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How to Use a Vibrator - Sh! Women's Store

How to Use a Vibrator

Despite a mammoth choice in sex toys, the myth about "bigger being better" persists. This is why many people assume the way to use...
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Can vibrators cause damage, loss of sensitivity or DVS?

Can vibrators cause damage, loss of sensitivity or DVS?

Ah, the humble vibrator. The buzzing bundle of joy that can cause orgasm with the same surety that night follows day and often at...
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Why Buy a Vibrator? - Sh! Women's Store

Why Buy a Vibrator?

Since its invention in Victorian times, the history of the vibrator has skipped between medical use and the porn world. It's really in the last...
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What Is The Best First Vibrator For A Newbie? - Sh! Women's Store

What Is The Best First Vibrator For A Newbie?

Dear Team Sh!  My friend has recommended you. I'm in a 'situationship' but it's nothing serious. We have fun together, but I rarely have...
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Sex Toy Review: Evie Tapping Vibe with Vibrating Love Ball - Sh! Women's Store

Sex Toy Review: Evie Tapping Vibe with Vibrating Love Ball

Read our toy tester's sex toy review of Evie Dual Vibe with an attached vibrating love ball here: I haven't had much experience with...
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Which Magic Wand Vibrator Would You Recommend? - Sh! Women's Store

Which Magic Wand Vibrator Would You Recommend?

Hey Team,I need some advice and I hope you can help me. I've heard good things about the Magic Wand, and I'm curious. Is...
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How To Buy A Vibrator Without My Parents Knowing? - Sh! Women's Store

How To Buy A Vibrator Without My Parents Knowing?

Hi Sh! I want to buy my first vibrator, but I live with my parents and they wouldn't approve. I really don't want them...
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Review: Wheel of Pleasure Licking Vibrator - Sh! women’s store

Review: Wheel of Pleasure Licking Vibrator

At first glance, the Wheel of Pleasure is a cute, small-size toy with a wheel of soft silicone tongues. Straight away, I feel a...
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My Vibrator Is Not Working - Help! - Sh! Women's Store

My Vibrator Is Not Working - Help!

The most common reason for customers to bring back sex toys is that they believe their toy to be faulty. Whilst vibrators occasionally break...
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How to Use a Finger Vibrator - Sh! Women's Store

How to Use a Finger Vibrator

Finger vibrators  are fabulous for delivering clitoral stimulation in a discreet way. We particularly recomend them to couples who want to close the orgasm-gap during penetration....
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Q&A: What's the Best Vibrator? - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: What's the Best Vibrator?

Dear Sh! My girlfriend and I are looking for a vibrator that is quiet, stylish and safe. It must look good, not stink to...
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How To Choose A Vibrator - Sh! Women's Store

How To Choose A Vibrator

Choosing a vibrator is a very personal thing. What works for one person, whether in shape, size, feel, or even colour, may not work...
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Q&A: Overheating Vibrator - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: Overheating Vibrator

Dear Sh! I bought a vibrator a few months ago. Over the past few weeks, the battery compartment has become extremely hot and takes...
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Waterproof Vibrator Perks - Sh! Women's Store

Waterproof Vibrator Perks

When life gets hectic - whether you're juggling flatmates, kids, work, or just the general chaos of daily living - it can feel hard...
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Q&A: Travelling with Vibrator - Airport Security - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: Travelling with Vibrator - Airport Security

Dear Sh! I recently purchased two of your items, and I will be returning to the USA, and was wondering... How should I pack...
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Short History of the Vibrator

Short History of the Vibrator

From the 1st century AD to the early 20C, doctors prescribed medical massage to relieve a condition they believed was caused by a build...
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What Your Vibrator Offers - Sh! Women's Store

What Your Vibrator Offers

A guide to the different sensations a vibrator can offer and how to work out which is best for you. Choosing your first vibrator...
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Vibrator Speed Explained - Sh! Women's Store

Vibrator Speed Explained

A guide to the different speed options vibrators can offer and which might be the best for you. On each product page, you will...
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Vibrator Intensity Explained - Sh! Women's Store

Vibrator Intensity Explained

A guide to how we rate our toys for vibration intensity and which might be the best for you. Below the product description on...
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Vibrator Volume Explained - Sh! Women's Store

Vibrator Volume Explained

This is our guide on how we rate our toys for noisiness and why quiet is not always best. No one wants a super-loud...
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Why Buy a Luxury Vibrator? - Sh! Women's Store

Why Buy a Luxury Vibrator?

Long gone (and good riddance!) are the days when a woman or vulva-owner wanting a little thrill only had the choice between a loud,...
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10 Reasons to Love Classic Vibrators - Sh! Women's Store

10 Reasons to Love Classic Vibrators

Many women & vulva-owners choose a Classic Vibrator as their first toy. A classic vibe is easy to use, and its long, slim shape...
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Q&A: Best Vibrator To Buy For My Wife? - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: Best Vibrator To Buy For My Wife?

Dear Sh! I'd be very grateful for some advice about the best vibrator to buy for my wife. I have been looking at your...
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How to Use Egg & Bullet Vibrators - Sh! Women's Store

How to Use Egg & Bullet Vibrators

Here is our guide on how to use egg and bullet vibrators. Egg and bullet vibrators are smaller than standard vibes and designed to...
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What Do Vibrator Warnings Like 'Do Not Use On Unexplained Calf Pain' Mean? - Sh! Women's Store

What Do Vibrator Warnings Like 'Do Not Use On Unexplained Calf Pain' Mean?

The Weirdest & Wildest Vibrator Warnings We’ve Ever Read Here at Sh!, we've read thousands (seriously, thousands) of vibrator instruction manuals over the years....
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5 Reasons for Using Remote Control Vibrators - Sh! Women's Store

5 Reasons for Using Remote Control Vibrators

For couples, a fun first step into the world of sex toys is playing with a remote control vibrator together. A remote control vibe...
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Which is the Best Vibrator? - Sh! Women's Store

Which is the Best Vibrator?

The most common question we get is: "Which is the best vibrator?" Customers are somewhat disappointed when we explain that there is no easy answer....
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Q&A: Is it me or my vibrator? - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: Is it me or my vibrator?

Hi, I have been using a basic vibrator, and have climaxed after vaginal penetration, I find it mildly painful to remove the vibrator. I don't...
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Q&A: My Girlfriend Only Orgasms With A Vibe - Sh! Women's Store

Q&A: My Girlfriend Only Orgasms With A Vibe

Hello, I have been dating my girlfriend for about 9 months and she is only able to come using a vibrator. She tells me...
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