Non-Monogamy

Non-Monogamy for Beginners

Thinking about opening up your relationship? Or are you perhaps the new amour coupling up with someone who already has a primary partner? Negotiating open relationships can be a minefield and it is not unlikely that you’ll set off a firework or two before you get it right.

Join us for an elightening introduction to polyamory & other non-monogamous relationships, open & honest communication and how to have more fulfilling relationships with the full consent and knowledge of your partner(s).

The evening will include a discussion on the various non-monogamous relationship styles and their terminology and practical application for those who have already begun their journey into non-monogamy or are curious about how to open a discussion with their partner about non-monogamy.

The talk will cover the following topics:

  • Monogamy is not for everyone and it doesn’t have to be
  • Why be non-monogamous
  • Non-monogamy myths
  • Recognising your own needs within a relationship
  • Open and honest communication with your partner(s)
  • Setting boundaries that you are comfortable with
  • Choose a relationship structure that suits you and your partner(s)
  • Feelings exist and they are ok to have
  • Other people exist and they are allowed to have feelings too
  • Miscommunication and betrayal
  • Love and other chemicals

The talk will be followed by an open and informal group discussion and Q&A for attendees to deepen their understanding of non-monogamous relationship practices.

Book your ticket to our talk on Non-Monogamy for Beginners here. 

This talk is for women & couples.

Diary of a Teenage Nymphomaniac

An Evening with Cristina Palmer-Romero, Author of A Teenage…Nymphomaniac?

As part of our quest for better sex education and equality between teenage girls & boys, we are delighted to announce this one-off evening with Cristina Palmer-Romero, the author of Secret Diaries of a Teenage… Nymphomaniac?.

 

Cristina Palmer RomeroThis evening is aimed specifically at mothers and fathers of daughters. However, Christina maintains that the sooner we also teach our young boys that female sexuality is as hungry as theirs, the sooner we open up a space for young women to stand proudly side by side the boys and say, ‘Yeah, I shagged that person!!’

Therefore, this evening is open to everyone who wants to see a better state of mental health amongst our teenagers, when they begin to navigate their sexual identity.


Date: Tuesday 20th June 2017, 6:30pm
Address: Sh! 57 Hoxton Square, London N1 6PB
Price: FREE
Book here: Eventbrite

Cristina’s mission statement is NO MORE TEENAGE SUICIDE, therefore the evening will be an extension of her essay.
She will highlight the keys points in history which have led women to where we are today, and also elaborate on how women have become the controlling force behind women’s sexuality.
As a group we will explore the language we have used and heard to insult other women. We will reflect on how this language permeates around a household, which teaches young girls what is supposedly acceptable or not, as they attempt to navigate their own sexuality.
We will explore the fears parents have around their daughter being sexually active and Cristina will also spend a bit of time exploring parents’s attitudes towards female masturbation.

Secret Diaries of a Teenage… Nymphomaniac?

Diary of a Teenage NymphomaniacAfter giving her virginity to a boy she thought she loved, Isabel discovers that the teenage rumour mill has slut-shamed her into isolation. Once an A grade student, Isabel finds the only way to deal with the bullying is to become the very thing she is accused of being, and thus begins her own journey of sexual exploration and self indulgence.

 

In Cristina’s own words: “The essay included in the introduction to my novel reflects on the creation, and the dismantling, of the patriarchy.

The essay is included in order to prompt thought and, I hope, open up a space for young women to question why we act the way we do. It makes for an astonishing read, when one is reminded that the rules of our society were created by men, and women were pushed into two categories: the good woman (the wife), and the bad woman (the prostitute).
This structuring of society, and women’s status within it, was created as part of an intricate web that also produced slavery and the class system. However; in today’s society, women continue to do the patriarchy’s job for them…women themselves are calling other women’s sexuality.

Women’s harsh judgement of each other’s sexual identity and behaviour is contributing to a rise in teenage suicides, as young women find themselves unable to cope with the smear of gossip on social media, which spreads like wild fire.

 

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