couples sex toy advice

Top 5 Sexy Gifts for Couples

Whether you are choosing an sexy anniversary gift,  a thrilling engagement or wedding present, or perhaps a small treat for a couple needing to kickstart their mojo, we have the perfect sexy gift for you!

Our gift  sets, designed to make sexy shopping easy; all come presented in beautiful gift boxes, so your present is all ready to give… and start giving pleasure!

Number 1 Bestselling Gift Set for Couples

Couples Date Night Set
Couples Date Night Set £126

Take play outside the bedroom with this bestselling set for couples. The Remote Bullet vibe is great for taking play outside of the bedroom – and into the cinema, restaurant or nightclub! We Vibe 2, the world’s bestselling couples vibrator, enhances penetration by ensuring she gets extra stimulation in all the right places. Sachets of flavoured lube makes oral sex even yummier, and a bottle of our own bestselling water-based lube Lush Pure lube takes care of any dryness or chafing.


Sex Toy Starter Kit for Couples

Couples Starter Set £26
Couples Starter Set £26

Couples Starter Kit is a great little set for those new to sex toys. Made up of thee easy-to-use toys; our soft Lurveheart cock ring, a Sh! Bullet vibe for intense clitoral stimulation and a large size bottle of water-based lube, it’ll give a taste of what the wonders of stepping outside of your comfort zone can do for your sex life.


 Sexy Dual Pleasure Set for Couples

Couples Quickie Set
Couples Quickie Set £70

This gift set has been designed for couples who just cannot wait – Lelo Noa offers simultaneous clit and G-Spot stimulation during penetration, two sachets of enhancing gels speed things up and a travel-sized bottle of lube ensures play is sensual and comfortable at all times.


Sexy Gift Set for Couples

Couples Pleasure set £85
Couples Pleasure Set £85

Share and share alike. A great set for the couple who do everything together. A luxury silicone vibrator for exquisite clitoral pleasure (works equally well on his party bag), a Tenga Egg for his pleasure (try using inside out for sensual stroking of her vulva) and a Dual Bullet Vibrator you can enjoy separately but still together! The set also includes a gentle water-based lube plus a bottle of our own brand flavoured lube too.


 Gift Set for a Sexy Honeymoon

Couples Luxury Gift Set £175
Couples Luxury Gift Set £175

A honeymoon is the ultimate time to enjoy and revel in sexy pleasure – long, lustful days of nothing but love, love, love. What better way to send newly weds off but with this gift set containing everything they could possibly need for nights of sexual adventures! In the box, the happy couple will find Lelo Ida for swirling, twirling pleasures (controlled by remote), a vibrating ring for his manhood, a sexy feather for sensual teasing, satin restraints for playful games, a Sh! Bullet Vibe for intense clitoral stimulation, flavoured lube for kissing and licking off each other and a gentle water-based lube for those long hours of play.




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Toys Are For Couples Too!

Partners playing with toys together is the new thing.

A few years ago, a couple owning an overflowing toy-box were seen as sexually lacking, or sexually incompatible, or anything-goes swingers.

Even now, movies and TV continue to tout an idea of the “perfect couple”.

The “perfect couple” doesn’t need sex toys – just a beach and rolling waves to get it on…

The “perfect couple” has no need for toys – their desire for each other is passionate to the grave…

Only singles need sex toys – couples have each other’…

We’re here to tell you nobody needs a sex toy – they’re just a great addition, adding variety and a sense of play to your sex life, whatever your relationship status.

Sex Toy Benefits in a Relationship

Vibrating Love Ring

Relationships are a journey and whatever the media tells us, the truth is the urgent desire you feel for each other at the beginning, calms down over time.

This is natural and necessary.

If “new-lust” carried on for years, you’d both keel over with exhaustion!

Plus you’d never get any of that other relationship stuff done, like buying a house or going to Ikea.

Introducing a sex toy in your relationship can reignite those feelings of first-time lust, purely because the experience is new, exciting and full of sexy anticipation.

Over time, couples can get into sexual routines, even ruts, and these can lead to boredom and frustration which are the enemies of relationships.

Mixing it up in the bedroom by playing with a sex toy together can help change or break that routine.

Exploring toys together also helps increase trust and intimacy as they open up a whole new dialog between you.

We see this happen everyday at the Sh! store; couples canoodling, cooing and negotiating over possible purchases, before dashing home to try out their new toys.

Playing with sex toys in your relationship, doesn’t mean you’re not the “perfect couple”.

It simply means you’re a communicative couple; a playful couple; a committed couple!

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How To Choose The Right Sex Toy

Whether a sex-toy virgin, looking for a first vibrator or budding sexpert seeking new toys, the most important thing to think about, when choosing a sex toy, is what you want to get out of your toy.

Ask yourself; What is the main type of pleasure I want from my sex toy ?

It’s easy to get boggled or diverted by all the different styles of playthings available, but in order to find the right sex toy for you, one that will meet your expectations and deliver the kind of pleasure you’re looking for, the best starting point is to zone in on exactly what you want its main job to be…

For clitoral pleasure –  choose a vibrator

The best toy,  for intense stimulation of the external clitoris and vulva is a vibrator.

If you're looking for a sex toy to give dedicated clitoral pleasure, a vibrator is the best toy for you to choose...
If you’re looking for a sex toy to give dedicated clitoral pleasure, a vibrator is the best toy for you to choose…

Many people assume the way to use a vibrator is inside, replicating intercourse, but actually 80% of women only use theirs externally on or around their clitoris, during masturbation.

Your Clitoris & How to Pleasure It...
Your Clitoris & How to Pleasure It…

Clitoral stimulation is key to most women’s orgasms.

No wonder, then, that vibrators are the most popular sex toy choice for most women shopping at Sh! and the kind we advise most about.

Any toy that vibrates will stimulate your clitoris,  so feel free to choose any vibrator that appeals to you.


Sh! Bullet Vibrator £10
Sh! Bullet Vibrator £10
Womanizer Clitoral Suction Toy £129
Womanizer Clitoral Suction Toy £129







You can spend as little as £10, up to well over £100. Choosing the right vibrator is a very personal choice and we have LOTS of advice to help you. If you’d like tailored advice, give us a call and we’ll be happy to talk through the best options for you.

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For internal pleasure: choose a vibrator or a dildo

You’ll see from the picture above, your clitoris has two shafts that loop inside and hug the vagina. Your vaginal entrance is also packed with sensitive nerve-endings, so intense pleasure can come from inside too.

Choosing the right shape and size of a penetrative toy IS important.

The right toy for penetrative pleasure is something of a Goldilocks choice; One that’s too big or wide for you will feel uncomfortable, just as a toy that’s too small or slim will feel unfulfilling.

The best way is to think of ( or measure!) the size of your preferred penetrative pleasure object ( fingers? penis? another sex toy?) and  go for similar proportions.


Desire Vibrator £49
A vibrator with a shaft can be enjoyed for penetrative, as well as clitoral pleasure
Cupid 3 Vibrating Dildo £50
A dildo is also a good choice if you are looking for penetrative pleasure







Despite the jokes, size isn’t everything. Every woman is different, which is why we stock penetrative toys, whether a dildo or a vibrator, from tiny size up.

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For both inside and out  – choose a Rabbit

Sh! Rabbit Vibrator £25 A Rabbit vibrator delivers combined internal and clitoral stimulation, offering the possibility for a 'blended' orgasm
Sh! Rabbit Vibrator £25 A Rabbit vibrator delivers combined internal and clitoral stimulation, offering the possibility for a ‘blended’ orgasm



One of the most famous sex toys in history, the rabbit vibrator offers amazing dual sensations.

Internal massage is combined with intense clitoral stimulation.

Millions of women agree that it’s a winning combination!


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For stronger orgasms through PC Muscle/ Kegal workout – choose love balls


Love balls are 2 weighted spheres designed to strengthen the PC muscle, which, in time  will give you stronger orgasms
Love balls are 2 weighted spheres designed to strengthen the PC muscle, which, in time will give you stronger orgasms


The key to stronger, longer, more certain orgasms is a strong PC muscle, which you learn to flex during sex is key.

They also seem to be imposrtant to learning how to female ejaculate or ‘squirt’

Love balls, made famous in Fifty Shades of Grey, are 2 heavy balls that you wear inside (vaginally)

The weight means that you naturally tense your PC muscle to keep them in place.

Many women also tell us they find them pleasurable to wear in themselves, as they twirl around in response to your movements.

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For your G-Spot – Choose a vibrator or dildo that’s specially shaped for G-Spot pleasure


There’s lots of hoo-haw recently about whether the G-Spot exists. We don’t believe there’s been enough proper ‘evidence’ of this and prefer to go on personal research!

It might be that we don’t all respond in the same way but, whether it’s part of the internal clitoris or indeed a special magical ( and illusive!) spot, many, many women report a difference in sensations and orgasmic qualities that come from inside…

Your G-Spot
Your G-Spot

So, we will continue to call it the ‘G-Spot’ and give advice that is gathered from talking to 1000’s of women.

A  toy that has a curved or bulbous head is best suited to finding and stimulating the G-Spot  more easily and more comfortably, than a straight-sided toy.

A vibrator with a curved and/or bulbous tip can find & stimulate the G-Spot more easily, than a straight toy
A vibrator with a curved and/or bulbous tip can find & stimulate the G-Spot more easily, than a straight toy
The G-Spot responds to pressure & firm massage, more than vibration, making a Glass dildo a great toy for G-spotting
The G-Spot responds to pressure & firm massage, more than vibration, making a Glass dildo a great toy for G-spotting…
Honey G-Spot Silicone Dildos are ergonomically curved to massage 'special spots'
Honey G-Spot Silicone Dildos are ergonomically curved to massage ‘special spot’


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His Prostate – Choose a vibrator or dildo that is specially shaped for P-Spot pleasure


Men have their own special spot, called the Prostate Gland, that can give them amazing orgasms...
The Prostate Gland, can give men amazing orgasms…


Whist we’re on the subject of ‘special spots’ men have their own, comparable to the G-Spot, called the Prostate.

Located in their bum, lots of men are are discovering the amazing orgasmic capabilities of their Prostate.

Like any toy destined for anal pleasure, a Prostate Massager must be a safe shape so it doesn’t get lots up there.

Rocks Off Naughty Boy £49 - World famous 'hands-free' prostate massager for him
Rocks Off Naughty Boy £49 – World famous ‘hands-free’ prostate massager for him
Wild Swan £20 - Any G-Spot Vibrator with a wide base can safely be enjoyed for prostate massage too...
Wild Swan £20 – Any G-Spot Vibrator with a wide base can safely be enjoyed for prostate massage too…



Both your G-Spot and his Prostate respond to pressure and motion better than vibration. which is why a silicone dildo is great for G-Spot and prostate pleasure, plus with 30+ sizes & shapes, all with anal-safe bases, there’s also more choice…


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To enhance intercourse – choose a couple’s toy


Lelo Noa £65 - Designed to be worn during intercourse to stimulate your clitoris & G-Spot at the same time...
Lelo Noa £65 – Designed to be worn during intercourse to stimulate your clitoris & G-Spot at the same time…

Over 70% of women find orgasm difficult or impossible through penetration alone and adding a clitoral buzz helps.

Intercourse enhancing toys are specially designed to address this.

Worn by the woman during penetrative sex, these C-shaped vibrators hug the clitoris ( the larger arm) and the G-Spot ( the smaller arm) , whilst leaving room for her partner too.





A Vibrating Cock-Ring delivers a clitoral buzz for you, plus a pleasurable squeeze for him, during intercourse
Vibrating Cock-Ring  is a fun toy for added stimulation during intercourse


A vibrating cock-ring is also a good sex toy for couples.

A stretchy ring that  is worn at the base of his penis, it will deliver at pleasurable squeeze to him and he’ll feel the vibration too.

The vibrating portion is designed to stimulate your clitoris during penetration,




Discreet toys to slip on your finger will not feel like you've introduced a threesome...
Discreet toys won’t feel like you’ve introduced a threesome…

A discrete toy such as a vibrator for your finger or a tongue vibrator are great if you want to  introduce a sex toy to your partner.

Stylish designer vibrators are also a good choice as they make non-threatening bed-fellows for couples to share and enjoy together.




Penis Extension Sleeves
Penis Extension Sleeves


Want to feel a little bit more? For years we’ve rejected penis extension toys for being both iccky and impractical, but finally some have come on to the market that get the Sh! seal of approval.

Designed to slip over his meat n’ 2 veg, they add extra girth to his penis, whilst giving him a stimulating sensation from the textured interior.

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For backdoor pleasure – Choose a specially designed anal toy.

It's important that a toy desined for anal pleasure is a safe shape, with a wide base, so it can't get 'lost' up there...
It’s important that a toy designed for anal pleasure is a safe shape, with a wide base, so it can’t get ‘lost’ up there…


Things can get lost up the bum so it’s very important to use properly designed anal toys, rather than regular ones.

Whether beads, plugs or vibrators, all our toys for anal pleasure are super-smooth and safe, with bases or rings to safeguard them from slipping all the way inside.

The wide bases and hygienic material of silicone dildos also make great anal toys .

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For His Pleasure – Choose a male masturbator

Cool male masturbators - no fake lady lips, just great toys for male pleasure.
Cool male masturbators – no fake lady lips, just great toys for male pleasure.

Whether it’s him to enjoy solo or for you to play with together, a male masturbator is a fabulous sex toy for men – a stimulating sleeve that will deliver a hand-job from heaven!

We don’t stock any ‘realistic’ toys and this extends, of course, to our male sex toys selection. So they make great gifts, without stirring up any weird feelings about them being ‘replacements or ‘replicas’ for the ‘real thing’

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For Strap On  Sex – Choose a silicone dildo teamed with a strap on harness

2 Strap Harness Hand-made in our London Studio & available in a wide range of sizes and colours £45
2 Strap Harness Hand-made in our London Studio & available in a wide range of sizes and colours £45




For sex with a strap-on, whether as a lesbian couple or for pegging, the most popular and versatile option is to buy a harness, along with a dildo.

We don’t rate ‘fused’ strap-ons as one size most definitely DOES NOT fit all!

Fused strap-ons ( where the dildo is permanently attached to a harness) are also impossible to clean the dildo effectively.

That’s why we hand-produce our own range of harnesses and silicone dildos in our London studio, giving you a huge range of sizes, so every preference is covered.


Sh! dildos are hand-poured in super safe silicone and come in a range of over 30 fifferent sizes, meaning there's a perfect dildo, whatever your preference!
Sh! dildos are hand-poured in super safe silicone and come in a range of over 30 fifferent sizes, meaning there’s a perfect dildo, whatever your preference!



Choosing your harness and dildo individually gives the most bespoke strap-on possible.

Or choose one of our Strap On Kits


Best Strap-On Kit £99
Best Strap-On Kit £99


They are specially selected to contain everything you need to get started.





Pegging Strap On Kit £89
Pegging Strap On Kit £89







For strap-on style sex, without a harness, choose a strapless dildo

Strapless dildos are designed for strap-on style sex without a harness
Strapless dildos are designed for strap-on style sex without a harness

Strapless Strap-Ons offer a different way to enjoy strap-on sex.

They require no harness but strong PC muscles to operate!

A strapless is better suited to close, intimate ‘grinding-together’ than wild thrusting

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Remember – Lube Enhances All Play!

Sh! Lube £10 - Available in Hybrid, Paraben-free and Anal formulars
Sh! Lube £10 – Available in Hybrid, Paraben-free and Anal formulars

Once you have chosen your toys, remember to add lube.

It enhances all erotic play, reduces friction and making everything you do super-sensual, whether with a lover or solo, using sex toys, hands or body to body. We promise you wont regret it!

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Lelo Noa Sex Toy Review

Lelo Noa Wearable Vibe

If, like most women, penetration on its own just isn’t enough to get you off, and this clever little toy provides the extra stimulation to pleasure your clitoris , as well as stimulate your G-spot,  which should help you reach orgasm during penetrative sex.

As Lelo Noa is so small and non-intrusive, your partner needn’t worry that he’ll somehow be made redundant in the bedroom  – this toy offers great pleasure for both of you.

Lelo Noa £65
Lelo Noa £65

Lelo Noa is great during any kind of play – let the toy do its thing to get you nicely warmed up, whilst you and your partner both have hands free to concentrate on other parts of the body.

How to ‘wear’ the Lelo Noa

The smooth, elongated bullet shape sits in between the labia lips and over the clitoral area, providing vibration in the area where it counts the most.

Meanwhile, the small internal vibe rests against the G-spot near the vaginal entrance, and the idea is that you can then fit in your partner at the same time and you’ll both feel the amazing vibrations.

If the thrusting gets vigorous enough for the toy to slip out, all you need to do is slide a hand down in between your bodies and press Lelo Noa closer to you.

Lelo Noa is waterproof, so it can join you in the shower for a quick morning blast, or perhaps the bath for a long, slow evening of luuurve.

Lelo Noa charges via USB which is really handy, especially if you travel a lot. Plug it into your laptop and voila – ready to go!

Not just for couples, Noa is also a fab solo sex toy too!

Noa makes a great toy for solo sex and because it stimulates you 2 pleasure centres at the same time, much like a rabbit vibrator, this dual stimulation can lead to a ‘blended orgasm’ which is an orgasm that feels like it comes from both inside and out.

And, it’s not just for bedroom or bathroom play either.

If you’re a mischievous and up-fer-it kinda gal, Lelo Noa is small enough (and quiet enough) to be worn inside knickers like a hands-free vibrator,  whilst perusing the frozen isles in Tesco…

Difference Between We-Vibe Models - A Comparison Guide

We Vibe Advice & Difference Between We-Vibe Models

So many of our customers love the We Vibe  – well, what’s  not to love?!

We-Vibe created the world’s first couples vibrator and it took the world by storm, winning multiple design and innovation awards from the start.

Conceived and designed by a Canadian husband and wife team in 2004, We-vibe has gone on to sell over 2 million in over 50 countries.

It was created to be worn by a woman whilst making love and designed to deliver the extra stimulation, specifically clitoral stimulation, that most women need to orgasm.

The We-Vibe is a Hands-Free Vibrator Worn During Sex

The We-Vibe is a flexible, c-shaped toy, which stays in place holding the larger arm against your clitoris, whilst internally the smaller arm nestles against you g-spot. Once in place, there’s room for your partner to slip inside too and they too will feel the extra thrills the We-Vibe delivers.

How to use the We-Vibe
How to use the We-Vibe

The two motors give simultaneous stimulation to both the G-Spot and the clit, and against your partner too. That’s right: this toy has been designed to offer an extra-special hands-free thrills during penetration.

Add splash of water-based lube to the We Vibe  and it will slip inside comfortably. (Just to be clear, the smaller end of the We Vibe snuggles inside, whilst the thicker part sits against the clit).

The Difference Between We-Vibe Models

We-Vibe produce 2 different models and at first glance it can be tricky to spot the differences.

  • We-Vibe Classic

We-Vibe classic is the same size and shape as the original. The technology and settings are updated but essentially the design is the same and it has won massive amounts of glowing praise and five star reviews from media and public alike.

With so many millions sold,  We-Vibe Classic is clearly a great toy for playing together. Playing apart, whether with the remote control or We-App, we think it’s probably best for private, at-home sessions.

We-Vibe Classic 2 is the original We-Vibe shape
We-Vibe Classic 2 is the original We-Vibe shape


  • We-Vibe 4

We-Vibe 4 is more compact and body-hugging in size and shape. It essentially has the same c-shape design, but it’s approx 25% smaller than the original. There maybe many different reasons why you’d choose a smaller fit but the size of you, or the size of your partner, isn’t likely to be one of them. There’s no evidence to suggest that smaller or shorter women have smaller, shorter or indeed ‘tighter’ vagjays!

But if you’re in any way uneasy or uncomfortable about penetration,  or adding toys during sex, smaller toys are best psychologically.

And if you plan to play remotely, out and about in public, the more compact size of We-Vibe 4 maybe worth the extra investment.

We-vibe 4
We-Vibe 4 is smaller than We-Vibe classic, created for those who wanted a body-hugging fit

Remote & Long-distance Play with the We-Vibe

Whilst the We-Vibe was originally designed to deliver extra pleasure when couples are locked together in the throws of passion, the introduction of a remote control fob, and most recently the We-App, means that couples can get connected, even when they are apart.

Both We-Vibes can be enjoyed as a remote-control vibe, where you wear it and your partner controls your pleasure from a few meters away.

For long-distance lovers, the We-Vibe app allows you to connect through smart phone video and chat.



We-Vibe Comparison

  We-Vibe 4 Plus We-Vibe Classic
Wireless remote control unit Yes Yes
Storage/Travel case Yes Yes
We-Connect Yes Yes
Smartphone remote control Yes Yes
Create custom vibration playlists Yes Yes
Share control from anywhere Yes Yes
Independent motor control Yes Yes
Intensity control Yes Yes
Modes 10+ 10+
Medical grade silicone Silky smooth Silky smooth
Form & Size Compact,

Length 2.9 inch

Width 1.2 inch

Between arms 1.6 inch

Original classic
fit, flexible

Length: 3.3 inch

Width: 1.1 inch

Between arms 2.2 inch


Fave Sex Toys this Weekend…

It’s the Monday before Christmas
And here at HQ,
The Sh! girlz are busy
Wrapping presents for you!

So what your fave sex toys this weekend?

We Vibe II
We Vibe II


We’ve had two clear fav sex toys  which have been flying off the shelves – both great festive pressies for the one you love…

The We-Vibe II
The We Vibe II is still one of the most popular couple’s vibrators we sell – and one of the few vibrators that can be used internally during intercourse! The We Vibe II has a g-spot stimulator that’s worn internally, to give a buzz to her G-spot as well as his sensitive bits!

Extra Sexy Rabbit Vibrator
Ultimate Rabbit Vibrator

Meanwhile, the clit stimulator provides clitoral stimulation for her, and with nine settings of vibration, the We Vibe II is a fantastic pressie for any couple!

Ultimate Rabbit Vibrator
The Ultimate Rabbit Vibrator is a brand-new vibe, based on the much-loved rabbit vibrator design, with an extra little bullet on the shaft for thrilling perineum stimulation… The Ultimate Rabbit Vibrator has also got an amazing powerful buzz in the rabbit ears, plus rotating beads in the shaft for internal thrills – six thrilling settings of buzz, and six of rotation, make for a fantastic rabbit experience.

Those are the two favourites this Monday – but there’s lots of other hot Christmas goodies to chose from on our website here, and we’ll be posting goodies up til the 23rd, so – snow permitting – there’s lots of time for you to pick the perfect pressie!


Q&A Spice Up Our Sex Life?

Dear Sh!

My boyfriend and I are looking for something to spice up our sex life – currently fun but a bit ‘ordinary’.

We’re looking for something fun to start us off – toys, games or similar? We’ll give anything within reason a try, but we’re after something not too ‘hard-core’.



Hi there,

Thanks so much for getting in touch. There’s a few things we can suggest to add a little spice to your sex life.

Couple-Friendly Vibrators

Clitoral Pleasure Vibe £24
Clitoral Pleasure Vibe £24

For a start, introducing a couple-friendly vibe into play can be lots of fun for both partners. We’d recommend the Clitoral Pleasure Vibrator, which is great for clit play and is also very good if you want to introduce your partner to vibes. (Some men have reservations about vibrators, but with a small vibe, it’s possible to use it on his sensitive areas too and he’ll begin to see what all the fuss is about!).

Spice Up Your Sex life with Sexy Games

We can also recommend some sexy games as a very good way to liven things up. There are lots of good games on our website, ranging from IOU Hot Sex, a very simple card game, to Monogamy, a detailed board game that allows you to enact your sexual fantasies together.

We’d also suggest maybe trying out massage oil as a way to reconnect with your partner. Massage is very sensuous and relaxing, and is fantastic for long intimate sessions together.

Ostrich Feather £4
Ostrich Feather £4

It’s always fun to try new things, and we recommend a little bit of tie-and-tease play if that’s something you’d be interested in trying. Try out some simple wrist cuffs and maybe a blindfold, and take turns to tease and be teased. Ostrich feathers are great for teasing with, too!

Hope this helps – please give us a shout if you have any more questions.

Best Wishes

Team Sh!

New Couples Toys at Sh!

We’ve got a couple of new shiny sex toys in stock here at Sh!; one for ladiez and one for gents’, but they’re both so versatile they’d make great couple’s toys too!

Pretty In Pink!
Pretty In Pink!

The Lelo Siri
The Siri is the latest pleasure object from Lelo – and she’s got a new, stronger motor for a better buzz! Ergonomically designed to work as a massager or external clitoral stimulating vibrator, the Siri is pretty in pink and sexy smooth. With a four-button controls, you can cycle through six patterns of pulsation and fully variable speeds, so she has a style of vibe for everyone! The Siri is, like all our lovely Lelo toys, rechargable and made of high-quality silicone and hard plastic. We think she’s gorgeous!

P2 from Laid
P2 from Laid

P2 Cock Ring
The P2 Cock Ring is a hot cock ring for the fellahs – not only does it give his equipment a sexy squeeze to boost his erection and increase his sensitivity, but it gives perineum stimulation too. (The perineum is sometimes called a ‘taint’ in America, cause ‘t’aint his balls and ‘t’aint his bum – it’s the super-sensitive bit in between!) With a little bit of added lube, the ‘tail’ of the P2 ring will give his perineum a little nudge with every move! Obviously the Sh! Girlz have also worked out what’s in it for the ladiez, and we reckon you could wear the ring the other way round and use the ‘tail’ for clit stimulation during intercourse. Two things to note, folks – 1) Clean the toy thoroughly playing swapsies, and 2) Share nicely!

Both these gorgeous goodies are now available on our website and will be in our shops very soon!


Q&A: My Boyfriend is a Bit Small

Dear Sh!

My new boyfriend, who is lovely, is a bit on the small side so I’m looking to find out how to increase my sensations during sex. I know it’s ‘what you do with it that counts’, as they say, so what can we do to make it a bit more fun for me?



Hi there,

Thanks so much for getting in touch. There’s a couple of things we can suggest to increase sensation if your man is a bit on the small side.

Try a Different Position

First, positions can make a difference to the amount of sensation you’re experiencing from penetration. We’d suggest trying positions where your legs are together, such as doggy-style with your legs together and his apart, and putting your legs over his shoulders during face-to-face sex. It can be lots of fun finding out what works for you, so enjoy experimenting.

8-Ball Ring £17
8-Ball Ring £17

Cock rings are often really helpful for getting and maintaining an erection – the ring goes round the base of his penis, and sometimes his balls as well, and constricts the circulation slightly so blood is trapped in his penis. This produces a stronger erection and extra sensation for him too, as it increases his sensitivity. There are some available which include a small vibrator, and they’re generally a really great couple’s toy so hopefully he will enjoy using it too!

Products for Stronger Erections

There’s also a couple of enhancers that we recommend –  Stimul8 Penis Enlargement Cream is an excellent enhancer to increase his erection.

Curved G-Spot Vibrator £29
Curved G-Spot Vibrator £29

Also, depending how happy he is to talk about this, it might be worth discussing getting a penetrative toy to incorporate into sex. If you’re interested in getting an internal or G-spot vibrator, for example, there’s lots of really good toys that do hit the right spot without looking either realistic or threatening to a guy. We’d suggest something like the Curved G-Spot vibe or the Desire vibe.

Hope all this helps. Please do give us a shout with any more questions.

Best Wishes

Team Sh!

Zini Deux Couples Vibrator

Hey ladiez – sorry for the long silence! We’re back to providing a daily update from Sh! HQ, and we just had to start with the shiny new Zini Deux!

Zini Deux Vibrator
Zini Deux Vibrator

Zini have already given us the gorgeous Zini Luxury Vibrator, which we really adore, and the Zini Deux Couples Vibrator is just as fantastic a design for two to share- in fact, it’s just won the prestigious Red Dot Design award, putting it right up there with the Fun Factory Delight and the Better Than Chocolate vibrator.

The Zini Deux is a couple’s vibrator in two parts – which we think is a great idea! While couples vibes for intercourse have been around for a while – vibrating cock rings, and of course the fantastic We Vibe II – we love that there’s a toy on the market for couples to enjoy together without intercourse.

It’s often assumed that, for straight couples, intercourse is the Holy Grail, but other styles of play can be incredibly satisfying. Lots of couples love to have sex without having intercourse, because it gives them permission to be more inventive – and what could be more fun than mutual vibration?

The Zini Deux is a really hot alternative for days when either partner doesn’t fancy penetrative sex. The Zini Deux, which is stored as a single toy, seperates into two vibrators – his and hers (though they also work very well as hers and hers!) The clit vibrator has a raised bump for direct clit stimulation, and the gent’s vibe has a very sexy groove which is ideal to give him some serious stimulation! Both halves are incredibly versatile too – this is a toy it’s very easy to use your imagination with!

Another reason we love the Zini Deux is that it allows couples to explore what they like in the way of vibrations – great if one or both of you is new to vibrators. With five speeds, as well as five patterns of pulsation, the Zini Deux has something to suit everyone. It’s also the perfect sharing toy – you don’t have to take turns…

We’re very smitten with the Zini Deux – we reckon it’s one of the hot toys of the summer!