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Kink Month at Sh!

This November at Sh! is Kink Month!

Women & couples are invited join us for our very exciting month-long series of classes designed to introduce you to the wonderful world of kink!

Whether you’ve been wanting to incorporate BDSM dynamics into your sex life for a while, or you’re still figuring out what the letters stand for, these classes are the perfect starting point to spicing things up in (and out of) the bedroom.

Each week, our experienced Kink educators will guide you through different aspects of BDSM, so that come December you’ll be a natural kinkster, fulfilling all your fantasies!

Dom(me)/sub 101 – 6th of November at 7pm

Does the idea of giving your partner control in the bedroom turn you on? Or would you prefer to be the one in charge?

During this class, our resident kinksters will help you discover your inner submissive, Dominant (or switch!) and give you tried and tested tips to help you get the most from your kinky playtime and bring your fantasies to life.

We will cover every stage of fulfilling your perfect scene, from talking to your partner beforehand, all the way to taking care of each other after play, as well as giving you lots of inspiration for things to try.

Book your ticket to our Dom(me)/sub 101 class here.


All our classes are friendly, educational, inspirational, playful and interactive.

Bedroom Bondage – 13th of November at 7pm

Learn how to play with sensory deprivation to bring alive all the senses.

You’ll learn how to tie and tease, safely and consensually, to accentuate the sexual experiences for both you and your partner.

We’ll try out the different types of equipment available for erotic and sensory stimulation, before looking at how power exchange dynamics may be incorporated into the mix to further vamp up the thrills…

Book your ticket to our Bedroom Bondage class here.

There will be interactive parts of all the classes but they will be fully clothed and there is no obligation to do anything you don’t want to do; consent is sexy after all.

Erotic Spanking – 20th of November at 7pm

Be enlightened, educated and inspired with the fun activity of safe, sane and consensual spanking.

You will learn the pleasures of pain, how and where to spank safely and sensually, the different feel and effect of floggers, crops, spankers, and hands, contrasting sensations and aftercare.

For both spanker and spankee, this class will ensure you play your part confidently.

Book your ticket to our Erotic Spanking class here.

After each class ends, guests will be invited to make the most out of the 20% discount that’ll be offered on the night.

Temperature Play – 27th of November at 7pm

As the nights get colder, keep it hot in the bedroom with our temperature play class.

During this class, we will be looking at all things hot hot hot, as we show you how to incorporate everything from warm lube to wax play candles into your play and even how to heat up your toys.

Like to change it up? We will also be covering how to cool your play down too!

Book your ticket to our Temperature Play class here.

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Workshop: Human Drum Circle

We’re very excited to introduce this Human Drum Cycle workshop by Dr Lori Beth Bisbey & Terence Scott. Never having attended such a class before, we are already imagining all the juicy sounds that’ll be created: slapping thighs, tapping shoulders, and bongo butt cheeks! AMAZING! (Can you tell we’re looking forward to this one!)

In this workshop, Lori Beth and Terence will start by covering percussion, and energy in percussion, before inviting guests to get more hands-on.

Topics that’ll be covered include:

  • Creating the human drum circle
  • Uses of drum circles and types of drum circles
  • Consent and negotiation
  • Choosing participants
  • Places to hit
  • Using instruments
  • Types of rhythm
  • Getting the energy to flow through and around the circle
  • Starting the circle and finishing the circle

Guests will practice drumming on surfaces and drums, and sending energy through the drums, creating and maintaining a rhythm first. Then there will be the opportunity to practice the parts of a human drum circle and the workshop will finish with a short human drum circle.

Book Your Ticket Here

More About Lori Beth Bisbey & Terence Scott

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Lori Beth & Terence

Terence Scott is a cis-gendered polyamorous, bisexual sadistic leatherman who has been a percussionist since 1973 and has been beating anything that might create an interesting sound or build a rhythm since then. He teaches workshops on creating a human drum circle and raises sexual energy through rhythm and percussion.  He has been in an authority transfer based relationship for the past 10 years and married for the past 4 ½ to Dr Lori Beth Bisbey. Pronouns: He, Him

Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is a psychologist, sex & intimacy coach with over 30 years experience working with individuals, couples, and groups helping them to create and maintain their ideal intimate relationships. She has special expertise in working with the aftermath of trauma, working in the areas of gender and sexual diversity, and is kink and polyamory knowledgeable.

Lori Beth hosts a weekly podcast (the A to Z of Sex) and a weekly radio show: The A to Z of Sex ® with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey on the Sexy Lifestyle Network, one vlog on YouTube, has two blogs and writes for a variety of websites and media.

Lori Beth speaks regularly in the UK and USA on topics relating to relationships with sex. She can be found on http://drloribethbisbey.comwhere both her podcast and radio show can be accessed. She has consulting rooms in central London and sees clients from all over the world via Zoom.

Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is a polyamorous CIS gendered queer leather woman, married and in a 24/7 power exchange relationship with her husband. She can be emailed at loribeth@drloribethbisbey.com

Pronouns: She, Her

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Adding a Third: What to know when encountering a unicorn or when you become one

Threesomes are all the rage, but how do you go about having one? How much do you plan and how much do you leave to chance? What makes a threesome good or bad? What should you discuss with your partner *before* you get in the sheets with another? More importantly, where is any of this information for that elusive third party?

We spend all of our time prepping a couple on adding a third into their bedroom, but what about the ‘unicorn?’

In this class, we will not only discuss all of the things that *could* go wrong and how to be wary of those but also how to behave in the aftermath and how to equip yourself if you are that mythical unicorn.

We start with your desires and why you want to engage in group and sex and progress to your fears and insecurities to ultimately give you the best path to a successful threesome — if that’s for you at all!

Join Lola Jean for this class on how to ensure your threesome is safe & fun for everyone!

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More About Lola Jean

American Lola Jean is Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme, Writer, and Volume Squirting World Record Holder (yep, it’s a title!).

Through both personal and professional experience, Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of.

Lola’s background in the mental health field gives her a deep understanding to the mental blocks many individuals may face. A sex geek to the core, Lola continues to develop her teachings and avenues where she can spread her sexpertise to the world.

As featured in The New York Times, Elite Daily and Men’s Health, Lola offers a variety of FemDom, Wrestling, Squirting, and Masturbation classes and frequently makes appearances performing at House of Yes and The Box.

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More Classes with Lola Jean This Summer!
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FemDom Class with Lola Jean

 You’re probably already Domming….and you didn’t even know it.

Someone who knows a little (a lot, actually!) about Domming is Lola Jean, a professional Pro Domme, Wrestler & Writer from the US. On a mission to share her sexpertise with the world, we are BEYOND thrilled to tell you Lola Jean will be joining us for an evening of Domming at Sh! on March 1st!

New to Female Domination and not sure where to start? You may think it’s all leather and whips but that’s only a very, very small portion of how domination can manifest. There is no single right way within FemDom. Every Domme has their own style, and every sub requires a different approach. Will you rule with the promise of reward? Or the threat of punishment?

Learn how to use your powers for good with the right intent and calculation. If anything, use this class to not only learn how to Dom/me but what good and ethical Domming looks like versus the opposite.

In this class, we will go back to the basics. Use building blocks like Honorifics and exercises to develop your Domme persona or their sub-persona.

Learn how to determine pain thresholds, reading your sub, aftercare and more…

Refine your skills, gain new inspiration, methods, and embrace your inner Domme.

Learn how to seduce your partner into playing submissively – after all, who doesn’t love a bit of worship?

Bringing your partner to sub space requires an immense amount of trust. Learn the lingo and gain all the tools to prepare you for the fun and exciting world of FemDom. You’re going to like it here.

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More About Goddess Lola Jean

American Lola Jean is Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme, Writer, and self-proclaimed Olympian Squirter. And with a sex-CV like that, it’s no wonder women of all ages flock to her classes, keen on learning from the best!

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Through both personal and professional experience, Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of.

Lola’s background in the mental health field gives her a deep understanding to the mental blocks many individuals may face. A sex geek to the core, Lola continues to develop her teachings and avenues where she can spread her sexpertise to the world.

As featured in The New York Times, Elite Daily and Men’s Health, Lola offers a variety of FemDom, Wrestling, Squirting, and Masturbation classes and frequently makes appearances performing at House of Yes and The Box.

 Book Your Ticket Here!


Make the most of Lola Jean’s visit to London by booking a ticket to her Unlock Your Squirting Sexcess class on Tuesday 1st of March  2019 too!

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Rope Bondage 101 Erotic Class

Attending an erotic class can feel exciting and daunting at the same time: What happens? Who attends? How do I know if it’s for me?

The first thing to know is that our educators are all super-friendly, professional and keen on passing on tips & advice to ensure you have great fun both in class and once you get back home.

Our classes are designed to build confidence, give a solid understanding of safety and encourage creative thinking (slapping a pair of handcuffs on someone is the easy part. The harder part is working out what you’re going to do with your willing submissive once the cuffs are on!).

What to Expect at Our Rope Bondage Class

Before the class starts, we’ll offer fizz and French Fancies to help settle any nerves.  However, rope play is best enjoyed with a clear mind, so we’ll cut off the alcohol supply before anyone gets too merry!

Our rope bondage class is suitable for beginners, and our friendly team will start with safety (what kind of rope to use, safewords and positioning) before moving on to the planning of a scene.

After this, there’ll be a practical part, where guests will learn to tie basic knots. For this segment, guests will need to work in pairs: if you’re attending with a partner, you’ll practice on each other. If you’re attending on your own, we’ll pair you with another guest (female) or a member of our team (depending on availability).

This class doesn’t include a lot of bending or moving, and there won’t be any floor work.

There will, of course, be an opportunity to ask questions at the end of the class.

After the class ends, guests will be invited to make the most out of the whopping 20% discount that’ll be offered.

In case you are wondering – because many do – the class is fully dressed at all times, including during the practical.

Sounds like fun? Then book a ticket (or several, as we offer discounts for group bookings) for the Rope Bondage 101 Class here: Sh! Rope Class

Please note: this class is for women & couples only. If you are a lone male wanting to attend, we ask that you come along with a female friend.

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Unlock Your Squirting Sexcess with Lola Jean

Squirting – What is it? Where does it come from? How do I do it?

These are a few of the most common question we get in our East London boutique and it seems that for our customers, squirting is the Holy Grail. Some do, some don’t, but many try, try, and try again.

Eagerly pursued, wet orgasms have a reputation of being ‘better’ than any other kind and those who have yet to master the art of filling a wine glass in just a few seconds (don’t worry, we too felt like we were under-performing when a friend shared this nugget with us) all want to know the secret of making it happen: Can every woman squirt? Is it pee? And – the biggest conundrum of ’em all – does squirting always mean orgasm?

To get answers to these questions, and many more, we have booked in an evening with the Squirting Queen herself, Lola Jean!

Learn more about the science, mechanics and what products can help you on your squirty journey

American Lola Jean is Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme, Writer, and self-proclaimed Olympian Squirter. And with a sex-CV like that, it’s no wonder women of all ages flock to her classes, keen on learning from the best!

Lola-Jean-Squirting-QueenAlso known as ‘The Squirting Queen’, Lola Jean learned to understand and harness her ability to squirt not only with a lover but on her own through masturbation. It wasn’t an overnight sensation, but an Olympian squirter she became.

Through both personal and professional experience, Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of.

Lola’s background in the mental health field gives her a deep understanding to the mental blocks many individuals may face. A sex geek to the core, Lola continues to develop her teachings and avenues where she can spread her sexpertise to the world.

As featured in The New York Times, Elite Daily and Men’s Health, Lola offers a variety of FemDom, Wrestling, Squirting, and Masturbation classes and frequently makes appearances performing at House of Yes and The Box.

 Book Your Ticket Here!

Expect a refresher on anatomy and a window into the experience of squirt performances. Though involuntary squirting is not the focus of this class, Lola will explain techniques and what to look for during both solo and partnered exploration.

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Free Tickets to Our Popular Orgasmic! Class

 Want to learn more about your orgasmic potential?  Want to come to one of our most popular classes? Want bubbles and discounts, too?!
Want it all for FREE?

Great!

We’re giving away 10 FREE tickets to our bestselling class on female arousal and orgasm.  This is normally a sell-out event, with tickets costing £35 per person.

Join us for a FREE evening talking about clitorises and climaxing. You’ll be taken on a guided tour of pleasurable peaks and orgasmic delights – be inspired, learn how to locate and recognize the G-spot, learn about techniques and toys, and what to expect from female ejaculation.

A member of our friendly team will be on hand to serve fizz during the class, and once the class has come to an end, you’ll have the opportunity to shop and enjoy a 10% discount on all purchases.

Join Us!

*One ticket per person only

*There are only 10 tickets available, so book early to avoid disappointment

*Please make sure you are available on the 14th of December before booking your space

Why is the class free?

Good question!

The class will be filmed by award-winning filmmaker CampbellX for a short 3-minute video which will help take our brand to the next exciting level. To do this authentically and with inclusivity, we need our wonderfully diverse Sh! customers and allies to be involved – i.e YOU.

Please check in with yourself to make sure you are happy to be filmed before booking your space.


Terms & Conditions

*Orgasmic is a women-only class

*The free tickets are for this class only.

*Attendees will be required to sign a realease form, consenting to appear in our short film. There also may be opportunity for attendees to be interviewed, if comfortable, to share their views on the class and Sh!

*Tickets cannot be exchanged for another day or class

*Tickets cannot be exchanged for cash

*Your space is only booked once you have received a confirmation email from our friendly team. Please check your spam folder as we occasionally end up there! 🙂

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Introduction to Tantric Sex with Jay Diamond

Are you ready to take action to make the rest of your life, the best of your life? Are you ready to transition to juicer relationships and a more orgasmic life?

The ‘Introduction to Tantric Sex’ class will be hosted by Jay Diamond, a spiritual healer with more strings to her bow than most and a degree in psychology and sociology to boot.

A practicing yoga teacher, physic and coach, Jay will be drawing on a vast range of both personal and professional experiences to help attendees of the class overcome anxiety, shame and sexual assault to live more fulfilling sexual lives.

Jay has appeared in Mind, Body Green, Spirit & Destiny, Elephant Journal and Kindred Spirit Magazine to name a few and is an expert when it comes to helping individuals overcome the pain of their past and embrace a more fulfilling future.

Tantric sex is an ancient Hindu practice that encourages couples to slow down and embrace lengthy foreplay sessions to achieve more powerful orgasms. The practice isn’t goal-orientated and instead encourages those that practice it to stop thinking about the end result of sex and instead enjoy the buildup.

Jay will be sharing some exceptional techniques and practical advice that couples can take away with them to help them achieve both their romantic and sexual goals.

When: Thursday 10th May at 6.30pm

Where: Sh! 31-35 Pitfield Street, London N1 6HB  (enter through the coffee shop)

Tickets: Tickets are £20 per person and include a glass (or two!) of Prosecco.  Spaces are limited so advance booking is recommended to avoid disappointment. Book your space here.

All welcome. 

Follow Lady Jay Diamond on Twitter.

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Sh! at the Planet London IWD Extravaganza

We are thrilled to announce our talk at the Planet Nation IWD Extravaganza on Sunday 11th March.

For one day, come along to Planet London’s fantastic community space for women & their guests. Enjoy the showcase of talent and diversity of the LBQ community, where access starts from free – and from there you can build your perfect day. Try something new, find out what the LBQ community in London has to offer, perhaps even meet new people outside of your current social circles!

This amazing day offers:

1 venue, 6 rooms, and more than 20 different activities from over 40 amazing cis & Trans LBQ women and non-binary people within our community!

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Date: Sunday 11th March 2018

Time: IWD Extravaganza – 1pm – 2am

Time: Sh! Talk: 7.30-8.30pm

Venue: The Bedford, 77 Bedford Hill, Balham, London SW12 9HD

Entry Policy: Women & Guests

Event Cost: From £0 upwards – pay per activity you are interested in only

Ticket Availability: In advance only

Accessibility: Accessible toilet


Let’s Talk Pleasure!

Activities_ShOur talk will take place in the Green Room at 7.30pm. We’ll talk female anatomy, feel & taste our way through a selection of lubes (we’ll invite guests to join us!) before sharing our best tips & tricks for choosing and using sex toys.

Also, we’ll set aside some time to take sex-related questions from the audience after our talk.

Looking forward to seeing you there!

Ticket Prices: Early Bird = £3 | Standard = £5 | Late = £7

For full line up, please visit the Rainbow Society Website.

Keep up with the event via #IWDextravaganza + #RainbowSociety

 

 

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Kinky Cupid’s Class For Creative Couples

Surprise your lover with a kinky date night at Sh! for Valentine’s Day!

We will be hosting an exclusive class for only 5 couples, and our Kinky Cupid promises that the evening will be ‘Hotter than a flaming Sambuca, spicier than a Cordon Bleu curry and more sizzling than a Teppanyaki hotplate’!

Be the top (or bottom) of your lover’s dreams and learn how to plan a ‘scene’, where one of you takes control and the other deliciously relinquish for a Valentine’s date that is off the Richter Scale.

Gentle restraining for sensual power play, erotic teasing with soft ostrich feathers and hot wax drizzled onto bare skin all makes for a fantastically sensory experience for both you and your date.

Prosecco and delicious truffles will be served by our friendly team as lovers take turns to thrill, tease & tempt each other.

Each couple will receive a bondage gift, lovingly handmade by our artisan team in our studio in London.

Spaces on this exclusive class are limited to five couples only, so booking early to avoid disappointment is advised.

Tickets are £120 per couple.

**TICKETS FOR THIS CLASS ARE NOW OFF SALE**

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