Tag Archives: advicex

Q&A: The Truth About Hymens & Sex

Hi Sh! Team! I’m from Indonesia. I am very interested in women empowerment, especially in sexual empowerment. I’d been brainwashed by my family’s custom and religion; leaving me sexually devastated cause I haven’t found a husband to channel everything yet. I actually had a boyfriend (whom I broke up with last August) that was interested … Continue reading Q&A: The Truth About Hymens & Sex

Cafe V – Feeling Safe When Exploring Bondage Play

Before we start, we’d like to highlight that some readers may feel triggered by this article. If this is the case, please stop reading and practice self-care. Maybe have a cup of tea or phone a friend – or both! You can always come back to this page at a later point. Many of the … Continue reading Cafe V – Feeling Safe When Exploring Bondage Play

Q&A: I think I have vaginismus? What now?

Hi Sh! Team, I find this really difficult and awkward to talk about but I’m guessing you are probably very used to it. I went through an almost 2-year long dry spell before meeting my boyfriend. When we first started having sex it felt uncomfortable and painful.  He’s definitely on the bigger side but I thought I would get … Continue reading Q&A: I think I have vaginismus? What now?

Q&A: What sex toy should I buy my wife?

Hi, my wife’s birthday is soon and I’m thinking of buying her some new toy (for both of us to enjoy). I’ve seen porn where people are using  wand massagers and I have read that they are the best toy to stimulate the clitoris, which is the only way my wife cums. However, I am … Continue reading Q&A: What sex toy should I buy my wife?

Q&A: Help! I can’t relax enough to orgasm with my partner.

Hi Sh! I am having trouble relaxing enough to get off with my boyfriend. I can masturbate to orgasm but with my boyfriend it feels like sometimes I get close but I just can’t relax enough to fully enjoy it. The only time I feel anything close to how it feels when I masturbate is … Continue reading Q&A: Help! I can’t relax enough to orgasm with my partner.

Meet Sarah, Sh! Sex & Relationship Therapist

Team Sh! are highly trained to give advice that’s always individually tailored; from choosing the right sex toy to more complex questions around female pleasure, health and orgasm. More than that, everyone who  passes our interview process has to have the ‘special something’ that makes us good listeners, easy to talk to, warm and  emphatic. … Continue reading Meet Sarah, Sh! Sex & Relationship Therapist

Q&A: Help! I’m worried about hurting my partner during sex.

All Names Have Been Changed for the Purposes of Anonymity Dear Sh! I’m getting to know someone at the moment with romantic and sexual interest building on both sides. She confided in me that she has problems because as a small child she fell/sat on a hot iron and suffered 3rd degree burns in the genital area. Funny … Continue reading Q&A: Help! I’m worried about hurting my partner during sex.

Q&A: I’ve only had an orgasm once in my life: what toys should I try to change this?

All Names Have Been Changed for the Purposes of Anonymity Hi, I’d like to ask for your help in a serious matter: I’ve been married for 20 years and have only ever had one orgasm when I was much younger. I’m desperate to put things right and think that I need help by buying a vibrator and any … Continue reading Q&A: I’ve only had an orgasm once in my life: what toys should I try to change this?