Pegging-Blog-Post

Everything you need to know about pegging before our masterclass

If you’ve never heard about pegging before, allow us to let you in on a little secret – it’s bloomin’ awesome!

For the uninitiated, pegging is when a woman penetrates a male partner’s anus with a strap-on. As a term, pegging was popularised by Dan Savage in his SavageLove column back in 2001, and it brought this sexy activity into the bedrooms of adventurous and pleasure-seeking couples all over the world.

Why would a woman want to wear a strap-on?

Pleasuring a partner with a strap-on lets you use your hands for teasing and touching other parts of your lover’s body. You can ditch boring gender roles, and taking on the role of the penetrator-slash-pleasure-giver can result in some spectacular and highly erotic play sessions for both parties. Swapping roles is hot!

Also, if you are blessed with a responsive clitoris and strong pelvic floor, you can even rock, ride and thrust your way to an orgasm whilst wearing a strap-on…

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Why would a man want something up his bum?

There are many reasons for giving pegging a go, but the pursuit of pleasure is, of course, at the top of the list. A male-bodied person has a prostate stashed away inside the rectum, and this magical walnut of a gland can offer untold pleasures when stimulated in the right way. Prostate play is intensely erotic, and orgasms are often more explosive when the P-spot is stimulated.

If you and your partner are thinking about heading down the pleasure-walk of the anal canal, there are a few things you need to think about first:

    • Communication – open, honest & ongoing.
    • Patience – slowly and gently is the only way forward when it comes to anal play.
    • Lubricant – the anus and rectum aren’t self-lubricating, so a generous dollop of anal lube is essential.
    • Building confidence – letting the receiving partner be in control ensures they only go as far and as fast as they are comfortable with, which allows you both to build up your pegging-confidence.

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Positions for Pegging

There is no magic position that can only be enjoyed when penetrated by a woman wearing a strap-on. You can enjoy any and all positions that work for you both, but we recommend letting the receiver start on top. They are in full control of how much of the dildo goes inside them, at what speed, and if they just need to sit and breathe for a few moments they can do that too…

Pegging Master Class

We meet many couples interested in trying out pegging, and whilst our friendly shop team are always on hand with help and advice, you might like to know we offer fun and fully clothed strap-on & pegging masterclasses to get you started.

Our fab and pun-tastic sex educators will cover anatomy (female-bodied and male-bodied), how to choose a strap-on that’ll work for you; and they’ll also share tips & tricks to ensure your pegging sesh with your partner will be a sensual and safe experience for you both.

Here’s what you can expect when you join us for a pegging masterclass at our Pitfield Street shop:

  • A warm and friendly welcome from our knowledgeable team and like-minded guests
  • Fizz and French Fancies for all attendees
  • Advice on the best techniques to help you get started
  • Some useful tips and tricks on how to peg like a pro!
  • A professionally-led and open Q&A session
  • Recommendations on the best pegging products and a cheeky 20% discount to use on any products throughout the store after the session

So, if you fancy joining us for our next pegging masterclass, click here to find out more, send us an email here or call us on 0333 444 005 to book your space.

See you there!

 

 

Blog-Post-Pride

Special Edition Rainbow Dildos!

The biggest LGBTQIA+ celebration of the year is a just a few weeks away, but we say:

Let’s get this Pride party started!

Pride is our favourite season and we usually throw an event of our own or have a special product or two to mark the day of London Pride, where we celebrate love and diversity with our lovely and diverse customers (although, being a forward-thinking company with a strong LGBT following, we celebrate love & diversity each and every day).

This year, we hope and believe that Pride parade is going to be even bigger, more fun and more colourful than ever and we’re looking forward to joining in with the fantastic street party in the West End of London.

The parade itself takes place on Saturday 7th of July, but we can’t wait to throw ourselves into the festive spirit so we sent our fantastic dildo maker into the silicone lab and grrrl, did she get to work! She’s done lots of mixing and pouring and the end result is something which beautifully encapsulates the fun vibe of the movement:

A Range of Special Edition Rainbow Dildos for Pride

Rainbow-HeartsSeveral days of prep took place before the actual dildos were made.

First, flat sheets of soft silicone were made, one sheet for each colour to be included. The sheets were left to firm up for around 24 hours before they were ready for the next step.

Once the silicone set, tiny hearts were cut out of the sheets by hand (the leftover circles of silicone are cute and we use them as drink coasters, by the way). The hearts are then sorted into colour for ease of use in the next step.

Next up, the molds were prepped and silicone mixed.  Much like baking, it’s all about correct measurements and patience. At this point in the process, we’re all under strict instructions to not disturb our dildo maker  – or we could cause a batch of ruined dildos!

Translucent silicone was used for the special edition Pride dildos and this is hand-poured into the molds, which hang upside down from the special dildo table.

Dropping-heartsThe tiny rainbow hearts are all dropped in by hand – and occasionally poked with a long, thin wooden stick (precision work!). It’s time-consuming but the end result is definitely worth it.

The dildos are then left to cure for 2 days, with our dildo maker watching over them like a worried Mother Hen. 🙂

Silicone is hypoallergenic and non-porous, making it the perfect materiel for sex toys. Silicone toys like our dildos are very easy to keep clean and all you need to do to keep them in tip-top condition is to spritz with toy cleaner or wash with antibacterial hand w and warm water. We recommend using water-based lubricant to ensure the surface of the silicone dildos remains non-porous.

Dildo tableOnce the silicone is firmly set, the dildos are released from the molds and inspected for flaws. Of course, being handmade, they are never going to be as perfect as dildos that are churned out of machines dozens at a time, but we want our customers to be able to trust that a Sh! dildo is going to be excellent quality, durable and ready for hours and hours of fun.

Once the dildos have passed the inspection, they are ready for their first meet & greet; i.e we get to see the finished product!

Say hello to our beautiful Pride dildos here.

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Choose from three of our most popular dildo designs:

6 inches long, with a rounded head and curvy, tapered shaft delivers a winning combination of perfect penetrative pleasures

6 inches long with 1.75 inch diameter shaft and rounded head, ergonomically angled for hitting the G-spot

7 inches long with ample 1.75 inch diameter shaft that delivers rhythmic and deeply fulfilling penetration

All in all, there are only 12 of the special edition Pride dildos made and ad stock is very limited, make sure to order yours now if you want to snap one up!

Last But Not Least: A Pride Event at Sh!

Whilst we’ve got your attention, we want to highlight a fabtastic Pride event on 6 July, when we’ll welcome poet, writer and all-round sex goddess, Immani Love to Sh! for an erotic reading and fun slumber party. Immani will be sharing snippets from her latest tantalising page turner– Adventures in Eroticism: Workplace. We’ll be serving up bubbles and French fancies and you can bring pyjamas and a pillow to get comfy!

Tickets for the Immani Love book release show, which will take place at Sh! in London on Friday 6 July 2018 are priced at £7.50 and can be purchased here: Immani Love

 

 

Strap On Harness

Sh! 2-Strap Strap-On Harness

There’s a reason that the Sh! 2-strap harness is a best seller and top rated on the Sh! website. It’s top quality and a classic, functional design that’s reasonably priced and versatile. Could you ask for more?

Before we get into the technical details, my favorite feature of this harness is that it’s £45 and handmade in London.

Actually handmade, not assembled with a label sewn on! The leather is soft and durable and will last for years. Accessible artisan goods like this are a rarity in today’s world of disposable products instantly delivered to your door, so Sh!’s craft is easy to appreciate.

The 2-strap harness also has a “just right” profile: well-built enough to be secure, but lighter weight than traditional chunky leather and metal harnesses. For those nights when you know fun is in store, you can throw it in your bag with your favorite dildo and it takes up no space at all! While some wearers might find a panty style harness (like the popular RodeoH) more comfortable, the 2-strap harness has a classic shape without being too bulky, and doesn’t shift around on your body. It’s also adjustable, unlike a panty style.

The 2-strap design is what you might picture when you imagine an iconic harness: one strap around the hips, and two straps between the legs. These bum straps can be worn either “jock” style–to emphasize your gorgeous bum and allow easy access to any parts between your legs—or together like a thong if you prefer. It also features a front to hold the dildo securely against your body and prevent excess pinching or rubbing. It’s easy to adjust and comes in sizes S—XXL.

This style also means it’s versatile for a range of body types and parts.

As a queer woman, I use mine with both men and women and change the dildo depending on our activity and my partner’s preference. (I personally love the Sh! Wirly Girly and Duchess models).

Leather Harnesses

The harness comes in a range of 6 colors of leather, all of them supple and attractive. While it’s true you can’t wash leather as you can synthetic materials, it’s still easy to wipe down after use.

Whether you’re looking to buy your first harness or your fifth, you can’t go wrong with the Sh! 2-strap harness.


Thanxx P for sending this lovely review to us – we hope you had fun putting the harness through its paces!


If you fancy getting your hands on a Sh! 2-strap harness of your own,

use code 2-strap in the checkout box for a 12% special discount!

 

How to use a g-Spot Vibrator

Why Choose a Silicone Dildo?

Silicone is considered to be the best dildo material, bar none. It’s the dildo-connoisseur’s choice for its look and feel and also for its safety and ease of care.

A Silicone Dildo is Safe

An odourless, non toxic and hypo-allergenic material containing no phthalates or latex, silicone is THE choice if you are allergic to, or have concerns about, other dildo materials.

Cupid 3 Silicone Dildo £40
Cupid 3 £40
Our most popular silicone dildo

It’s super easy to clean and you can even to sterilize a silicone dildo by boiling it for 3 minutes or washing it in the top rack of a dishwasher!

Ease of cleaning isn’t just about sex toy safety for you. If  you plan to share your dildo with a partner, or are looking for an anal dildo for solo or pegging play, a silicone dildo  is the ultimate choice,  because of this ability to fully sterilize.

A Silicone Dildo Feels Sensual

A silicone dildo feels warm, smooth and dry, not cold or clammy like rubber or jelly dildos. Whilst firm and sleek, it feels springy and flexible, unlike steel dildos or glass dildos, which are hard and rigid

Silicone is a non-porous material, neither disclosing or absorbing any substance.

This means it doesn’t soak up any of your natural juices and also holds lubricant well on the surface – a small amount of lube on a silicone dildo goes a long way!

Whilst soft to the touch, silicone is quite a dense material so it transmits vibration well. Owning a vibrating silicone dildo means you’ve got a dildo AND a vibrator in one, giving you the added thrills on top of the penetrative pleasures your dildo bestows…

 

 

Wirly Girly Silicone Dildo (£32) Our most popular anal/pegging dildo
Wirly Girly Silicone Dildo 2 (£32) Our most popular anal/pegging dildo

 

A Silicone Dildo Lasts

Silicone is practically indestructible, unless attacked by something sharp. It never breaks down or degrades.

This is fab for a committed, long-term relationship with your dildo, but not great environmentally if it’s just a one night stand.

A dildo made from silicone is an investment and will provide years of pleasure if it’s take care of properly.

Although incredibly durable, once torn silicone can split, so keep your dildo away from sharp edges, teeth and curious pets!

 

 

 

Best Strap-On Kit (£99) All our best-selling strap on goodies, in a perfectly put-together kit
All our best-selling strap on goodies, in a perfectly put-together kit

Why Silicone Dildos Cost More

Silicone is an costly raw material and producers of pure silicone dildos tend to be, like ourselves, small, specialist manufacturers, which is why silicone dildos are more expensive than mass-produced dildos from China.

A silicone dildo is the best dildo you can buy,  but it IS quite an investment.

 

Silicone Toys & Lube

We advise to use only water-based lube on all toys made from silicone, as  the two silicones can react together and, over time, effect the smooth surface of the dildo.

We’ve tested this ourselves, after a silicone lubricant manufacturer tried to convince us that their lubricant was safe to use on silicone sex toys.

It was hardly highly-scientific, but we submerged a silicone dildo in silicone lube for a length of time to see for ourselves what the outcome would be. Small pitting started to appear on the surface.

Of course it would take many, many hours ( days.. week…s?) of play to simulate this ‘experiment’ within a real-life example, but why take the risk, we say.

 

Pros & Cons of Silicone in a Nutshell

Pros:

  • The safest adult toy material.
  • Hypo-allergenic & non-toxic
  • Feels dry, smooth and warm to the touch
  • Totally non-porous
  • Can be sterilized/disinfected which means you can safely share toys between partners or pleasure zones just as long as they are sterilized/disinfected between uses.
  • Transmits vibration well.
  • Warms quickly to body temperature.
  • Holds lubricant well (use only water–based lubes)
  • Durable
  • Super easy to clean
  • Can be sterilized

Cons:

  • Expensive
  • Though durable, can tear once surface is broken
  • Can’t be recycled.
  • Not compatible with silicone-based lubes

Why Choose a Sh! Silicone Dildo?

Lovingly hand-crafted in our London studio and featuring our trademark heart-shaped bases, Sh! silicone dildos are functional as well as good looking; comfortable and secure to use, whether you hold them in your hand or wear in a harness as a strap-on dildo.

The wide bases also makes them totally safe as anal dildos

As the largest producer of silicone dildos in the UK, we offer over 40 sizes and shapes, giving you the widest choice to suit your personal preferences and pleasures.

More ethically-produced than  mass-produced dildos made in the Far East.

How to Use a Double Dildo

How to Use a Strapless Dildo- Strap-On Sex without a Harness

A Strapless  dildo is essentially a double dildo, designed for a couple to play with together,  to offer strap-on style sex without one partner having to wear a harness to keep a dildo in place.

Where this totally different kind of dildo differs for a regular double dildo is in shape – rather than being long and straight, a Strapless is curved , which can range from a pronounced U-shape  to more of a subtle upward bend…

And unlike a traditional double dildo, which has two ends that are equal(ish) in size, the two ends of a Strapless dildo are very different: there’s a smaller egg-shaped dildo at one end and a longer external dildo at the other.

A strapless dildo is a sex toy designed to be ‘worn’ by a woman – she slides the smaller egg/bulb-shaped dildo inside her vagina, gripping the narrow neck with her pc muscles to keep it in place. The counter-balancing weight of external dildo means that the egg rests against the front wall of the her vagina, massaging her G-Spot area.

The larger external dildo then stands out in front of her, ready to satisfy her female lover vaginally or anally, or her male lover, anally, hands-free.

Most popular in store as a lesbian sex toy, Strapless dildos can also be enjoyed for pegging.

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Best Position for Strapless Dildos

Even with a powerful PC Muscle grip, it can be tricky for the wearer/operator of a strapless dildo to keep it inside herself.  Lube, natural wetness, gravity and her partner’s body and movements pulling the dildo away from her, can all combine and conspire to to create a situation where even the fittest PC can’t body-builder can’t combat.

The easiest position to combat any frustrating ‘slippage’ is receiver on top and this is definitely the position we recommend for beginners to strapless play.

The ‘operator’  lies on her back, and slips the smaller dildo inside herself. This works because she’s not fighting gravity trying to grip hold of the dildo and she can also clamp her legs together, preventing it from slipping out.

Her partner climbs aboard the external dildo and the couple move together, enjoying simultaneous penetration, close body contact and, if the strapless dildo features a bullet vibrator,  added vibrating thrills on top.

 

Pros of a Strapless Dildo

  • There’s little interruption of sex and no struggling into a harness.
  • You both get to experience the same feelings of penetration.
  • Hands-free pleasure – meaning your hands are free to pleasure, stroke and tweak elsewhere!
  • Strapless dildos offer fabulous body to body contact with your lover and can feel incredibly intimate as you have to stay close to prevent it slipping out!
  • Strapless double dildos are great for grinding together.

Cons of a Strapless Dildo

  • Strapless double dildos can be tricky to use. They are quite heavy for the operator to grip inside – practice by walking around with your strapless in place (…or when doing the housework!) – it’s a great way to acquire strong  PC muscles you’ll need to be a strapless queen.
  • Even for strapless queens, they are not best suited for wild thrusting. For feverish strokes you really need the security of a harness. Luckily, all strapless dildos can be worn with a Strap on Harness, giving you the option to ‘strap it on’ to extend your repertoire.
  • Pegging / anal play is more difficult to pull off with a strapless, than vaginal pleasuring, simply because of the strong sphincture muscles – make sure you spend lots of time relaxing anal muscles before you go in!

Different Kinds of Strapless

  • Feeldoe Strapless: We can thank Tantus, a US-based company, for being the first company to conceive of a totally novel double dildo, designed by a woman, for women, way back in 1997.  Called the Feeldoe, it was the world’s first strapless double dildo.

Tantus Feeldoe Different Size ComparisonWe carry 4 different Feeldoe. The bulb/egg end is the same size and shape across the range (2.5 x 1.5 inch) It is the external dildo that changes in size and, thus weight*

*Size queens should remember the heavier the external dildo, the more difficult it is for the operator to keep inside herself, especially standing or on-top positions. We give all vital statistics, including weight, in the Technical Info tab, on each Strapless product page.

Designed with a semi-realistic style, each Feeldoe has a removable bullet vibrator in a pocket in the base, which adds a subtle vibrating thrill for both the giver and the receiver.


 

  • Sh! Strapless: We designed our strapless after trying the Feeldoe and finding it a bit too heavy to keep a grip upon and unwieldy to operate.  We loved the concept, but felt the egg to external dildo ratio balance could be improved.

So we designed a  strapless with a more pronounced U-shape and larger egg, ergonomically-tilted and shaped for G-Spot massage and with a more pronounced neck to keep it inside.

Weight is also a factor in being able to keep a grip on a strapless, so we designed our strapless to be the lightest of all.

At 257 gms, it is much lighter than the smallest strapless in both other ranges; Feeldoe Slim (452gm) and Fun Factory Share XS ( 300gm)

Sh! Strapless Dildo

We also wanted to offer a strapless that wasn’t even remotely ‘dick-shaped’.

A strapless extending out from between your legs can certainly be hot for playing with gender or role-play games, but it’s also simply a toy that offers close, intimate hand-free penetrative pleasure for both partners, so we wanted to offer an alternative to the more ‘realistic’ styles of Feeldoe and Fun Factory strapless dildos.

We based the external dildo of Sh! Strapless on our best-selling cupid dildo , with a curvy, sensual shape shaft  that 1000’s of you enjoy…

Designed and hand-produced in our London studio,, we offer it as a vibrating Sh! strapless, with a removeable bullet in its base or regular non- vibrating Sh! strapless, for peeps who don’t want to be fiddling with added vibration.

 


Fun Factory strapless are called Share; a unique range conceived, designed and manufactured in Germany.

Fun Factory Share Strapless Size Difference
Fun Factory Share Strapless Size Difference

There’s a difference in the feel of the silicone used in Share strapless; whereas Feeldoe and Sh! Strapless use silicone that is glossy and sleek, Share feel soft, dry and velvety…

Share comes in  3 very different sizes, a bit like the 3 bears!

The smallest Share is the smallest strapless available and, in our opinion it’s the best strapless made for pegging

The XL Share is the other side of the spectrum and is the largest strapless available  – you will need powerful PC muscles to keep a grip on this beast!

At 6 inches long, the regular Share is the best-selling size in Fun Factory’s strapless range.

Fun Factory also offer a unique vibrating strapless, called ShareVibe, which is more based on a vibrator, than a dildo, and offers different vibration setting, including throbbing and escalating patterns to take both partners on a journey of sensations together.

 

Beginners anal advice

How to Choose an Anal Dildo

Many peeps make the mistake of buying a butt plug, when what they really want is a dildo for anal sex.

A dildo has a regular girth (though it can be slightly flared or ribbed for pleasure), which delivers smooth anal penetration.

A butt plug has a sphincter-stop at its base, which makes it stay-put, so whilst it offers special anal pleasures, it’s not designed for sliding in-and-out moves…

Choosing an anal dildo is all about size, with width being more important than length…

Unless you are totally confident you know the perfect size for your anal dildo, it’s best to start off with a slim dildo. The width is the most important dimension to consider, as you  can always control how deep a dildo goes, but one that is too wide, will make relaxing anal musclean uphill, if not impossible battle!

The anus is a delicate flower where everything, particularly size, feels magnified. So choosing a first dildo for anal sex for is not the time to be greedy or have your eyes bigger than your bum!

The flower metaphor works perfectly for anal pleasure because the bum-hole starts out as a tight bud, but with lots of gentle and loving cultivation, slowly opens up ….  Certainly as you become turned on, you may desire more and slight ‘stretching’ might feel good,  but for most of us, whopping anal dildos are the stuff of fantasy and porn films, rather than reality. Wide dildos can, in real life, be difficult to take, even for experienced anal-players.

If you plan to use your anal dildo in a strap-on, however, you may need a longer dildo than than you think. Once a dildo is slipped into a harness, a couple of centimetres of insertable length is lost, plus tummies can get in the way…

A slightly longer anal dildo is also good for pleasuring your guy’s prostate gland.

 

Any dildo destined for your bum needs to be ‘anal-safe’

Body-safe, easy to clean & wide bases makes all Sh! silicone dildos 100% safe for anal play
Body-safe, easy to clean & wide bases makes all Sh! silicone dildos 100% safe for anal play

That’s why the wide base that is a feature on every Sh! Dildo makes it safe to use as anal dildo, as, no matter how passionate your moves become,  it cannot slip all the way inside and potentially get lost up there!

Made from 100% silicone, a Sh! dildo is non-porous, neither absorbing nor disclosing any substances  and can be completely sterilized.

Silicone is also soft and flexible. This is important in order for it to bend with the natural curves inside.

The anal canal curves about 4 inches inside, so any dildo longer than that needs to be soft enough to bend…

This is why long, hard dildos may not be comfortable for anal sex.

We make  over 40 different sizes and styles, which means we can match you with your perfect dildo; from anal beginners to anal experts and everyone in between!

All Sh! dildos can be used in a strap on harness for anal play too, and many lesbians are au fait with its pleasures.

We give advice about buying a dildo for anal play/pegging everyday in our London store and know that it is a very individual, personal choice…

Buying over the internet is much trickier, so here are the top 3 anal dildo, as chosen by customers, instore, where they can see, feel and measure-up our full range, as well as ask any us any questions about anal play.

 

Best-selling anal dildos – as chosen by our customers..

Wirly Girly 2 - our most popular anal dildo
Wirly Girly 2 – our most popular anal dildo

 

Wirly Girly 2 is our best-selling  anal dildo, particularly for beginners to anal play and pegging.

At 5.25 inch long with rounded head and supple, slim 1.1 inch shaft, which makes it flexible to bend

The ribbed shaft delivers extra sensations as it slides in-and-out,  At 5.25 inches long it has enough length to deliver satisfying strokes, without feeling overwhelming.


 

 

 

Cupid 2 Silicone Dildo £24
Cupid 2 £24

 

Cupid 2 is  another very popular shape and size  for anal-play.

The 4.5 inches long shaft is slightly tilted with rounded head for easy entry.

The curvy 1.25 inch shaft offers gentle penetrative pleasure.

Because of the upward curve of this dildo, it is great for targeted prostate massage. On their back, use it with the curve pointing upwards;  if your partner is on all fours, its best  to swivel the dildo round and use it ‘up-side-down’ , with the head of the dildo pointing downwards…

This will align with their body better, ensuring no accidental ‘bumping’ occurs.


 

 

Wirly Girly 3 Silicone Dildo (£37) Slim and ribbed for sensational anal pleasure, but with extra length for longer strokes...
Wirly Girly 3 Silicone Dildo (£37) Slim and ribbed for sensational anal pleasure, but with extra length for longer strokes…

 

Wirly Girly 3 is a good choice if you plan to wear your dildo in a harness.

At 7 inches long with a gently rounded head and supple, ribbed 1.25 inch shaft makes this a user-friendly and popular dildo for longer strokes anal play

Firm but very flexible, it follows the natural curve of the anal canal.

A little bit longer than Wirly Girly 2, it reaches deeper inside with ease.


 

 

 

Dildos for anal pegging play

More and more straight couples are also discovering the delights of pegging – the term given for when  a women straps-on a dildo to anally-pleasure her man.

In the last 10 years pegging has become increasingly popular and nowadays about 35% of the strap on dildos we sell at Sh! are sold  for pegging play.

Pegging your man, using an anal dildo, is likely to pleasure his prostate gland and give him amazing orgasms.

Any dildo can be coupled with a strap on to create the perfect pegging toy for you, so feel free to browse our silicone dildo collectionIt is always best to choose your dildo first and then add a strap-on…

For easy-off-the-shelf pegging toys, we have 2 great products;

Pegging Strap On Kit (£89): 5.25 inch Dildo, Leather Harness, Lube & Cleaner SAVE £5
Pegging Strap On Kit (£89): 5.25 inch Dildo, Leather Harness, Lube & Cleaner SAVE £5

 

Pegging Strap-On Kit  is an ideal way to start your adventures in anal pegging play.

It’s a perfectly put-together set, made up of all our best-selling toys bought for pegging.

Includes:


 

 

 

 

 

Share Pegging Dildo (£46) - A strapless dildo with a small external dildo, for harness-free harness-free, strap-on style anal play
Share Pegging Dildo (£46) – A strapless dildo with a small external dildo, for harness-free harness-free, strap-on style anal play

 

Pegging Strapless Double Dildo is designed for strap-on style sex, without the ‘do-er’ having to wear a strap-on harness.

Using a strapless dildo is something that takes practice. They are best suited for close, intimate moves, rather than wild thrusting as, without the security of a harness, the dildo has to be kept in place, just by the operator holding the larger egg-shaped dildo inside her, gripping it with her PC Muscle.

The smaller shaft ( 3.75 x 1 inch ) extends out of her and its small, slim proportions make it user-friendly for anal and pegging pleasure

 

 

Pure Plus Anal Lube (£10) Using lube is essential to ensure anal play is all pleasure, no pain...
Pure Plus Anal Lube (£10) Using lube is essential to ensure anal play is all pleasure, no pain…

Remember, It’s essential use lube in all anal play, as  this is an area that doesn’t self-lubricate, and lots of lovely lubrication is key to ensuring anal sex all pleasure, and never painful.

Here’s our advice on the best lubes for anal sex.

best Dildo advice

Our Best Selling Silicone Dildos

Here are our best-selling dildos, not just from sales over the internet but also from our London store, where customers can browse our 40+ models, comparing size and shape…

Hand-poured in our London studio, using top-grade silicone, each dildo is priced on its weight, which is listed on each product page  – along with the dildo’s other vital statics of length & diameter to help you choose your perfect size.

Each dildo is available in a range of colours, including a signature marbled design for each style.

A marbled dildo will be unique – no-one else will own the exact same marbled dildo as you!

Each dildo is also available as a vibrating version, with a small pocket in the base that holds a Sh! Bullet Vibrator.

 

 

Cupid 3 Silicone Dildo (£40) - Our best-selling dildo, by a mile!
Cupid 3 Silicone Dildo (£40) –

 1. Cupid 3 Silicone Dildo

Our outstanding best-seller by a long way!

Cupid 3 appears to the perfect size and shape for lots and LOTS of you…

Both the regular and the vibrating version appear in our best-selling dildo list.


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wirly Girly Silicone Dildo (£34)
Wirly Girly Silicone Dildo (£34)

2.  Wirly Girly 2 Silicone Dildo

Slim and ribbed, this is a favourite among women who prefer less girth.

It is also a super-popular size and shape for anal play and pegging.


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Cupid 6 Silicone Dildo £50
Cupid 6 Silicone Dildo £50

3.  Cupid 6 Silicone Dildo

With the same subtle curves of Cupid 3, this is a popular choice for those looking for a slightly larger dildo, with more girth.


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Cupid 2 Silicone Dildo £24
Cupid 2 Silicone Dildo £24

4.  Cupid 2 Silicone Dildo

The opposite end of the scale, Cupid 2 is a popular choice for those looking for a smaller dildo.

Popular for anal and pegging play too.


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Duchess Silicone Dildo £41
Duchess Silicone Dildo £41

5. Duchess Silicone Dildo

About the same dimensions as Cupid 3.

With a smooth rounded head for G-Spot massage and subtly grooved shaft.


 

 

 

 

 

 

Wirly Girly 3 Silicone Dildo £37
Wirly Girly 3 Silicone Dildo £37

6.  Wirly Girly 3 Silicone Dildo

A longer, slightly wider version of Wirly Girly 2.  Slim and ribbed, for sensational penetration, that’s all about strokes.

The extra length is useful for strapping it on in a harness.


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Twista 2 Silicone Dildo £61
Twista 2 Silicone Dildo £61

7. Twista 2 Silicone Dildo

The largest of our best-sellers, Twista 2 is a great choice for super-fulfilling penetration, with a gentle spiral down the shaft for feels all the way!


 

 

 

 

 

 

Dickie 2 Silicone Dildo £39
Dickie 2 Silicone Dildo £39

8. Dickie 2 Silicone Dildo 

Our beautifully stylized take on a realistic dildo.

Handsome good-looks, with a ridged head and a shaft that becomes increasingly fulfilling…


 

pegging advice

Q&A: Strap on Vibrating Dildo for Pegging

Dear Sh! My girlfriend and I were wondering – would a vibrating dildo be good for us to use during strap-on pegging? Any advice you can give us would be appreciated.   Hi there,

Cupid 3 Vibrating Dildo £50
Cupid 3 Vibrating Dildo £50

Having a vibrating dildo (the vibrating version of our own Silicone Dildos does mean that you have the possibility of more stimulation – both for you and your lovely lady during pegging. The vibrating bullet makes the whole “shaft” of the dildo gently quiver – whilst silicone transmits vibration well, it will never be as strong as a vibrator.

This sensation is then transferred to your prostate during pegging so it’s bound to feel good

Depending on how your girlfriend positions the dildo, she can benefit from the vibration on her clitoris too during a pegging session – so winners all round! If you’ve already got a dildo and want to try out the vibrating sensations that it will bring to strap on pegging, try a detachable powerful Vibrating Cock Ring that slips over the dildo at the base to create a similar thrilling effect. We hope this answers your question and if you need any more advice, just get in touch. Best Wishes Team Sh!

pegging advice

Q&A: Pegging Dildo Too Big?

Dear Sh!

When we’re both up for pegging, my girlfriend and I enjoy using a Twista dildo in our strap-on for a bit of pegging anal play. Even though we use loads of lube and take plenty of time, I’m getting the feeling that the dildo itself is a bit long for me. I suppose that she could thrust less deeply but I must admit that we both enjoy this aspect of pegging

Are we doing anything wrong pegging wise or should we be looking for another dildo?

 

Hi there,

As you take plenty of time, use plenty of lube and really sound like you know what you’re doing – the issue is probably more with your equipment than your pegging technique.

If you enjoy the thrusting during pegging sex then why deny yourselves this pleasure?

The simple answer is to use a shorter dildo for pegging.

Wirly Girly Silicone Dildo
Wirly Girly Silicone Dildo
Hand-Made by Sh!
£31

As you will be getting most of your pleasure from the stimulation of your prostate (which is not such a long way in), the extra length you’re currently getting from the Twista dildo is probably just not doing anything (except being a bit uncomfortable).

You have obviously got used to a certain level of “girth” whilst pegging with the Twista, so you may not want to go too small or narrow.

Have a look at our dildo range and go for an alternative that is shorter.

Wirly Girly dildos are very popular for pegging

These dildos feature similar ridges that you enjoy from the Twista. Going for a WG5 or WG6 would give you maximum width, but a shorter length.

Honey dildos also have a very decent width and a curve that’s good for stimulating the prostate.

Hope this helps and if we can be of any more assistance, please do get in touch.

Best Wishes

Team Sh!

lubricant advice

Lube for Anal Sex

The lowdown on the best lubes for anal play…

Using lube for anal sex is crucial as the anus doesn’t produce any natural lubrication of its own.

Lube protects anal tissues which are more delicate and easily torn than those of the vagina. Using lots of lube during every kinds of anal play is absolutely key to ensuring anal sex is ALL pleasure and NO pain.

Anal pleasure requires a slow pace and using lube ensures that everything feels slippery and sensual throughout the journey.

From the very beginning, through to the point where anal muscles relax enough to be receptive to penetration, and all through your anal sex session, you should ensure everything starts out coated, and remains coated in lube. Keep applying, as any ‘drag’ can cause tension and tension is the enemy of pleasurable anal sex!

Use lube is essential during all anal play - A water-based anal lube is thicker, more viscous and longer-lasting...
Use lube is essential during all anal play – A water-based anal lube is thicker, more viscous and longer-lasting…

Best Water Based Lube for Anal Sex

Standard water-based lube may dry up too quickly for the slow pace of anal sex so chose a thicker water-based lube such as  Sh! Pure PlusMaximus or Probe Classic Thick.

These lubes contain less water and so evaporate slower and have a thicker consistency than regular water-based lubes, which means they coat and cling to toys, fingers and condoms for longer…

Thick water-based lube can be used to enhance all sex-play, so it’s a great choice if you prefer to have just one lube-type by your bed – if you find it a little thick for other activities it can be simply watered down with a little purified water or even saliva.

 

Water-based lube is the best lube to choose if you are playing with any silicone anal toys, such as butt plugs and anal beads, or pegging  / performing anal sex with a silicone dildo.

 

 

 

 

 

Silicone Lube feels oily, like a light baby oil but is body and condom-safe...
Silicone Lube feels oily, like a light baby oil but is body and condom-safe…

Best Oil-Based Lube for Anal Sex

Some people prefer to use oil-based lube for anal sex as, without the evaporating qualities of water, it provides unsurpassed, super long-lasting and uber-slippy lubrication.

As the anus naturally flushes itself, it is less vulnerable to oil-induced infection than the vagina.

BUT oil-based lubes will rot a condom in seconds and will damage the surface of many anal toys, which is why we don’t stock oil-based anal lubes and caution against using mineral or vegetable oil-based products as lubricant.

The only oil-based lube we recommend, or offer, are silicone-based lube such as Eros Pjur Woman LubeSh! Silicone Lube or ID Millennium

These lubes deliver an oily-feeling AND keep anal pleasuring and non-silicone anal toys super-safe as well as super-slippery.