Dear Sh! Sometimes my boyfriend’s penis won’t fit inside me. What is wrong? Hi there, Your ladygarden is an amazing organ that is expandable (rather than being an open space) so it’s unlikely that your boyfriend is too big. Just think what happens during childbirth… If his penis ‘doesn’t fit’, your body is probably not … Continue reading Q&A: His Penis Doesn’t Fit Inside Me
Dear Sh! When we’re both up for pegging, my girlfriend and I enjoy using a Twista dildo in our strap-on for a bit of pegging anal play. Even though we use loads of lube and take plenty of time, I’m getting the feeling that the dildo itself is a bit long for me. I suppose that she … Continue reading Q&A: Pegging Dildo Too Big?
Dear Sh! I bought a vibrator a few months ago. Over the past few weeks the battery compartment has become extremely hot and takes a long time to cool down even after I have removed the three AA batteries. Why does my vibrator feel hot? I don’t use it a lot but would like it … Continue reading Q&A: Overheating Vibrator
Dear Sh! I am 27 and my fiance is 35. We have been together for 3 years. I have always complained to him that I have never enjoyed sex with him and this is leading to a painful stop in our relationship. My problem is that I have never had an orgasm in my life … Continue reading Q&A: Never Had an Orgasm
Hi, I was wondering if you could help. I have never had a problem in reaching an orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but my legs have to be together and rigid …this brings on a mind-blowing multiple orgasm (especially with the Pocket Rocket Vibrator), but when my partner either performs oral sex on me or stimulates my … Continue reading Q&A: Need Legs Together to Orgasm?
Hi, I’m looking for a harness that’s ok for men to wear to give their partner double penetration i.e. there’s a space for a man’s penis and space for a dildo as well. Also my partner would like to use a harness for either single penetration or double penetration on another woman. Any ideas? Hi … Continue reading Q&A: Man Using a Strap-On for Double Penetration?
Dear Sh! I have different orgasms with my husband and vibrator! I normally “orgasm” when having sex with my hubby, I have what I’ve recently found out is known as “female ejaculation“. Now I have recently purchased my first vibrator – a rabbit – WOW why didn’t I buy one before now (age 31!)? Well, … Continue reading Q&A: Different Orgasms?
Dear Sh! Whilst making love, my lover likes me to slip a finger in their ass but my nails are long and I’m worried I’ll hurt them – Have you got any advice or tips on how to satify my partner, without doing any harm? Thanks Tabby Dear Tabby Good question! And it’s really … Continue reading Q&A: How to Ass-Finger with Long Nails?
Dear Sh! Please could you give me some advice on which is best toy for anal sex – a butt plug or a dildo? I’m kind of new to all this and would appreciate some advice. Thanks in advance… Alex Hi Alex, So, choosing the right kind of sex toy for anal play depends … Continue reading Q&A: Best Toy for Anal Sex: Butt Plug or Dildo?
The history of the vibrator has skipped between the medical and the porn world since it’s invention in Victorian times. But it’s really in the last 15 years that vibrators have come out of the closet and have been embraced as the fabulous playthings they really are. Before this, a woman using a vibrator was … Continue reading Why Buy a Vibrator?