Taking the plunge and buying your very first sex toy is exciting and a little bit scary – what if you don’t like it? Or what if you like it too much?! (We promise that “liking it too much” is a not thing when it comes to pleasure, so no need to worry about that!) … Continue reading Top 5 Sex Toys for Newbies
Dear Sh! I wonder if you can help. My partner and I would like to try nipple clamps, but I have pretty sensitive nipples so could you advise on which would be the best type for me? Hi there, If you have sensitive nipples/breasts, we’d say go easy with nipple clamps, buy an adjustable set … Continue reading Q&A: Nipple Clamps & Sensitivity
Dear Sh! I’ve just been told I have something called vaginismus. I’ve spent years wondering why I couldn’t have proper sex with boyfriends (and usually getting dumped because of it). I’ve never heard of vaginismus before, and it sounds pretty bad! I was told to get myself a dilating kit for vaginismus treatment. Can you … Continue reading Q&A: Vaginismus
Dear Sh! I think I have an abnormally tiny clit. I have never come very easily and NEVER through oral sex and it was only when I slept with a woman that she commented what a tiny clit I have. I guess this is my problem. Does anyone know of anything that can help with … Continue reading Q&A: Tiny Clit
Dear Sh! My Girlfriend doesn’t want sex without showering first. She won’t have it, but I really I like her in her natural, just-home state. What can I do? Hi there, While some of us are happy to strip off and get down to it after a long day at the office, or a long … Continue reading Q&A: Sex Without Showering
Dear Sh! My girlfriend and I were wondering – would a vibrating dildo be good for us to use during strap-on pegging? Any advice you can give us would be appreciated. Hi there, Having a vibrating dildo (the vibrating version of our own Silicone Dildos does mean that you have the possibility of more stimulation – … Continue reading Q&A: Strap on Vibrating Dildo for Pegging
Dear Sh! My clitoris is so sensitive it cannot be directly touched, to the annoyance of my lover! I can have vaginal orgasms but cannot masturbate in the clitoral area as it feels uncomfortable… Help! What can I do or use to stimulate my clitoris or make it less sensitive? Hi there, Many women, no matter how … Continue reading Q&A: Sensitive Clit
Dear Sh! My girlfriend and I are looking for a vibrator that is quiet, stylish and safe. It must look good, not stink to high heaven of rubber and not cause any itching. The last one we used caused some irritation when we used it and it smelt vile, which was off-putting in itself. And … Continue reading Q&A: Recommend a Vibrator?
Dear Sh! Could you please advise a 62-year old widow (with neither the desire nor the prospect of “finding another man”) on the best vibrator to buy? I’m completely new to this market and I’ve looked through your website, and am confused by the range available. I’m tempted by a Rabbit-style Vibrator or a simple Finger vibe but would … Continue reading Q&A: Rabbit or Finger Vibe?
Dear Sh! After having a laproscapy and finding out that I have problems with my ovaries, sex is obviously painful. I’m trying to find a gel that numbs internally. The only thing that is slightly close is the gel inside Durex special condoms (but can’t use them as allergic to latex), I’m only 23 and … Continue reading Q&A: Painful Sex / Intercourse