Lesbian Class Blog Post

What to expect from our lesbian sex classes

If you’re keen to explore sex in an open, friendly environment where questions are always welcome, our educational sex classes are a great option for you.

Learning about sex and finding out the things that you want to can be intimidating, but it really doesn’t have to be.

Read on to find out more about what you can expect to discover when you attend one of our lesbian sex classes.

Who are the lesbian sex classes for?

We know how scary (and empowering!) it can feel to be newly out or ready to take it a step further with a special someone, which is why we are here to answer any and all questions that you might have.

Just because the title is ‘lesbian sex class’, please don’t think you’re going to be refused entry if you identify differently. We endeavor for each of our classes to be all-encompassing, which is why whether you are bisexual, pansexual, fluid, or straight but keen to try something new, you’ll be warmly welcomed by our friendly team.

Cis woman or trans woman makes no difference – if you identify as a woman who is interested in getting hot & bothered with other women, this class is for you.

Oh, also – there is no shaming of any kind allowed in our classes. The butchest of all butches to the femmest of all femmes, and everyone in between, is welcome. (Swooning at dapper waistcoats or sparkly nails is all par for the course at Sh!)

What will be covered during the class?

You’ll be glad to know that throughout the course of this class, all of the important stuff will be covered.

You’ll learn how to practice safer sex, an area that we don’t think receives half the attention that it should when it comes to sex between women.

We’ll talk about the importance of smooth fingernails as well as the best ways to use lube to enhance all sex play. We’ll talk fingers and tongues, and how to work out what she really likes.

Do you teach people about the female body?

Vulva PuppetNaturally, no woman-on-woman sex class would be complete without a bright focus on the female anatomy. Expect to learn about juicy hot spots, with special attention being paid to the clitoris and the G-spot. This happens with pictures, diagrams and more hands-on teaching with the help of our plush vulva ‘Rosie’.

After all, these two spots can create intense magic, so it’s important you feel clued up on how they work! (We’ll offer each guest to feel for Rosie’s G-spot, but you don’t have to take part in this if it makes you uncomfortable.)

What about positions?

We want to ensure guests know that sex doesn’t have to focus on penetration in order to be enjoyable, and the positions we talk about are more about bumping & grinding together. Penetration with fingers or toys are optional and not necessary for a great time.

And talking about toys; we’ll show a cherry-picked selection of small size sex toys that you and a partner can have fun exploring together.

Rounding things up

As mentioned above, we like to ensure that our classes are as open as possible, which is why we encourage people to ask any and all of the questions that they want to. Common questions include “is it possible to have too much sex” and “why does she/I get so sore when we have lots of sex” as well as questions about whether or not you should shave your pubic hair off before getting intimate with another woman.


Spanking Paddles

Best Sex Classes for Couples

Trying out new things with partner who is just as excited about new or different ways of experiencing pleasure as you are, is one of the sexiest things you’ll ever do as a couple. It’s exhilarating, a turn on of sensational proportions.

But even so, however into it you both are, sometimes things go wrong.

Sex can go wrong for many reasons, as we’re sure you know, but one of the most common – and dangerous – reasons is not knowing what you’re doing, but giving it an enthusiastic go anyway.

This is how people end up in hospital with sex-related injuries.

With a little bit of know-how on what you’re about to do, you can avoid the most common mistakes.

Coming along to a sex class at Sh! will set you up for many a-night of pleasure.

Our classes are led by our friendly and knowledgeable team, some of whom have certainly made their own mistakes along the way – because this is how you learn (never use Vaporub instead of lube, for example – ouch!).

Between them, our team have vast experience and they’ll share this with you: what to focus on, what to avoid and how to approach a shy or reluctant lover with new ideas without intimidating them…

Strap On & Pegging Class

This should be easy enough, right? You strap on a dildo and thrust away until one – or preferably  both – of you reach an earth shattering climax. Easy peasy!

Well, no. Let’s back up a bit.

Choosing a strap-on that will work for you both, as well as the kind of sex you have in mind, needs thinking about. Do you need a harness that’ll fit you both, or just one of you? Is the dildo for vaginal play, anal play or perhaps both?

Late 19th-century painting by Édouard-Henri Avril showing the use of strap-on dildo

Choosing the right size & shape dildo is trickier than it sounds, but in our Strap-On & Pegging class you’ll be encouraged to think about what ‘ideal’ means for you.

And when it comes to actually using the strap-on, you need to know about anatomy and positions, and what to do if a female partner has her uterus tilting backwards…

Lesbian Sex Class

How to Choose & Use a Dildo (For Lesbian Sex) adviceComing along to a class is a lot of fun and as you’re learning together, there is no need to worry about your partner ‘knowing more’ or being more experienced: it’s a fun evening out with someone you want to have great sex with!

In this class, you’ll learn about female anatomy, safer sex between women and how to pleasure your girl in a number of exciting ways.

There’s also time for Q&A, and our fab team will answer your questions openly & honestly.

Bedroom Bondage

FSOG created a wave of new kinksters, which is great, but many couples got it wrong and ended up in potentially dangerous situations simply because they didn’t know how to avoid common mistakes (never use cable ties!).

In our Bedroom Bondage class, we spend a good amount of time talking about safety, consent & negotiation before a fun practical takes place. You’ll get a chance to build your confidence as both tops and bottoms – because we like to switch it up.

Spanking Class

spankingFocusing on sensual impact play rather than pain, our Spanking Erotic Class offers a safe space to experiment with paddles, whips and crops.

Highlighting the necessity of knowing areas safe for spanking, consent and how to control the bottom’s arousal vs pain, because going too far is never an option, this is an excellent class for newbies.

All of our classes are fully dressed, in case you’re wondering, and the ticket price includes bubbles & cake (or tea & cake for non-drinkers).

  • By ‘couples’ we mean F/F and F/M couples (friends are absolutely fine too).
  • By ‘female’ we include Trans women, and by ‘male’ we include Trans men.
  • We regret we are unable to offer classes for M/M couples.