensual, stylish designs are a bit thin on the ground.

 

 How to Use a Strapless Double Dildo

A Strapless is a new-style double dildo, specially designed for strap-on style sex, without wearing a harness...
A Strapless is a new-style double dildo, specially designed for strap-on style sex, without wearing a harness…

A newer version of a double dildo is a Strapless or  ‘harness-free’) dildo.

A Strapless is a curved or U-shaped dildo with a smaller egg-shaped dildo at one end and a longer dildo at the other.

Strapless double dildos are designed to be enjoyed for strap-on style sex,  with no interruption to play and nothing between you, but the dildo. Like a traditional double dildo, they offer both players the pleasure of simultaneous double penetration, but with this style there is a ‘do-er’ and a ‘receiver’

The ‘wearer’ doesn’t need to put on a strap-on harness to hold the dildo in place but instead she uses her body to hold and operate the dildo.

She slips the smaller bulb/egg-shaped end inside herself,  gripping it with her PC muscle.

The longer shaft extends outside of her, ready for her female or male partner to hop on and enjoy,  either vaginally or anally.

Strapless double dildos offer close, body-to- body contact and are best suited for grinding together, rather than long penetrative strokes or wild moves.

We’ve written more about how to use a strapless dildo here. ..

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