Sex Shop Diaries: Eggciting Times

Sex Shop Diaries: Eggciting Times

“I tried one of them rabbit vibrators once, but I didn’t like it…it got tangled in my pubes.”

Rabbit vibrators, and all versions thereof, may be the most popular sex toys in the entire world, but that doesn’t mean they work for everyone. The comment above just goes to show that one rabbit in the bush isn’t always better than two in the hand… Rabbit vibrators aren’t usually classified as Health & Safety Risks, but we suppose that depends on how it is used. :p

Rabbit Ear Vibrator - Used purely for clitoral stimulation, where it thrills the sides of the clitoris..

And talking about rabbits, this super-cute, ergonomically-shaped bunny vibe with 10 settings is a perfect Easter treat and has been very popular with customers in the shop this week. It’s designed for external use only, and if you work it out per orgasm, you’ll find the value is *much* better than any money spent on a chocolate egg…

I tried that Tenga Egg. I didn’t like it.” The male customer looks at our surprised faces – this is unexpected: a man who doesn’t enjoy a session with a Tenga Egg? Really?!  We’re keen to find out more and ask him what it was that didn’t work – not being penis-owners ourselves, we have always imagined that Tenga Eggs are literally the best sex toys for men ever. “It chafed my penis,” he replies.

It takes a few horrified seconds before the penny drops and we ask if he used the lube that is handily packed inside every Tenga Egg. “No, I didn’t use the lube,” he replies and wanders off before we have a chance to ask more questions. Suddenly the chafing makes a lot of sense – he’s rubbed himself raw by not using the all-important lubricant… Ouch! Always add a generous drizzle of lube, people!

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We are very excited about the Easter Egg Hunts we have planned for Good Friday and Easter Saturday – we’ve been hatching clues for teams to hunt Tenga Eggs in our shop in Hoxton. We’ll keep the competing teams plenty lubricated with glasses of fizz as they hunt high & low, and the winning team will walk away with a hamper of sex toys to keep them occupied for the rest of the Easter holidays.

Fun Fact: it is a rare day when no one buys sex toys, but Easter Sunday is the annual day of no sex. No one (we repeat: no one) buys sex toys on Easter Sunday. It is the one day of year when family commitments & religion wins over the pleasures of the flesh.

But then it’s Bank Holiday Monday and all is well again.

Bank Holidays do seem to heighten arousal, and strap-ons and kink paraphernalia practically fly off the shelves. We find that couples are keen to try new things on Bank Holidays (or as we like to call them, “Bonk Holidays”) and many customers reach for the butt plugs, for example. Whatever you get up to over the weekend, we hope you have an eggciting time!

We’ll leave you with this gem from a rather thirsty new member of staff:

Newbie: “Ooh, they look nice! What are they? Are they energy drinks??”

Manager: “No, they are masturbation cups for men…”

Tenga Soft Tube Cup £14

 

 

 

 

 

 

Top 5 Sex Toys for Newbies

Top 5 Sex Toys for Newbies

Taking the plunge and buying your very first sex toy is exciting and a little bit scary – what if you don’t like it? Or what if you like it too much?!  (We promise that “liking it too much” is a not thing when it comes to pleasure, so no need to worry about that!)

We have compiled a list of our Top 5 Sex Toys for Newbies: whatever the style of toy you think you might like, we have something that’ll suit your desires.

These toys are all rated 5-star on our website, so you can relax in the knowledge that someone has already bought one of these toys and thought it was ace!

All the toys on our Top 5 list are of course body-safe and very affordable – because a great orgasm shouldn’t cost an arm & a leg!

First Sex Toy For Clitoral Stimulation

Most women need clitoral stimulation in order to have an orgasm. It’s no surprise – the clitoris has around 8000 nerve-endings on its very tip so it is a massively important part for pleasure. An estimated 75% of women say they need the right kind of stimulation in the right place on the clitoris for the right length of time to orgasm – and that can be hard work! Which is where a great vibrator comes in. 🙂

The Love Bullet Lipstick Vibe is a bestseller both in our shop in London, and with our website customers.top5_4

Its discreet design and petite size means you can take it everywhere, including on holidays. Store it in your make up bag and no one will be the wiser!

Despite the small size, the Lipstick packs a punch – it’s incredibly powerful and with 8 different settings to explore, you are almost spoilt for choice. This vibrator is USB rechargeable, so you can easily charge it up whilst you are working or surfing your favourite social media sites.

Oh, and it’s fully waterproof!

First Sex Toy For G-spot Stimulation

The G-spot is an area located a couple of inches up on the inside of the vagina. There are doubters, but we say “bah!” to them – the G-spot is an actual area and with the right kind of stimulation, marvelously deep orgasms could come your way!

Our Mini Pink G-spot Vibe is small, slim and quiet, but works top5_1
wonders when applied to the sensitive G-spot area. The bump at the tip of the Mini Pink is there to help find and stimulate the G-spot. A good trick to try is “juicing” the G-spot – rather than sliding the vibe in and out at breakneck speed (often seen in bad porn), slowly work it back & forth on the G-spot itself. The G-spot likes firm pressure, so don’t be shy.

It may feel like you need to go for a pee which can be distracting, but relax into the sensations and you might find that waves of pleasure soon follow.

First Rabbit-Style Vibrator

Rabbit vibrators of old were mainly made out of less-than-great materials and for some unfathomable reason, designed to be huge.

top5_2These days, Rabbit vibrators come in body-safe materials and a range of sizes to suit all tastes. The 5-star toy we’ve added to our Top 5 list of sex toys is Cute Rabbit, a dual-stimulation vibe made from strokeable silicone, which is USB rechargeable and fully waterproof.

The internal shaft is short and smooth, and delivers delicious pressure to the G-spot.  The clit stimulator, which has its own motor, reaches over and offers direct stimulation to the clit.

Dual stimulation toys, i.e toys with a shaft for internal pleasure as well as a built-in clitoral pleaser, are great for bringing on what’s known as blended orgasms: pleasure waves from both clit and G-spot simultaneously. *swoooon*

First Sex Toy For Couples

The Ovo Cock Ring is a stretchy vibrating ring for couples. Worn around the base of the manhood, it enhances erections and provides additional thrills during penetration.top5_3

Ovo is a a little gem for beginners – it is so easy to use. Add a little water-based lube to his semi-erect shaft for comfort, before sliding the ring over the penis and all the way down. The ring stops back-flow of blood and makes the erection both firmer and more sensitive. Switch on the one-speed bullet before she positions herself on top – this way she can grind against the vibration in ways that feel best for her.

Cock rings are the perfect accessory for introducing toys into the bedroom; small and non-threatening, and with enough functions to keep you both happy.

First Sex Toy For Anal Play

Cute beginners butt plug with removable mini bullet – perfect for first time anal play.  This small, ergonomically curved butt plug has a sensual, shapely body designed in harmony with the curves of your body and a narrow neck for comfort.top5_5

The tiny vibrating bullet fits into a hole hidden in the base, and the vibrations can help relax tense tushies.

A lot (a lot!) of people enjoy anal play and even more people fantasize about trying it. The trick is to go slow and use lots of lube – preferably a lube designed for the delicate rectal membranes.

A butt plug offers fullness and pressure, and the additional vibrations delivers super-thrilling sensations.

So there you have it – our Top 5 Sex Toys for Newbies. Only one question remains: which sex toy will YOU choose?

 

 

And the Best Vibrator is…

And the Best Vibrator is…

The most common question asked in our  London sex shop is “Which is the best vibrator?

Customers are somewhat disappointed when we explain that there is no easy answer – when you have a choice of a cherry-picked selection of all the very best toys the industry has to offer, there is not one single toy that is better than all the rest. They are all great!

What works for one person won’t necessarily work in the same way for someone else as desire and pleasure are very subjective.

Your friend may love the latest ‘MonsterDongDildo’ and it might work fantastically well for her – but if you are not into over-sized playthings without vibration, it’s not going to work for you.

Instead of pointing to the latest or most expensive toy (because most expensive doesn’t always equal best), we answer the question with one of our own:

What would you like your vibrator to do for you?

The answer may seem obvious (duh!), but actually requires a little thought and perhaps an internal dialogue with your vag. Would  like an external toy, or an internal toy, or a vibrating toy or a toy that warms up? So many questions!

Are Clitoral Vibrators The Best?

Clitoral vibrators are great. About 75% of women say they need clitoral stimulation, in just the right way, to have an orgasm. This may mean a continuous high-pitched buzzing or fun patterns like pulsing – it depends on what your clitoris likes (keep for future reference: your clit should always have a say in the vibrator you choose).

You won’t know what you like until you try – it’s  a bit like choosing a new dish at a favorite restaurant: you have a sneaky suspicion that you’re going to love it, but until you’ve had that first mouthful you won’t know for sure.

A small clit vibe with a selection of settings is a great choice for someone who doesn’t necessarily want anything for internal use, or someone looking for something a li’l extra during penetrative sex.

Are G-Spot Vibrators The Best?

G-spot vibrators are amazing, especially if you love G-spot stimulation or are keen on trying to coax the G-spot out of its hiding place to work some magic.

G-spot vibes have been designed for internal use, but there is no reason why they can’t also offer clitoral pleasure. Just because it has a shaft doesn’t mean you are limited to using it only on the one pleasure (G) spot…

Experiment with you chosen vibe – vibrations can be great for stuffed sinuses (true!), sore necks or tired feet. The only limit to what sex toys can do is your imagination. 🙂

Are Rabbit Vibrators The Best?

Rabbit vibrators are the bestselling sex toys in the whole world – more women have had their first orgasm, or their most intense orgasm, with a rabbit-style vibrator than any other type.

A rabbit style vibe is a toy with dual stimulators: a shaft that goes inside the vagina and a clitoral stimulator that reaches over and teases the clit.

The internal shaft often comes with an additional feature such as rotating beads, rippling or pulsing which can elevate the status of the pleasure enjoyed to ‘mind-blowing’.

Dual style vibes can look a little bulky and intimating  in comparison to small clit vibes, but they are great toys and if you are curious – try one like this slimmer Rabbit vibe.

Are Waterproof Vibes The Best?

Yes, they are – if you prefer pleasure in the bath or shower.  For many, the only private time they get to enjoy involves the bathroom, so a waterproof vibrator can be a godsend.

Not all sex toys are submergible so it’s always best to check a toy’s tech spec to find out if this is important for you. However, if you aren’t planning on jiggling your jewel under the waterline, it might not matter so much.

Are Rechargeable Vibrators The Best?

Categorically, yes. Plugging your favourite muffin buffer into a USB port or wall socket is a fantastic way of keeping it ready for action at all times, because you never know when the mood for a ‘menage a moi’ is going to strike. Batteries run out at the most inopportune moments, and anyone who has been there, done that will agree a rechargeable vibe is the way forward.

Again, the choice between batteries or socket is subjective and it could be that you prefer batteries – which is perfectly ok. 🙂

Are High-Powered Vibrators The Best?

Not necessarily – for someone who likes a gentle buzz, a strong vibrator can be a real mood killer. Before making your selection, try the intensity of the vibe on the tip of your nose: you’ll get a good indication of the power it’s packing.

If you aren’t sure, we’d recommend choosing a vibrator with intensity controls. Going from gentle to intense, and then back to gentle can be a fantastically sexy way of teasing yourself to incredible orgasms. Work those buttons, gurl!

Are Luxury Vibrators The Best?

Like many things in life, you get what you pay for. We have seen number of unfavorable reviews of the £1-vibe from a well-know highstreet retailer, with many deeming it “rubbish”. This is understandable – a vibrator costing only £1 clearly hasn’t been built to last. It might even conk out during first use – it happens.

High-end vibrators like Lelo are built to last, if not a life time, at least a good few years. The motors are near-silent, the materials used are body-safe, the designs are beautiful…  Lelo toys are simply stunning, but comes at a hefty price.

Choosing a mid-priced vibrator, like our range of Sh! toys, you are guaranteed a great product at purse-friendly prices. An orgasm doesn’t have to cost an arm and a leg – but £1 is perhaps unlikely to get you there…

There is no one vibrator that is “the best” – but considering the points above, you’ll be able to confidently choose a vibrator that is best for you.

 

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10 Facts You May Not Know About the Rabbit Vibrator

Over the past two decades, the Rabbit has soared to the top of every sex toy wish-list, with millions of women (and men!) all over the world experiencing the intense sensations these vibrating toys deliver.

But how well do you actually know your Rabbit? Read our Rabbit facts to find out…

1.The Rabbit was one of the first dual-action vibrators…and the first to address real women’s pleasure.

US sex toy company Vibratex was the first company to introduce these now famous toys, which deliver simultaneous internal and clitoral pleasure. Before this, the vast majority of vibrators on the market purely internal – either medical-looking cylindrical types or ‘realistic ‘ ones shaped like penises.  There were precious few designed for clitoral pleasure and none for dual pleasure! In other words, with 80% of women requiring clitoral stimulation to orgasm, vibrator manufacturers really weren’t concerning themselves with real women’s pleasure…

2. Japan is the Birthplace of the Rabbit…

The first ever Rabbit vibrators were made in Japan – but Japanese culture frowned upon ‘realistic’ vibrators, so manufacturers made them in cutesy animal shapes and bright, fun colours.

3. The Rabbit is Lucky in Japan…

It may have been a lucky co-incidence ….but the bunny ears design of the clitoral stimulator is why the Rabbit has proved to be a lucky charm for women the world over. The reason? The special way the rabbit ears stimulate the sides of the clitoris, where most women experience most clitoral pleasure, rather than directly on it, which often can feel  too intense to be pleasurable. Add to this the massaging sensation of the beads, which stimulate the most sensitive area inside and POW! – many women experience the amazing experience of a ‘blended orgasm’.

4. Originally there were many more animal vibrators hopping about…

In 1983, when the Vibratex Rabbit first hit the market in the US, it had been preceded by the Beaver, the Kangaroo and the Turtle – no, we’re not making this up! Each of them had an shaft for internal stimulation and a clitoral stimulator in a differnet shape. Needless to say, the Kangaroo wasn’t a runaway hit – but the Rabbit sure was!

5. The Original Rabbit Vibrator had Cords and Wires

It wasn’t until 1997 that Rabbits had integrated battery compartment incorporated within the actual vibrator, which certainly made it a more streamlined toy.  Before this, all Rabbit vibrators had a separate battery pack, as they neede a lot of power to deliver both the rotating and vibrating functions..

Rabbits with separate battery packs may seem clumsy or create wire-tangles  but they also have their advantages. A separate power-pack means you can operate it with eyes closed, controls in your hand, rather than fumbling around between your legs for the speed buttons! A separate battery pack also makes it super-easy to hand over controls to your partner 😉

6. Sh! Named it ‘Jessica Rabbit Vibrator’

In 1992, long before Rampant or Jack hopped into the world and before the Vibratex rabbit was known in the UK, we discovered a rabbit vibrator gathering dust on a back shelf of a sex toy warehouse.  It was called ‘Roger Rabbit’ ( in true sex-industry double entendre!) but we renamed it ‘Jessica Rabbit’ and started telling the women of the UK about this amazing double stimulation vibe – Sh!’s Jessica Rabbit has been featured in hundreds of women’s magazines and TV shows.

Wikipedia even name-checks the rabbit as “Jessica Rabbit vibrator” and most mainstream online sex toy stores also use the ‘Jessica name to promote their own rabbit-style vibrators, but  Sh! was the original Jessica Rabbit!

7. Sex and the City made the Rabbit Vibe famous (Ok – you may know this one!)

The Rabbit had already developed a cult following by the time it appeared on Sex and the City in 1998. The Sex and the City producers visited a sex shop in New York to find out which was the best-selling vibrator of the time – the Rabbit Pearl was the runaway favourite, and it featured in one of the most popular episodes of the series. The Rabbit had gone mainstream!

8. Rabbit Vibrators are an A-list favourite

Back in 2005, actress Eva Longoria sang the praises of her faithful Rabbit in an interview which appeared in a national magazine. She  told the world that she gave Rabbit vibrators to all of her girlfriends for their birthdays – because she believes the best gift she could give them was an orgasm! Amen, Eva!

9. They battled a ban

In 2008, the Attorney General of Alabama announced he was going to enforce a sex toy ban across the entire state – yikes! He believed it was immoral to use a sex toy, and he suggested that anyone caught should be arrested. In response, thousands of women began mailing their vibrators to the Attorney General’s office, and the bid to ban the Rabbit faded into obscurity.

10. The Rabbit is the best-selling vibrator of all time

It’s estimated that  over five million dual-action vibrators are sold every year. Gosh, that’s a LOT of bunnies hopping around dispensing pleasure!

There may be millions around and around quite literally hundreds of models on the market to choose from, before you get yourself into a rabbit fever, essentially there are still only 4 different styles.

With every rabbit you’ll get the bunny clitoral stimulator – it’s the shaft-type that will differ;

From there, you can choose a Rabbit that’s rechargeable, remote- remote controlled, waterproof or a whole host of other nifty benefits…

The main thing to be aware about is the material your Rabbit Vibrator is made from. One that is made from Jelly is likely to contain Phthalates, a body of chemicals we’d advise you steer clear of, which is why we only offer Rabbit Vibrators in body-safe materials such as silicone & TPR.

Like to know more? Hop over to our advice about choosing and using a Rabbit Vibrator

The Rabbit is still the top-selling vibrator of all time – thirty years after its original release, the Rabbit is yet to be eclipsed!

Q&A

Q&A: I Want Better Orgasms!

Dear Sh!

I’m so disappointed with my orgasms – they are nothing like the earth-shaking orgasms I keep reading about… Mine are merely little blips – nothing that would register on the Richter-scale. I want to come harder!


Hi There,

Many thanks for your email. This is something we hear regularly – women wanting better orgasms – stronger and longer. Here’s how to go about amping up the intensity of your orgasms:

For better orgasms, think BBC!

No, we’re not talking about the national treasure that is telly without the adverts, but Build-up; Breathing and Continuity.

Focusing on these 3 things should help you learn to take your orgasms from ‘little blips’  to ‘blimey O’Riley!’  but remember the key word here is ‘learn’ – there are no fast tracks and tackling the process with grim determination won’t do you any favours.

Learning about our body’s responses is a life long journey, as our bodies, our confidence, and responses to both, all change over time. For many women,  responses can differ throughout the month, in relation to menstrual cycles; what works around your period, maybe a total turn-off mid-cycle, or visa versa!

Think of it as a journey or exploration and  discovery, rather than being results-driven, and you won’t go far wrong…

Build Up to Orgasmic Bliss

Quickies can deliver instant gratification, just like a fast-food burger can quell hunger, but for a real feast you need courses!

The longer the build up, the better, stronger and more long-lasting the orgasm.

Love Balls can help build arousal & strengthen your PC Muscle
Love Balls can help build arousal & strengthen your PC Muscle

 

So, don’t just dive for your clitoris, with a vibrator on at high-power or your fingers in ‘this is how I do it’ mode.

Build arousal with fantasy and lots of warm-up play.

You could even start better-orgasm build-up by wearing loveballs during the day.

They will help strengthen your PC Muscle, Having strong PC’s and learning how to flex them during sex is the basis of all multiple orgasm techniques.

 


Breathing Life into Your Orgasm

You may not be conscious of it, but holding your breath or taking small, shallow breaths can really impede orgasm.

Concentrate on breathing deep-down into your body, as this will increase oxygen, blood-flow and lubrication which in turn increases sensations, receptiveness. relaxation and your ability to really ‘let go’.

As you inhale,  really focus on taking your breath right down to your lady-garden and exhale the same way… This will naturally make you take long, deep breaths and have the added benefit of making you hone-in on the sensations there.


 

Continuity – Most of us need uninterrupted stimulation to have blockbuster orgasms.

This doesn’t just mean physical stimulation.

Recent MRI studies on the female brain have shown what women have known forever; that all the ‘right’ buttons can be pressed, but, if a worry or distraction pops up into our head ( Can the neighbors hear? Is that the kids back from school? Damn! I didn’t pay the gas bill! …) it can be a sudden off-switch to our orgasm.

 

Fill your head with sex, and there’s less room for worries or distractions…

Here’s where fantasy come’s in. Visual porn can arousing for many women ( and a great trigger for women who find orgasm really difficult or impossible) but finding the right sort of feel-good porn, isn’t that easy….

 

Reading erotica help turn all thoughts in your head to sex....
Reading erotica help turn all thoughts in your head to sex….

 

So we recommend reading erotica to really fire up your fantasies and help focus your brain on the sexy stuff.

You don’t need to actually read during solo sex  ( one-handed sessions can be tricky to co-ordinate!) but a hot book or reading other women’s sexual fantasies can provide thrilling material to re-run in your head.

In terms of touch, whilst it’s great to play around with different sensations and positions during build-up..

Once into the home run, don’t deviate from the sensation that are really doing it for you.

Of course we’re all different, so this is not a hard and fast rule ( there’s NO hard and fast rules in pleasure!) but it seems to be something shared by a lot of women – a change of touch or intensity at the wrong moment, can be a hand-brake turn that breaks the spell.

Most of us need uninterrupted stimulation of our clitoris to orgasm and fingers can tire, especially, if like many women, you need a lot of stimulation, for a long time…

We have a couple of products, we’d recommend in any quest for a better orgasm, which have stamp of approval from the many women who have tried them.

Rabbit vibrators have given more women, more orgasms than any other vibrator
Rabbit vibrators have given more women, more orgasms than any other vibrator

 

 

Rabbit vibrators are famous for ‘blended orgasms’ – an orgasm that feels like it comes from both inside (vaginally) and out (clitorally) at the same time.

They deliver lots of different sensations so, so they can help free you from being stuck in an orgasm rut.

 

 

 

The Womanizer is a powerful clitoral toy that uses vacuum/ suction to amazing effect
The Womanizer £129

The Womanizer is totally different.

It’s a powerful clitoral toy that uses vacuum to amazing effect.

From all the women who’ve tried it, we’ve heard the same feedback – ‘WOW!’

It also seems to deliver a totally different kind of orgasm. Using strong suction to pull in the clitoris, it make her perky and super receptive to pleasure almost instantly and draws our a deep-feeling clitoral orgasm in no time

 

Both these toys are fabulous for giving women powerful orgasms.

Perhaps easier… but probably not longer as,  the collective feedback is that they are super effective at  their jobs!

Sh! Pure Lube £10 - Lube enhances all rabbit vibrator play, increasing glide, sensuality and intensity...
Lube enhances all play

 

No matter how wet you get naturally, lube is the best enhancement to pleasure you can buy, as whether with fingers, penis or toys, it increases glide, sensuality and intensity.

For added zing, there’s stimulating lube

And for increasing  bloodflow to your most orgasmic spots, there’s clitoral stimulating gel and G-Spot stimulating gel.

Finally to explore all the different ways to orgasm, there’s The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm. Written by Mikaya Heart.

 

She’s also written a How to Have Stronger Orgasms in 10 Steps guide for us.

Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women
Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women £12.99

 

Have fun!

Team Sh!

How to use a g-Spot Vibrator

How to Choose a Rabbit Vibrator

Whether called Jessica Rabbit, Jack Rabbit, Rampant Rabbit or Rabbit Pearl, rabbit vibrators are, for many women, an amazing erotic discovery…. and that’s the reason why they are the most famous vibrator in history!

But how on earth do you choose a Rabbit Vibrator, especially if you are new to it’s charms?

We’ve cherry-picked from huge range of Rabbit and rabbit-style sex toys on the market today, to bring you the best of their kind, but still, we know that understanding the benefits of different styles can be overwhelming, so read on to find best rabbit vibrator bunny for you.

Rabbit Vibes come in 2 models; Rabbit Ear Clitoral Vibrators and Dual Stimulation.

Rabbit Ear Vibrator - Used purely for clitoral stimulation, where it thrills the sides of the clitoris..
Rabbit Ear Vibrator – Purely for clitoral stimulation, where it thrills the sides of the clitoris..

Rabbit Ear Clitoral Vibrators

Not what most people thing of,  when they think about buying a rabbit but if there is one thing women rave about, it’s the way the two bunny ears deliver intense, but diffused, vibrations to the super responsive sides of the clitoris rather than directly on it.  No wonderas this is the area of the clitoris that most women are most responsive to…

In fact, even with a classic, dual-stim Rabbit, a surprising number of women ( around 40%)  don’t use the shaft portion during masturbation. We’ve lost count of the amount of times we’ve heard ‘it’s ALL about the bunny!’ from beaming women in-store and it’s for these women we’ve selected some great clitoral-only rabbit ear vibes.



Fun Fact Q&A: Why does my rabbit have a bunny-shaped clitoral Stimulator?

We have Japanese Shogun law or simple custom ( it’s unclear exactly which) to thank for creating a toy that spoke to clitoral pleasure in this way. This law, or sensibility, decreed  sex toys should not be made to look like human genitals. Fast forward to the 1970’s and a Japanese manufacturer started to create the first vibrators with clitoral stims, and in line with custom ( or law!?), they were made to look like cute animals;  beavers, dophins and even humming birds… but it was the cute rabbit, and those divided bunny ears, that worked for most women – a total flook, perhaps, but a very happy ending!



 

Dual Stimlation Rabbit Vibrator - with clit stim + penetrative shaft designed for double pleasure and 'blended orgasm'
Dual Stimlation Rabbit Vibrator – with clit stim + penetrative shaft designed for double pleasure and ‘blended orgasm’

Dual Stimulation Rabbit Vibrators

This is the style most people think of, when they are  choosing a rabbit vibrator.

With a shaft for internal stimulation and an external clitoral stimulator, it is this style that is most likely to bring on a ‘blended orgasm’ – a type of orgasm that feels like it comes from both inside and outside, at the same time.

Apart from the essential clitoral stimulator, some of  best rabbit designs feature rotating beads or pearls, inside the shaft, which deliver massaging sensations vaginally.



Fun Fact Q&A: Why does my  Rabbit vibe have a face on it!? 

Look closely at many a rabbit vibe and you’ll notice, whist the shaft may look somewhat phallic, it’s actually a totem of a women with her (and its)  head sporting a lovely page-boy hairstyle, complete with coyly, smiling face.

This clearly harks back to that Japanese law/custom mentioned above – a creative way to create a  toy that may initially look quite phallic but gets around it  with some creative styling.

When we first discovered our first rabbit way back in 1993, it was called’Roger Rabbit’, in manner of all double-entendre sex toy names of the time. Once we saw that it was actually shaped like a woman, we re-christened it  and Jessica Rabbit was born. The rest is history…



What’s the Difference between Dual-Stimulation Rabbit Vibrators?

Since their popularity explosion, bunny vibrators have bred! Hundreds have come hopping onto the market, each claiming to be the best rabbit vibrator – many of which we’ve tried, and tested (and lots we’ve rejected!)

Dual-stim rabbits come in 3 styles:

Simple Rabbits

Feature a fixed, non-rotating shaft, along with the all important clitoral stimulator. Often small or slim, these offer easy, user-friendly penetration.

Simple Rabbit Vibes=Fixed ( non-rotating) shaft
Simple Rabbit Vibes = Fixed ( non-rotating) shaft. From £11

Top 3 Best-Selling Simple Rabbits:

Classic Rabbits

Feature a shaft that twirls around. They are often filled with beads or pearls and deliver massaging sensations.

Classic Rabbits have a rotating shaft, often filled with beads or pearls for massaging sensations
Classic Rabbits = Rotating, often beaded, shafts From £25

Most classic bunny vibrators feature the fabulous rotating beads and bunny ear clitoral simulators so loved by women. BUT! “What’s the difference between these rabbits?” – we hear you ask (it’s one of the most frequently asked questions in our London store).

Classic rabbit vibrators have rotating shafts with either pearl or metal beads inside

The very first rabbit vibrator resembled a sweetie machine, with colourful beads in a pocked at the base of the shaft, which massaged the vaginal entrance; an incredibly responsive area in most women.

Pearls feel more erratically massaging than metal beads and it’s this free-flowing sensation that many women prefer. The other advantage is that pearl shafts are not as ‘fixed’. This means you can, very gently and slightly, bend the shaft to give a wider arc as it twirls around…

 

Rabbit Vibrators with pearls in their shaft provide a more free-flowing, massaging sensation...
Rabbit Vibrators with pearls in their shaft provide a more pronounced massaging sensation…

Top 3 Best-Selling Pearl Rabbits:

 

 

 


 

 

Later models adopted fixed metal beads:  often further up the shaft. This makes the shaft more rigid and the massaging sensations more even and regular-feeling.

Rabbit Vibrators with with fixed metal beads in the shaft, provide a regular, even, massaging sensation inside.
Rabbit Vibrators with fixed metal beads in the shaft, provide a regular, even, massaging sensation inside.

 

 

Top 3 Best-Selling Rabbits with metal beads:

 

 


 

 

 Battery & Controls

Rabbit Vibrators with integrated batteries, housed in the main body are now the most common style and these compact designs offer more settings and sensations.
All-in-One Rabbit Vibrators are  compact designs that offer more settings & sensations.

 

Many people assume that rabbits with integrated batteries & controls  are better because there’s no wires.

Whilst they are more compact and neat, they can also be trickier to operate and heavier to hold than one with a separate batter/control pack.

But the positives outweigh the negatives.

Integrated rabbits are quieter and often deliver LOTS more sensations, including escalating and pulse settings, along with regular vibration and rotation, which is why the majority of rabbits we offer are these all-in-one styles.

 

 

 

A Rabbit Vibrator with a separate battery pack can make  concentrating on your fantasy easier…

Most rabbits these days have ditched the separate control unit, in favour of integrating the batteries into the main body of the vibrator.

The Rabbit Pearl is one of the last remaining, good-quality, rabbit vibrators to keep this feature and it does have its advantages.

  • The larger the batteries, the stronger and more long-lasting the power. This takes 3 x C batteries – no other rabbit takes such meaty batteries.
  • With several feet of cord running between the vibrator and the control unit, it’s great if you want to hand over the controls, or lie back, close your eyes and get into fantasy,  rather than scrabbling between your legs,  button twiddling!

 

 

Ultimate Thrusting Rabbit
Ultimate Thrusting Rabbit £44

 

Thrusting Rabbit is different: the beads move up and down inside the vibrator to deliver a unique thrusting sensation.

[There are bunny vibrators on the market that actually do piston up and down, but after much exhaustive testing, we found these tended to have a short lifespan which is why we don’t carry them]


 

 

 

Remote Rabbit Vibrator £87
Remote Rabbit Vibrator £87

 

Remote Control Rabbit Vibrator is, well, remote-controlled!

With a range of up to 25 feet, you can hand controls to your partner and let them take you on a journey of teasing sensation…. from afar.

Having said that….

All rabbits can be played together!

With your partner in charge of the sensations you receive, and with so many different sensations on offer, they can tease out a long-build orgasm, one that playing solo, you may not be able to stay the course ( the most common  ‘criticism’ we hear about rabbits is that they are just too damn effective!)

… and the longer the build-up, the stronger the orgasm.

 


 


 

Luxury Rabbits

Often don’t look like rabbits at all! Usually made of silicone and rechargeable, they are a modern-day alternative to the classic dual-stimulation design.

A luxury rabbit is an investment. If you already love the dual stimulation of a rabbit-style vibe but would like one with more modern styling they are a great buy, especially worked out orgasm per £. We’d generally recommend luxury bunnies as an upgrade, rather than a first-buy if you are a beginner, just starting out on an exploration of whether double-pleasure sensations are for you…

Luxury Rabbit Vibrators =  Fixed, Pulsing or Wave-Motion shaft. From £65

 

 

 

 

 

Top 3 Best-Selling Luxury Rabbits:

 

Despite the claims, silent rabbits don’t exist – sorry!

So, a quick word about rabbit volume. The bottom-line is that anything with a motor will emit a slight hum, even if it’s very quiet.

 ‘Almost-silent’ rabbits are generally luxury rabbits, with their superior build quality and materials, plus top quality motors and advanced technology all work to deliver

Simple Rabbits can also be be quiet and discreet, as these generally offer just vibration and don’t have the whirling shafts that require a lot of power to ensure an effective rotating motion.

It’s this twirling action that, especially if the motor also has to force beads or pearls around with it, that makes many rabbits audible (but worth it!) playthings. So for sensations over sound, we recommend you look at classic rabbits, then lock the door, turn up the music and enjoy!

Ridiculously noisy rabbits are rejected at Sh! and we select only audible ones that are worth the pay-off.

A bunny out of the box may sound loud, but…

The good news is that once a rabbit is cushioned inside you,  the noise is (ahem) ‘muffled’!

You can use the volume filter to whittle down rabbits into ‘quiet‘ ( [slight hum, not audible from across the room] and ‘medium’ [like a mobile phone vibrating, but unlikely to be heard from the next room] and in  on each product page, the Technical Info tab will tell you how the toy is rated for sound.


We carry only body-safe, phthalate-free rabbit vibrators in TPE/Elastomer or Silicone

But other companies do still stock rabbit vibrators made of Jelly: a soft, squishy sex toy material which is a mix of PVC and Phthalates (a questionable material which has raised health concerns)

If you do own a jelly rabbit, we recommend using a condom on it.

We’ve also seen (and rejected!) rabbits that claim to be made of silicone (the safest material for sex toys) when only a little silicone is mixed with the jelly.

If avoiding phthalates is, like us, important to you, we’d recommend doing the ‘sniff and feel’ test on any bunny you buy anywhere else. If, straight out of the box,  it smells strongly of chemicals or feels clammy it’s probably got phthalates in it …

Read More: The Rabbit: Design Icon

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How to Choose a Clitoral Vibrator

The size and shape of a clitoral vibrator is less important than the sensations it delivers.

Any vibrator can be used for clitoral pleasure and most women use their vibrator solely on or around their clitoris and vulva during masturbation. But we all have different sensitivities and responses, so getting the right kind of stimulation is key; A vibrator that is too powerful for one woman and desensitizes her might be just the thing for the next women, who needs strong intensity to get off.

So, when choosing a clitoral vibrator, it’s good to think about how much clitoral stimulation you need to become aroused or to orgasm.

If orgasms come easily to you through clitoral stimulation and you know the level of stimulation you enjoy; mild, medium, strong or wowser! – Use the ‘intensity’ filters (on the left hand side of our category pages) to take your pick of any  vibrator that takes your fancy.

If you are new to the whole idea of dedicated clitoral pleasure and have little idea of the kind of stimulation you might like, then we recommend exploring with your fingers and some lubricant first.

This way you can get some idea of the sensations you enjoy and how firmly or fluttery you might enjoy them.

If you are unsure of the kind of clitoral stimulation you enjoy, use your fingers and lube to explore and discover...
If you are unsure of the kind of clitoral stimulation you enjoy, use your fingers and lube to explore and discover…

 

It may seem like the most obvious statement in the book, but you will only achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation if that stimulation is pleasing to you!

In the same way that a milder vibe might be too subtle for some, a super powerful vibe can be a turn-off for for others. The wrong-type can lead to frustration or  even ( horrors!) vibrator-rejection but the thing to remember is, like women themselves, vibrators come in all sorts of intensities.

In general, vibrators with a ”higher pitched” vibration make for better clitoral toys and those with a lower, heavier, deeper vibration are better for penetration.

We have rated all our vibrators for these two types of intensity: High Intense  &   Deep Throbby.

DO YOU LIKE INTENSE CLITORAL STIMULATION?

For those who enjoy full-blast power, feel they need strong, firm clitoral stimulation or have reduced sensation ‘down there’, a vibrator with a ‘high intense’ rating is likely to be the best choice.

Vibrators with a ‘Strong’ or ‘Wowser’ rating are some of the most powerful vibes know to woman, and most likely to bring about a spontaneous clitoral orgasm.

Sh! Bullet Vibrator - £10 - Afordable, powerful and perfect for extra strong clitoral stimulation during sex
Sh! Bullet Vibrator – £10 – Afordable, powerful and perfect for extra strong clitoral stimulation during sex
Ultra 7 Egg Vibrator £30 Extreemly Powerful Vibrating Bullet: 7 Settings
Ultra 7 Egg Vibrator £30 – Extremely Powerful Vibrating Bullet: 7 Settings
Love Bullet Silver Lipstick £25
Love Bullet Silver Lipstick £25 – Discreet, Rechargeable Mini Vibe: 8 Vibrating Settings

 

 

Remember, whilst our clitoral vibrators have all been chosen because they are shaped or particularly recommended for external pleasure, ANY vibrator can be pressed into clit-pleasing service, so you may wish to browse our full range.

Filtering results on our main vibrator pages to show all toys with a ‘Strong’ or ‘Wowser’ rating, will give you the most choice, whilst doing the same on the sub categories ( clitoral vibrators/rabbit/wands etc) will whittle them down…

 

DO YOU HAVE DIFFICULTY IN ACHIEVING ORGASM?

Cordless Wand Massager £50 Rechargeable Magic Wand Vibrator with Soft Flexible head: 10 Settings
Cordless Wand Massager £50 Rechargeable Magic Wand Vibrator with Soft Flexible head: 10 Settings

If you are one of the many, many women who sometimes find their mind or body unresponsive to sex, keeping a really high-powered vibe buzzing away on your clitoris can be a good way of awakening your body’s response

And where the body leads, the mind will often follow…

Many Sexologists recommend a Wand Massager for women who find orgasm tricky or illusive because they offer so much more power and intensity than a battery-operated vibe.

 

 

 

 

IS YOUR CLITORIS SENSITIVE?

Sh! Rabbit Vibrator £25 - Slim Dual Pleasure Bunny Vibe: 12 Vibrating Settings
Sh! Rabbit Vibrator £25 – Slim Dual Pleasure Bunny Vibe: 12 Vibrating Settings

If you know that you are sensitive ‘down there’ and prefer a soft, subtle touch to caress your clitoris, try a soft-feel vibe that has the variety to offer gentler vibrations.

Many women swear by the clit-pleasing bunny ears of Rabbit Vibrator as they stimulate the sides of the clitoris, rather  rather directly on it.

This is better if you prefer a more diffused clitoral touch or find direct clitoral stimulation actually turns your clit off…

Cute Rabbit Ears Massager £35 - Vibrating Pink Silicone Clitoral Bunny: 10 Settings
Cute Rabbit Ears Massager £35 – Vibrating Pink Silicone Clitoral Bunny: 10 Settings

Many women have told us they use their regular bunny vibrator purely for clitoral stimulation ( ‘I don’t even bother with the shaft thingy!’) so for a dedicated bunny-ear clit vibrator, there’s the Rabbit Ears Vibrator.

For advice on how to choose, use  and enjoy rabbit vibes, check out our rabbit vibrator advice.

If you find a vibe too intense, simply wrap it in a piece of fabric to soften the vibrations.

You can filter for ‘Gentle’ or ‘Medium’ intensity rating on our vibrator pages.

 

 

DO YOU LIKE VARIED CLITORAL STIMULATION?

Secret Vibrator £35 - - Small Vibrating Silicone Clitoral Egg: 20 Powerful Settings
Secret Vibrator £35 – Small Vibrating Silicone Clitoral Egg: 20 Powerful Settings

In general, most women need sustained clitoral stimulation to orgasm and on average, for 20 minutes or more.

A vibrator can certainly speed things up ( if you want it to!) but the other variant among women is the kind of consistency they need to orgasm.

Some need stimulation to consistent and changing the stimulation can, like a snakes and ladders game, take them back to square one.

Other can find they become too accustomed, or even bored, by lots of samey clit stimulation.

Thankfully, these days most vibrators offer different patterns of vibration, as well as a steady, regular buzz, as standard.

For women who want to be taken on a journey  of different sensations, a high-tech clitoral vibrator like Secret Vibrator offers 20 ( yes -20!) pulsating and escalating settings to keep you, and your clitoris, surprised and, we hope, delighted!

 

Lily Remote Control Bullet £34 - Vibrator Small, Slim Vibe Controlled by Wireless Handset: 7 Vibrating Patterns
Lily Remote Control Bullet £34 – Vibrator Small, Slim Vibe Controlled by Wireless Handset: 7 Vibrating Patterns

Or you could really rev up the anticipation by playing with a remote controlled vibe with your partner controlling the vibrator’s buzz – that will certainly keep your clitoris alert!

 

 


 

We hope this has helped you choose the best clitoral vibrator for you and be sure to read how to use a clitoral vibrator to get more ideas on how to play. 

If you would like any more advice, fee free to get in touch for individual advice and recommendations advice@sh-womenstore.com

 

 

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Rabbit Vibrator Exclusive to Sh!

Sh! Rabbit Vibrator £25
Sh! Rabbit Vibrator £25

Our slimline, waterproof Rabbit Vibrator is popular with women of all ages and varying degrees of sex toy experience.

Only two-fingers wide in girth, it’s a winner in terms of both size and looks.

The rotating beads placed halfway up the shaft offer extra stimulation at the sensitive entrance, whilst the firm bunny ears reach up to vibrate against the sensitive sides of the clit.

First Time Users Choose Rabbit Vibrators

Exclusive to Sh!, the slimline Rabbit is a great choice for first-time users. With no less than 12 patterns programmed into the rabbit ears, there is plenty to experiment with. A slight rotation of the shaft will ensure the curvy head of this vibe teases the G-Spot and you may well find yourself experiencing a throbby, prolonged orgasm from the dual stimulation (clit & G-Spot).

Add a generous amount of water-based lube for extra comfort and enhanced sensitivity.

 

Money-Saving Rabbit Pleasure Set

Women's Pleasure Set £40
Women’s Pleasure Set £40

The Women’s Pleasure Set not only has our bestselling Sh! Rabbit vibe, but also the all-important lube, sex toy cleaner, batteries and a sachet of enhancing clit gel for extra zing. The pleasure sets have been designed to save you money whilst still getting great products, and they are exclusively available at Sh! Perfect prezzie for a best friend, or even better – for yourself.

Sh! Jessica Rabbit review from Sex Toys Buzz 

Q&A

Q&A: Rabbit or Finger Vibe?

Dear Sh!

Could you please advise a 62-year old widow (with neither the desire nor the prospect of “finding another man”) on the best vibrator to buy?

I’m completely new to this market and I’ve looked through your website, and am confused by the range available.

I’m tempted by a Rabbit-style Vibrator or a simple Finger vibe but would welcome your comments

 

Hi there,

Yes – we completely understand. There are so many different vibrators (and so little time…).

The first thing to think about is really whether you want a vibrator *specifically* for internal use (including G-spot) or for external (clitoral) stimulation – or for both?

A finger vibe offers precise clitoral stimulation

…but it is limited to providing purely clitoral stimulation.

A finger vibrator probably most comes into it’s own during partner sex, when it discreetly slips onto a finger to add extra clitoral stimulation during sex.

During solo sex, if your technique is to use only your finger on your clitoris, then a finger vibrator will add a buzz to this – and the clitoris usually loves a spot of vibration!

Sh! jessica side
Sh! Jessica Rabbit £40

A Rabbit vibrator offers internal stimulation as well as clitoral.

The  beaded shaft rotates around  ‘just inside’ which is an area rich in sensations. If you grip the shaft/beads using your PC muscles, the  sensations can be intense. Some women find their G-Spots with a rabbit vibe. The bunny ears then provide a lovely, tickly clit stimulator – so there you have it – all-in-one!

Many women tell us what they love about their rabbit is the clitoral bunny stimulator on the side of their rabbit vibrator. In fact, lots of women tell us they don’t always bother with the beaded shaft of their rabbit vibrator at all during solo sessions.

Most women are all about clitoral stimulation during masturbation.

The bunny ears are a fabulous design for this as they stimulate the sides of the clitoris rather than directly on it. For the majority of women, too intense/direct clitoral stimulation can actually be a turn-off.

However some women do need more intense, direct clitoral stimulation. If you desire/require a a bit more “umph” then we’d recommend a bullet/egg style vibrator, over a finger vibe. A great clitoral vibrator of this kind is the Secret – offers 20 speeds and sensations (low-high, throbbing, pulsating etc) – the top ones are super-intense!

The “vibe” itself is an egg shape attached by a wire to the battery pack, which allows you to change the setting with a push of your finger rather than feeling around for buttons between your legs! A very good external vibe indeed.

We hope this has been of help, do feel free to phone us on 0333 444 005, if you’d like any more help.

Best wishes

Team Sh!

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How To Choose The Right Sex Toy

Whether a sex-toy virgin, looking for a first vibrator or budding sexpert seeking new toys, the most important thing to think about, when choosing a sex toy, is what you want to get out of your toy.

Ask yourself; What is the main type of pleasure I want from my sex toy ?

It’s easy to get boggled or diverted by all the different styles of playthings available, but in order to find the right sex toy for you, one that will meet your expectations and deliver the kind of pleasure you’re looking for, the best starting point is to zone in on exactly what you want its main job to be…

For clitoral pleasure –  choose a vibrator

The best toy,  for intense stimulation of the external clitoris and vulva is a vibrator.

If you're looking for a sex toy to give dedicated clitoral pleasure, a vibrator is the best toy for you to choose...
If you’re looking for a sex toy to give dedicated clitoral pleasure, a vibrator is the best toy for you to choose…

Many people assume the way to use a vibrator is inside, replicating intercourse, but actually 80% of women only use theirs externally on or around their clitoris, during masturbation.

Your Clitoris & How to Pleasure It...
Your Clitoris & How to Pleasure It…

Clitoral stimulation is key to most women’s orgasms.

No wonder, then, that vibrators are the most popular sex toy choice for most women shopping at Sh! and the kind we advise most about.

Any toy that vibrates will stimulate your clitoris,  so feel free to choose any vibrator that appeals to you.

 

Sh! Bullet Vibrator £10
Sh! Bullet Vibrator £10
Womanizer Clitoral Suction Toy £129
Womanizer Clitoral Suction Toy £129

 

 

 

 

 

 

You can spend as little as £10, up to well over £100. Choosing the right vibrator is a very personal choice and we have LOTS of advice to help you. If you’d like tailored advice, give us a call and we’ll be happy to talk through the best options for you.

Read more from advice categories:

Read more specific advice:

For internal pleasure: choose a vibrator or a dildo

You’ll see from the picture above, your clitoris has two shafts that loop inside and hug the vagina. Your vaginal entrance is also packed with sensitive nerve-endings, so intense pleasure can come from inside too.

Choosing the right shape and size of a penetrative toy IS important.

The right toy for penetrative pleasure is something of a Goldilocks choice; One that’s too big or wide for you will feel uncomfortable, just as a toy that’s too small or slim will feel unfulfilling.

The best way is to think of ( or measure!) the size of your preferred penetrative pleasure object ( fingers? penis? another sex toy?) and  go for similar proportions.

 

Desire Vibrator £49
A vibrator with a shaft can be enjoyed for penetrative, as well as clitoral pleasure
Cupid 3 Vibrating Dildo £50
A dildo is also a good choice if you are looking for penetrative pleasure

 

 

 

 

 

 

Despite the jokes, size isn’t everything. Every woman is different, which is why we stock penetrative toys, whether a dildo or a vibrator, from tiny size up.

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For both inside and out  – choose a Rabbit

Sh! Rabbit Vibrator £25 A Rabbit vibrator delivers combined internal and clitoral stimulation, offering the possibility for a 'blended' orgasm
Sh! Rabbit Vibrator £25 A Rabbit vibrator delivers combined internal and clitoral stimulation, offering the possibility for a ‘blended’ orgasm

 

 

One of the most famous sex toys in history, the rabbit vibrator offers amazing dual sensations.

Internal massage is combined with intense clitoral stimulation.

Millions of women agree that it’s a winning combination!

 

Read more:

 


 

 

For stronger orgasms through PC Muscle/ Kegal workout – choose love balls

 

Love balls are 2 weighted spheres designed to strengthen the PC muscle, which, in time  will give you stronger orgasms
Love balls are 2 weighted spheres designed to strengthen the PC muscle, which, in time will give you stronger orgasms

 

The key to stronger, longer, more certain orgasms is a strong PC muscle, which you learn to flex during sex is key.

They also seem to be imposrtant to learning how to female ejaculate or ‘squirt’

Love balls, made famous in Fifty Shades of Grey, are 2 heavy balls that you wear inside (vaginally)

The weight means that you naturally tense your PC muscle to keep them in place.

Many women also tell us they find them pleasurable to wear in themselves, as they twirl around in response to your movements.

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For your G-Spot – Choose a vibrator or dildo that’s specially shaped for G-Spot pleasure

 

There’s lots of hoo-haw recently about whether the G-Spot exists. We don’t believe there’s been enough proper ‘evidence’ of this and prefer to go on personal research!

It might be that we don’t all respond in the same way but, whether it’s part of the internal clitoris or indeed a special magical ( and illusive!) spot, many, many women report a difference in sensations and orgasmic qualities that come from inside…

Your G-Spot
Your G-Spot

So, we will continue to call it the ‘G-Spot’ and give advice that is gathered from talking to 1000’s of women.

A  toy that has a curved or bulbous head is best suited to finding and stimulating the G-Spot  more easily and more comfortably, than a straight-sided toy.

A vibrator with a curved and/or bulbous tip can find & stimulate the G-Spot more easily, than a straight toy
A vibrator with a curved and/or bulbous tip can find & stimulate the G-Spot more easily, than a straight toy
The G-Spot responds to pressure & firm massage, more than vibration, making a Glass dildo a great toy for G-spotting
The G-Spot responds to pressure & firm massage, more than vibration, making a Glass dildo a great toy for G-spotting…
Honey G-Spot Silicone Dildos are ergonomically curved to massage 'special spots'
Honey G-Spot Silicone Dildos are ergonomically curved to massage ‘special spot’

 

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His Prostate – Choose a vibrator or dildo that is specially shaped for P-Spot pleasure

 

Men have their own special spot, called the Prostate Gland, that can give them amazing orgasms...
The Prostate Gland, can give men amazing orgasms…

 

Whist we’re on the subject of ‘special spots’ men have their own, comparable to the G-Spot, called the Prostate.

Located in their bum, lots of men are are discovering the amazing orgasmic capabilities of their Prostate.

Like any toy destined for anal pleasure, a Prostate Massager must be a safe shape so it doesn’t get lots up there.

Rocks Off Naughty Boy £49 - World famous 'hands-free' prostate massager for him
Rocks Off Naughty Boy £49 – World famous ‘hands-free’ prostate massager for him
Wild Swan £20 - Any G-Spot Vibrator with a wide base can safely be enjoyed for prostate massage too...
Wild Swan £20 – Any G-Spot Vibrator with a wide base can safely be enjoyed for prostate massage too…

 

 

Both your G-Spot and his Prostate respond to pressure and motion better than vibration. which is why a silicone dildo is great for G-Spot and prostate pleasure, plus with 30+ sizes & shapes, all with anal-safe bases, there’s also more choice…

 

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To enhance intercourse – choose a couple’s toy

 

Lelo Noa £65 - Designed to be worn during intercourse to stimulate your clitoris & G-Spot at the same time...
Lelo Noa £65 – Designed to be worn during intercourse to stimulate your clitoris & G-Spot at the same time…

Over 70% of women find orgasm difficult or impossible through penetration alone and adding a clitoral buzz helps.

Intercourse enhancing toys are specially designed to address this.

Worn by the woman during penetrative sex, these C-shaped vibrators hug the clitoris ( the larger arm) and the G-Spot ( the smaller arm) , whilst leaving room for her partner too.

 

 

 

 

A Vibrating Cock-Ring delivers a clitoral buzz for you, plus a pleasurable squeeze for him, during intercourse
Vibrating Cock-Ring  is a fun toy for added stimulation during intercourse

 

A vibrating cock-ring is also a good sex toy for couples.

A stretchy ring that  is worn at the base of his penis, it will deliver at pleasurable squeeze to him and he’ll feel the vibration too.

The vibrating portion is designed to stimulate your clitoris during penetration,

 

 

 

Discreet toys to slip on your finger will not feel like you've introduced a threesome...
Discreet toys won’t feel like you’ve introduced a threesome…

A discrete toy such as a vibrator for your finger or a tongue vibrator are great if you want to  introduce a sex toy to your partner.

Stylish designer vibrators are also a good choice as they make non-threatening bed-fellows for couples to share and enjoy together.

 

 

 

Penis Extension Sleeves
Penis Extension Sleeves

 

Want to feel a little bit more? For years we’ve rejected penis extension toys for being both iccky and impractical, but finally some have come on to the market that get the Sh! seal of approval.

Designed to slip over his meat n’ 2 veg, they add extra girth to his penis, whilst giving him a stimulating sensation from the textured interior.

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For backdoor pleasure – Choose a specially designed anal toy.

It's important that a toy desined for anal pleasure is a safe shape, with a wide base, so it can't get 'lost' up there...
It’s important that a toy designed for anal pleasure is a safe shape, with a wide base, so it can’t get ‘lost’ up there…

 

Things can get lost up the bum so it’s very important to use properly designed anal toys, rather than regular ones.

Whether beads, plugs or vibrators, all our toys for anal pleasure are super-smooth and safe, with bases or rings to safeguard them from slipping all the way inside.

The wide bases and hygienic material of silicone dildos also make great anal toys .

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For His Pleasure – Choose a male masturbator

Cool male masturbators - no fake lady lips, just great toys for male pleasure.
Cool male masturbators – no fake lady lips, just great toys for male pleasure.

Whether it’s him to enjoy solo or for you to play with together, a male masturbator is a fabulous sex toy for men – a stimulating sleeve that will deliver a hand-job from heaven!

We don’t stock any ‘realistic’ toys and this extends, of course, to our male sex toys selection. So they make great gifts, without stirring up any weird feelings about them being ‘replacements or ‘replicas’ for the ‘real thing’

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For Strap On  Sex – Choose a silicone dildo teamed with a strap on harness

2 Strap Harness Hand-made in our London Studio & available in a wide range of sizes and colours £45
2 Strap Harness Hand-made in our London Studio & available in a wide range of sizes and colours £45

 

 

 

For sex with a strap-on, whether as a lesbian couple or for pegging, the most popular and versatile option is to buy a harness, along with a dildo.

We don’t rate ‘fused’ strap-ons as one size most definitely DOES NOT fit all!

Fused strap-ons ( where the dildo is permanently attached to a harness) are also impossible to clean the dildo effectively.

That’s why we hand-produce our own range of harnesses and silicone dildos in our London studio, giving you a huge range of sizes, so every preference is covered.

 

Sh! dildos are hand-poured in super safe silicone and come in a range of over 30 fifferent sizes, meaning there's a perfect dildo, whatever your preference!
Sh! dildos are hand-poured in super safe silicone and come in a range of over 30 fifferent sizes, meaning there’s a perfect dildo, whatever your preference!

 

 

Choosing your harness and dildo individually gives the most bespoke strap-on possible.

Or choose one of our Strap On Kits

 

Best Strap-On Kit £99
Best Strap-On Kit £99

 

They are specially selected to contain everything you need to get started.

 

 

 

 

Pegging Strap On Kit £89
Pegging Strap On Kit £89

 

 

 

 

 

 


For strap-on style sex, without a harness, choose a strapless dildo

Strapless dildos are designed for strap-on style sex without a harness
Strapless dildos are designed for strap-on style sex without a harness

Strapless Strap-Ons offer a different way to enjoy strap-on sex.

They require no harness but strong PC muscles to operate!

A strapless is better suited to close, intimate ‘grinding-together’ than wild thrusting

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Remember – Lube Enhances All Play!

Sh! Lube £10 - Available in Hybrid, Paraben-free and Anal formulars
Sh! Lube £10 – Available in Hybrid, Paraben-free and Anal formulars

Once you have chosen your toys, remember to add lube.

It enhances all erotic play, reduces friction and making everything you do super-sensual, whether with a lover or solo, using sex toys, hands or body to body. We promise you wont regret it!

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