Tag Archives: communication

Q&A: My girlfriend is into BDSM but I’m not

I recently found out that my girlfriend has been looking at BDSM porn. I was a bit taken aback and I don’t really know how she feels about it? Do you think she wants to try it in real life or it’s just a fantasy?  I don’t mind that she has been looking at it, … Continue reading Q&A: My girlfriend is into BDSM but I’m not

Q&A: I don’t know how to talk to my partner about sex.

Hey, I don’t know if this a weird problem but I also don’t really know who else to ask. I feel really self conscious about asking for what I want during sex. My partner encourages me to tell him what feels good or if something hurts and I want to tell him. I just feel … Continue reading Q&A: I don’t know how to talk to my partner about sex.

Q&A: Help! How do I know if I’m sexting too much?

Hey, So I don’t really know if I have a problem but I didn’t know who to ask. I think I sext too much. Like I sext my SO when we’re in the same house. It’s not like we don’t have sex, we do and it’s good but sometimes I feel like I’m sexting instead … Continue reading Q&A: Help! How do I know if I’m sexting too much?

Q&A: How do I talk to my wife about pegging?

All Names Have Been Changed for the Purposes of Anonymity Dear Sh!, Looking for some advice and not sure how to submit to your advice section. My wife and I have are both quite open minded and have a good sex life.  We have attended your Spanking and Bondage classes and enjoyed them both very much. I would like to … Continue reading Q&A: How do I talk to my wife about pegging?

How to Play Safely with BDSM

BDSM stands for Bondage, Domination, Sadomasochism and Masochism. It’s meant to be a little scary but never in a way that’s unsafe. BDSM can involve as much, or as little bondage, domination, or submission as you like, ranging from a little light bondage to a full-on dungeon scene. BDSM can be incredibly intense because it … Continue reading How to Play Safely with BDSM