Handcuff B&W

Fun ways that you can play with handcuffs

If you enjoy the feeling of being dominated and restricted during sex, you should definitely consider investing in a pair of handcuffs.

Not only are they fun and relatively easy to use, you can also use them in a number of different ways to spice up your bedroom activity.

Read on for our top suggestions of games you can play whilst being handcuffed.

Handcuff your wrists in front of you

If you still want to have an element of access and control, ask your partner to cuff your wrists in front of you. This will allow you to still reach down and play with yourself while your partner is penetrating you or giving you oral sex. Stroking and playing with your clitoris during penetration is brilliant, because it’ll likely help you to reach orgasm much more easily. For this, we recommend a pair of soft silicone restraints as they’ll feel both comfortable and safe. Try it!


Handcuff your wrists to your partner’s wrist

This one is great for those times when you’re feeling super-hot and experimental. Once you’re handcuffed to each other, see what new and exciting positons you can try out. Being restricted makes it challenging in the best way possible. You never know, you might just find a new position that you can’t get enough of!

If you want a little bit more movement, you can easily attach rope to the D-rings of these leather cuffs.


Leave them on the bedside table

We know what you’re thinking. What’s the point in having beautiful satin restraints if you aren’t going to use them? Bear with us: restraints can be a great way to tease and tempt your partner. When you are getting into things, try climbing on top of them and telling them that if they don’t do exactly as you say, you’re going to tie them to the bed and have your wicked way with them. They might beg you to do just that, but either way the mental image of being dominated is enough to get both of you going…

Satin Ties with D-Rings

Handcuff your partner to a chair

Ensure that they have no way of getting away, and then perform a sexy striptease for them in lingerie that makes you feel and look amazing. They’ll be begging you to free their hands so that they can run them all over you.

You could even handcuff your partner to the sink while you take a shower. The image of you with water running all over your body is sure to get their heart racing. Once you get out of the shower, take the handcuffs off and tell your partner that you want them to take control. Wowzers!

Steel cuffs



Panties Blog Post

The lingerie trends that are turning the heat up in 2018 

The right lingerie has the ability to do so much for both you and your partner. From making you feel confident and sexy to getting your other half excited about sex, choosing the best pieces can really heat things up in the bedroom and can help your sex life reach new, dizzying heights.

Luckily, there are a lot of hot new trends coming your way in 2018, so you’ll have plenty of opportunity to dress up in some gorgeous pieces for both your own and your partner’s pleasure.

Read on for our top picks of 2018’s lingerie trends.

La Dolce Vita

c-high-waist-garterWhen it comes to lingerie trends, sensual femininity will always reign supreme, so take a nod from Italian culture with some truly romantic pieces. With a focus on lace, satin and floral prints, this kind of lingerie is perfect for when you are planning a hot evening in with your other half. Suspender belts are more traditionally sexy, but don’t underestimate the power of your soft thighs encased in black lace… There is something truly irresistible about that naked bit of thigh – make the most of it!

Guaranteed to get the sparks flying, this High Waist Garter Belt is made of soft, stretchy lacy and is comfortable to wear as well as super-flattering.

Pair with a plain black thong and  retro stockings and you’ll look good enough to eat!

Forbidden Fruit


For the more confident lingerie enthusiast, 2018 is your chance to really show off your best assets in all their glory.

Think figure-hugging corsets, garter belts and crotchless underwear, all of which are perfect for ensuring that you both feel and look great.

Check out our Lace Heart Open-Crotch Panty, which is super cute and sexy. Available in both red and black, you can easily tailor your outfit to the occasion.

Wear on its own, or team with Bijoux Indiscrets sparkly nipple jewels for a sassy look that’ll take their breath away…

Athletic Appeal

We not not everyone is into lacy, floral lingerie and to you we say: Rejoice, 2018 is going to be your year in terms of underwear!

Designed for women that love to get sweaty and look good while they are doing it, athletic lingerie styles are modest, trendy but still incredibly sexy, so it really does tick a lot of boxes.

Expect to see muted, simple colours like black, white and grey taking center-stage and no fuss knickers that are comfortable but still show off all of your best assets perfectly. Well, you haven’t been doing all of those squats for nothing, have you?

Our Pants to Poverty Fly Front pants are are the perfect mix of cheekiness and practicality, and are sure to be a firm favourite with sporty chicks and tombois alike.



Sh! Soirees at Lynda Wallis

Sh! Soirees at Lynda Wallis

Female Arousal, Orgasm & Ejaculation Class

Our Award-Winning Store Manager & in-house Sexuality Educator Renee will be giving two wonderful classes at Lynda Wallis’ glamorous barn location in Essex!

Lynda is a designer & maker of luxury silk lingerie like you’ve never seen before. Ronja, representative of luxe toy brand Lelo will join Renee & Lynda, for an hands-on demonstration of Lelo’s amazing toys.

The Art of Female Orgasm –  Covering all-important topics such as clitorises, G-spots and female ejaculation…
Thursday 9th March, 7:30 pm
The Old Stable Block
Pump House Farm
Kelvedon Hatch CM15 0LA

The Art of Seduction – Setting the scene, dressing (or undressing) for the occasion and tempting your partner into a heady night of pleasure…
Thursday 23rd March, 7:30 pm
The Old Stable Block
Pump House Farm
Kelvedon Hatch CM15 0LA

Luxury Silk Lingerie will be available to try on in the Boudoir
and experience the fragrances of ECoundray French Perfumes established in 1822.

Come join us for fun, educational and inspirational evenings, fully clothed, with a glass of bubbly, cup cake, a Sh! gift and 10% discount on all purchases on the night.

You will also be entered into the Lynda Wallis monthly draw!

For more information or booking please call 01277366388


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Wow Yourself For V-Day

Valentine’s Day can feel gruesome and daunting if you aren’t coupled up for this luvvy time of year: shops are filled with teddy bears, flower arrangements and cards so sweet your teeth hurt just looking at them.

There are plenty of things you can do with equally single friends on V-Day, like going for drinks and watch overly refreshed couples tongue-kissing each other. That’s always fun. Or go to a restaurant and count how many couples are staring meaningfully into each others eyes over bowls of freshly-made pasta. Also great fun.

Or you can heed our advice and spend the day in the best company of all: you own! No one to make polite small talk with, no one to look disapprovingly at your third martini and best of all, the only needs to be satisfied are your own!

It’s time to embrace Valentine’s Day as a Singleton.

Booking a massage is an excellent way of relaxing tense muscles and forgetting about the massive bouquet of roses Ruth in Reception received before lunch. We recommend trying a hot stone massage – utter bliss in the hands of a stranger. No need to worry about shaving, plucking or waxing – just let those experienced hands take care of you… Check GroupOn for good deals and book yourself in!

Having nails done is another great way of feeling pampered. We don’t necessarily mean pink polish – cuticle oil on chewed nails and a quick trim of tootsies feel amazing. Don’t worry if your feet have been hidden in boots all winter – just leave a decent tip before floating away on your newly-soft soles.

Treating yourself to some new undies is a quick and easy way of getting your wiggle on – the best kind of knickers are the ones you feel fabulous in. We love these rose lace and keyhole panties. They are well-cut and see-through, which can be fun even if you have no plans of showing them to anyone but yourself.

Wearing a Bracli classic pearl thong under your work wear is a pleasurable way of ensuring you feel juicy and in the mood all day long. The pearls glide and rub in all the right paces, and you might find yourself crossing your legs far more often that usual. Handmade in Spain with soft stretch lace and 46 body-safe genuine Manacor pearls, the Bracli pearl thong looks and feels incredibly luxurious. Perfect!

Bracli Pearl Thong £59

Investing in Your Pleasure

Getting ready for a night of ‘menage a moi’ starts with an empowering visit to your local female-friendly sex shop, where you can browse body-safe sex toys and erotica. The staff are used to nervous first-time visitors, so don’t waste time feeling awkward – just enjoy the fun atmosphere! Ask questions and touch the demo products on display; it’s all about finding goodies that catch your eye and your curiosity…

Our Top Three vibrator picks for a sexy, solo Valentine’s Day:

Satisfyer Pro Penguin – this super-cute and discreet toy offers clitoral suction with 11 levels of intensity.  Satisfyer Pro has changed the way women look at sex toys designed for clitoral use – instead of vibration, this toy uses air suction technology to create incredible orgasms in the shortest possible time.

Flicker, with its roll of soft silicone tongues lapping at the clitoris, is a fantastic choice if you enjoy dual stimulation but is looking for something different to standard Rabbit vibes. The firm shaft slides easily inside, and the smooth tongue movements can go forwards, backwards or – oooh – alternate back-and-forth, depending on preferences.

The Twizzler with its beret-style clitoral simulator is another exciting vibrator. Strong vibration coupled with constant twirling pressure on the clitoris is likely to have a woman seeing stars in no time… The shaft is a little longer, so a buzzing dream come true for anyone who adore deeper penetration.

Enhancing pleasure gels and a good bottle of waterbased lube are must-haves for a night of passion, with or without company. A pleasure gel helps bring blood to the area, increasing wetness and arousal. The lube makes play smoother and more comfortable, and together they add lots of fun to the experience!

Setting the Scene

Scented candles not only smell nice, they also offer soft, seductive lighting which can feel comfortable if you are unused to seducing yourself. Dona candles are indulgence at a purse-friendly price. Infused with safe, chemical-free aphrodisiacs and pheromones, the tantalising aromas of Dona candles will help put you in the mood for more.

Massage Candle

A good book will help build desire and getting your mind tuned into what’s about to happen (why, pleasure of course!). The Sexual Life of Catherine M is an autobiography of one woman’s journey towards sexual fulfillment and comes highly recommended. Another great Valentine’s Day read is Orgasmic, edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel. 25 hot stories all on the theme of female orgasms…

Just like any other scene of seduction, clean sheets and a few treats are necessary. A glass of fine fizz and a plate of chocolate-covered strawberries are yummy treats to enjoy. Whoever said that gluttony is a sin has clearly never enjoyed one breathtaking orgasm after another…

Romantic, Wild & Fantasy Valentine Date Lingerie

Romantic, Wild & Fantasy Valentine Date Lingerie

Dressing to impress for those perfect Valentine dates has never been easier – whatever your style – romantic, wild or fantasy, we have exciting lingerie to both look & feel great in. Our easy guide below will help create a Valentine’s Day (and night, more importantly!) that is as hot as can be.

As Easy Peasy as a Rom Com

Why make it harder than it needs to be – they meet, fall in love and have luscious, languishing love sex. All you need for an effective romantic date is sexy knickers and a pair of cute stick-on nipple decorations, preferably in the shapes of sparkly hearts

Panties that untie at the sides ensure you are the main gift this Valentine’s Day. You can either treat your lucky date to a teasing strip by untying the bows slowly, slowly whilst they watch… Or let them untie the knickers to reveal the most delicious dish of all – you!


Traditional Romantic Treat

Aptly named Cupid’s Bow Chemise & Thong is a more traditional Valentine’s treat, and perfect for that enamoured look. This gorgeous negligee with underwiring, light padding and pretty floral lace will have your partner’s eye’s popping in no time, giving you bucketloads of confidence to strut your hot stuff all night long.

fever-lingerie-midnight-open-crotch-body-frontYou can never go wrong with a sexy open-crotch outfit. This halter-neck bodysuit comes with fitted suspenders, ready for you to ravish a lover in style. With peek-a-boo cage bra and dainty bow detailing, tie halter neck and back strap fastening you can fit this body to your personal shape. To complete this seductive look, pair with a set of stockings and your favourite heels… Wowzers!

Sheer black garter dress with matching eye mask will turn up the heat on Valentine’s Night. Made with soft floral lace and side mesh panelling, thick soft straps and cross back detail to match the bust; this sexy little number has the power to unlock secret desires of your partner…

Yes Ma’am, The Wild Ride

Kinky crotchless garter panty will suit Femmes, Dommes and spoilt submissives. Pair with stunning stockings and the night is all yours…

Made from black elastic, the Garter Belt features four adjustable suspender straps and a gusset that cover the back entrance. When worn, the Garter Panty frames hips and lower part of stomach for a cute but kinky look to let free the most untamed you.

strap-lingerie-lolaIf you prefer to wear next-to-nothing, Happy Lola Straps lingerie is for you! Show off your best assets with luxury set of  invisible bra and panties with pretty ruffled edging. These sexy straps might not look like much, but they’ve been perfectly designed to fit around your thighs, hips and breasts. Beautifully flattering, these invisible undies will leave your partner spellbound and wild.

Fantasy Costumes

The Sexy Sweetheart costume is perfect for V-Day! Be their personal Queen of Hearts in this flattering chemise with removable suspender belts. Made from black soft spandex and luxurious red velvet ribbon trim, embellished with embroidered red hearts down the central panel and on the bottom of each front suspender strap; this fabulously fine costume will make you feel majestic!

The Sexy Police Costume will have hearts arresting and pulses racing as son as they lay eyes on you. Exude your authority with this raunchy costume made from a sheer black mesh material, leaving little to the imagination. Complete with an official ‘Special Police’ badge on the hem and peak police cap you’ll drive your perpetrator to confess (their fantasies) soon enough…

fever-lingerie-nurse-costumeFeeling peaky? Don’t worry – the Sexy Nurse is here to perk you up! Tend to your partner’s needs in a hot role-play bedroom scene for some seriously sexy playtime; this uniform will raise the temperature for sure… The costume comes complete with cute panties and a nurses cap for perfect finishing touches. Why not invest in matching Nurse hold-up stockings too?



Fancy Panties

The lovely people at Playful Promises have sent the Sh! Girlz some fancy new panties this week, and we’re very impressed!

Flirt Panties
Flirt Panties

Are you a Cutie or a Flirt? Either way, we think you’re Gorgeous! The Love Thyself range are soft siky panties that really make a statement, with the help of some fantastic embroidery!

These are fancy panties for all sorts of occasions…
– they make great accessories for a burlesque night or a hot party…
– they got beautifully with nipple jewellery, stockings, and other sexy accessories…
– they can be worn on a night out as a sexy surprise for a lucky lover…
– or you can wear them with nothing but a big smile on a hot night in!

These fancy panties also come in a cute little box, which means they make a perfect pressie for a special lady…