Wedding Fever Competition Gift Box

Share #WeddingNightFlops & #WeddingNightFix to WIN a Bridal Gift Set worth £145!

Wedding fever is building and we’re getting ready for some serious romance; the wedding of Prince Harry and his fiancee Meghan Markle is due to take place on 19th of May at St George’s Chapel.


We have dusted off our hats and Union Jack flags in hot anticipation but that’s not all: in preparation for the festivities, we’re giving away a fantastic Bridal Gift Set worth a whopping £145!

The Bridal Gift Set is a comprises of a selection of cherry-picked products that are fit for a Princess, but the really good news is that you needn’t be either Princess or Bride to be in with a chance of winning this fantastic pleasure box; all you have to do is say “I do” and hop onboard our competition below!

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 Take a closer look at this royally fantastic prize

  • Bracli pearl thong – sexy smalls which deliver secret stimulation when worn throughout the day.

Bracli Pearl Thong: a strand of real cultured pearls sensually stimulates the clitoris as the wearer sits, stands and moves around. Handmade in Spain with soft stretch lace and 46 body-safe genuine Manacor pearls, the ivory pearl thong looks and feels incredibly luxurious, and certainly adds a little something to any Wedding Day.


Delicate pearl-effect stick-on jewellery is perfect for a wedding strip with wow-factor.  Wear on their own or under the Bridal lingering for an additional surprise when the party is over and the Wedding night is about to start…

  • A padded satin blindfold is a must for sensual play and the white, handmade version included in this hamper has been designed for thrilling play.

With 30 inch long tie-backs and a totally opaque padded front, this seductive blindfold can be affixed firmly and safely to your willing Bride or Groom, plunging them into darkness so all their other sense can come alive…

Onc you have your new spouse safely and comfortably secured in the all-white ties, the options are many: tempt, thrill & tease, look-but-don’t-touch seductive stripping or grinding away on them… The only limit is your imagination!

Incidentally named the Love Bullet, this stylish vibe is strong and quiet. 8 different throbbing & escalating vibrating patterns is enough to keep you busy all night long. Perfect for honeymoon and beyond!

In order to ensure the newlyweds gets the most out of their wedding night, a small bottle of Lush Lube 25ml is included for enhanced sensations.

Last but not least, a cute feather pom for soft sensation play. This works fantastically well when used alongside blindfold and ties; softly stroke along the stomach, inside of thighs…

Competition Bridal Gift Box


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No purchase necessary to enter or win.

The winner of the Competition will be selected in a random drawing from among all eligible entries received throughout the promotion period.

The winner will be notified by email at the email address provided in the Entry Information on or about 48 hours after the random drawing. Potential winner must accept a prize by email as directed by Sh! within 48 hours of notification. Any winner notification not responded to or returned as undeliverable may result in prize forfeiture.

Prizes cannot be transferred, redeemed for cash or substituted by winner.




Wedding Gifts for Kinky Couples

Wedding Gifts for Kinky Couples

Spring and Summer are high season for weddings and whilst we all love receiving invites, they inevitably bring on gift-stress: what do you buy the couple that has everything?

Or perhaps you are a Bride or Groom looking to surprise your beloved with something different on the morning of the big day, an extra-special gift they won’t be expecting?

We’ve got you covered.

We love gifts that keep on giving, and we’ve cherry-picked the best surprise gifts for the wedding day.

Kinky Seduction Set in Black Satin

If you’re buying for good friends, the kinky seduction set in black is a great option. Presented in a black gift box, the set contains three essential and highly versatile toys: a satin blindfold, a pair of satin ties and a soft feather pom.

The satin blindfold creates sensual darkness, throwing off inhibitions and welcoming gentle nibbling of soft skin. The blindfolds fastens with a bow at the back of the head, and is soft & silky enough to sleep comfortably in.

The satin ties with are extra long for versatility, and fastens easily with metal D-rings. At 39″ long and 2″ wide, they look as good as they feel – no chafing, but certainly strong enough to struggle against if that’s part of a bedroom game.

A cute feather pom in gold adds a fun finishing touch. It looks innocent, but works wonderfully when used for slow, seductive play. The fluttery feeling is light and delicate, making every centimeter of skin come alive under its touch.

Beautiful Steel Plug with Jewel Decoration


If you are looking for a sophisticated yet kinky gift for your Bride, you can’t go wrong with a beautiful steel plug. Delivering sensory fireworks where the sun don’t shine, with a pretty jewel detail peeking out for instant WOW factor, it’s a morning gift that’ll keep her derriere looking and feeling fantastic throughout the day.

At only 2″ of insertable length, this plug isn’t overly big but the weight is what makes it feel so good. Steel butt plugs are sensual to wear, and the sumptuous ridges offer intense sensations when the wearer sits, stands or moves in a way that makes the anal muscles clench against the plug.

Don’t forget to include a bottle of anal lube – a tushie isn’t self-lubricating and needs all the extra lubrication it can get.

Steel Butt Plug with Diamante Handle


Small enough to tempt an anal newbie, the steel butt plug with diamante handle makes a gorgeous gift. A tapered tip for easy insertion, great design for prostate stimulation and broad base for ultimate safety; there is nothing to not to love about this plug!

With its slightly longer neck, this steel plug is especially suitable for prostate play – just remember to add the all-important lube.

With 2.”8 of insertable length and sleek good looks,  the steel butt plug with a diamante handle is well-designed and a pleasure to use.

Luxury Whip with 18k Gold Dildo Handle

The ultimate in decadent gifts, this luxury suede whip has a stunning 18k gold handle and seductively soft tails.

Ergonomically designed to ensure a firm grip, the handle doubles as a dildo. The 18k gold handle/dildo with delicate Swarowski crystals offers both Dom/me & sub stunningly erotic play sessions.

The soft suede strands of this whip are great for sensation play; with slow sexy swishes, the submissive partner can be teased & tickled into a frenzy.

This luxury whip is great for beginners, as well as more experienced players and a must for anyone who likes their BDSM toys to be a cut above the rest.


Presented in a luxurious white box, this suede whip really does make the perfect present for the kinky couple who has everything…


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Something Old, Something New…

With a whopping 53% of all weddings in the UK taking place between May and August, we’re busy gearing up for an alternative Wedding Season with cherry-picked gifts much more exciting than four-slice toasters or silverware.

Something Old

Traditionally the marriage begins on the wedding night, but it’s commonly estimated that more than half (52%) of newlywed couples do not consummate on the night. Organizing and executing a dream wedding is costly both in terms of finances and energy, and many couples choose to snooze rather than enjoying bed shaking antics after the nuptials.

Shaking out a tried & tested quickie position in between service and evening celebration is the best way of ensuring some private fun and sets you up for the rest of the night. This could be any position as long as you know it works.

Tickle Her Pink Clitoral Stimulating Gel Tester £3In order to spice up the quickie, we recommend keeping a handy tester sachet of Tickle Her Pink clitoral enhancing gel tucked away inside a bra or a pocket. Massage a finger-tips’ worth of stimulating gel into the clitoral area during the festive frolic, before enjoying the additional rush of blood to this super-sensitive area.

Something New

Traditionally the Bride wears something new for her wedding, but Sh! recommends non-conventional Brides takes the ‘something new’ a little further.

The honeymoon is the perfect time to relax together. Embracing new positions, techniques and adventures should be high on the agenda; a couple that plays together, stays together. Packing a little something into the suitcase will ensure the happy couple start as they mean to carry on.

This small card game for couples takes up no space in the suitcase, and each card suggests a new position to try out.

The images are a heteronormative, but with the help of imagination (or a Sharpie), you can still enjoy the positions with a strap-on, for example.

Something Borrowed

A traditional Bride may choose to borrow something from a close friend or family member to wear on the day, but we’d like to suggests an altogether different approach to ‘something borrowed’: a selection of sex tips that you can customise and make your own.

sh_-satin-seduction-bondage-gift-set-whiteBlindfolding a partner ensures that every lick, kiss and caress is felt so much more intensely. The receiving partner can relax into the blissful sensations of pleasure washing over them. This small but oh-so-useful bridal gift box holds a blindfold, a pair of satin ties and a soft feather pom for stroking and tickling. 

A soft ostrich feather traced over soft skin wakes up nerve-endings and hints at what’s to come. If you feel like taking the session a little further, this feather comes teamed with a spanking crop for teasing & pleasing. Spanking play doesn’t have to be painful, so if you just want to use the crop for posturing and playful tappin o’ the bum, that’s excellent fun too! 

lipstick_1 (1)A small discreet vibrator is the best way of increasing a woman’s chances of hitting the Big Oh. This rechargeable and waterproof lipstick style vibrator is a bestseller at Sh! and fits the bill. With 8 different settings and sensational power, it’s quick & easy to use. Remember that vibration can be exciting on parts other than juicy genitals: ear lobes, back of neck, nipples… Any body part that enjoys a bit of attention, really. 

Something Blue

Something blue traditionally refers to the Bride’s garter, a hidden expression of love & fidelity. A modern Bride may choose to forego the frilly garter, opting instead for an erotic sexting session in blue language with her betrothed.

Spending a long day with friends & family, it is not unusual for a newlywed couple to feel as if they do not get enough time together on the big day. This is easily remedied by adding some sexy sizzle with secret text messages at regular intervals throughout.

we-vibe-unite-with-remote-controlFor cheeky fun, the Bride/s could wear We Vibe Unite, a clever couples vibrator. Controlled by a discreet remote or by a free app on a  smartphone, We Vibe Unite delivers pinpoint thrills to clit & G-spot – guaranteed to liven up a long day!


Q&A: What sex toy should I buy my wife?

Q&A: What sex toy should I buy my wife?

Hi, my wife’s birthday is soon and I’m thinking of buying her some new toy (for both of us to enjoy). I’ve seen porn where people are using  wand massagers and I have read that they are the best toy to stimulate the clitoris, which is the only way my wife cums. However, I am a bit worried it might be too intense? It’s a lot of money to spend on a toy and I want to be sure it’s the right thing. Will she like it? It’s not like I can take it back if she doesn’t. 



Hi Chris

Many thanks for your email.

Wand vibratorsMost Popular Wand Massagers are hugely popular and many sexuality educators, like Betty Dodson, swear by them.

Their deep, throbby vibrations are very reliable for pleasure, and as Wands were originally designed for all-over body massaging, they have many uses.

It’s impossible for us to guarantee that your wife (or any woman) will love the vibrator you buy for her. We can guarantee that the cherry-picked sex toys we sell are toys that deliver pleasure to thousands of women, but as each woman is individual and unique, we simply cannot guarantee every toy will work for every woman.

Fun sex is all about discovering what’s enjoyably and pleasurable for you and your partner, and a Wand can certainly help with this.

Wand massagers come in an array of colours and sizes, there are plug&play versions, there are cordless ones, and there are smaller-sized ones for travelling and ease of use.

Wand massagers are very intense, and this is why they are so popular.

To start off with, we recommend using the vibrator on the area around the vulva, so not directly on it. Placing a Wand vibrator on the lower part of the stomach can be incredibly sexy – the rumbly vibrations can be felt into the knicker-area. Or, place a small pillow between the clit and the Wand; the whole pillow vibrates!

It may be an idea to find out what type of vibrator your wife might like; it could be that she dreams of a Wand, or perhaps she’d prefer a smaller-size clit vibe… It can be tricky to buy a vibrator for someone else, which is why getting Sh! Gift Vouchers is such a great idea – that way you’re sure to get her something she’ll enjoy!

If you have any other questions please contact us at advice@sh-womenstore, include the subject line ‘Ask Sarah’ if you’d like your advice from our new sex and relationship expert.

All names have been changed for the purposes of anonymity.

Good luck!

Team Sh! xx


Men’s Shopping Event at Sh! | Mon 21st Dec | 6-8pm | FREE!

Guys, we know how stressful Christmas shopping for your bae can be: you have to get the right style, the right size, the right colour – and then you have to wrap it all up too…

Let us take the stress out of Christmas shopping for her this year – Join us for an in-store shopping event for men, on Monday 21st December, 6-8pm.

Our ever-helpful sales advisers will be on hand to help pick out the perfect gift for your partner, and wrap it too!

There will be mulled wine, mince pies and an easy, unpressured atmosphere of Christmas cheer in which to browse fabulous gifts that are all about her pleasure…

Sh! is THE place to buy a sensual present  for your lover, partner, girlfriend or wife.

Men's Shopping Event

We have insider knowledge, like no other, when it comes to sex toy shopping – 23 years of speaking to women of all ages and preferences about what they want has taught us everything you need to know!

Before you set off, take a moment to think about the points below:

What are you thinking of buying? A luxury vibrator? A stylish strap-on or perhaps a sparkly butt plug?

All of these are great ideas – if it is what she’s into…

With gifts, it’s best to play it safe and choose something that she has had her eye on for a while…

She’ll love that you’ve paid attention AND she’ll want to use it time and time again. Win!
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We have some stunning gift vibrators in store, beautifully packaged, which make  fabulous Christmas additions to her toy box.




A word to the wise – we’d never recommend these go under the tree, ready to unwrap at the family gathering!

Sexy gifts, however beautiful, are best presented between just the two of you – perhaps on Christmas Eve, when you’re both feeling magical, rather than Christmas Day, when the feeling maybe more frazzled!


Multi-Strap Knickers

Beautiful lingerie is sexy – just make sure to choose something she’ll want to wear!

If you are thinking of sensual smalls, do a little homework, before you visit…

  • Style Does she prefer thongs, Brazilian cut panties of full-bottomed briefs?
  • Colour What colours does she wear the most? By choosing lingerie in her favourite colour, you’re guaranteed to be seeing her in your gift time and time again…
  • Size Tricky one, but you don’t want to get it wrong (trust us on this one). Take a sneaky peek in her undies drawer and make a note of her sizes.




Shopping for the perfect gift for the women in your life is not easy, we know, and that’s probably why so many guys leave it to the very last minute! So, on the last week of Christmas, we’d be delighted you join us and let us help!

Where:  Sh!, 57 Hoxton Square, London N1 6PB

When:  Monday 21st December, 6-8pm