Philosophy & Comment

Cafe V – 2017 Dates

As many have noticed, Cafe V has taken a bit of a well-deserved break  – thank you for bearing with us, lovely people – but we’re sure you’ll be delighted to hear we’ve got new dates planned! The Cafe V dates for 2017 will take a slightly different format and we hope you’ll be as excited as … Continue reading Cafe V – 2017 Dates

7 Common Misconceptions About BDSM

With Fifty Shades Darker playing in cinemas all over the world, we are finding ourselves in conversations with customers and journalists about what it means for love lives – is the level of kink about to hike right up? Or are we over it? In reality, a lot of people who enjoy what is commonly … Continue reading 7 Common Misconceptions About BDSM

Women’s March. Mr President, No means NO!

‘When sleeping women awake, mountains move.’ So goes the ancient Chinese proverb and girl! – Did we rise on Saturday!? From the Isle of Eigg, a tiny Scottish island with a population of 83, where 22 gallantly took to the single-track road to Washington, the hub of the protest, where 500,000 thronged the spaces left … Continue reading Women’s March. Mr President, No means NO!

10 Sex Commandments for 2017

Thou Shalt Have More Orgasms Make 2017 the Year of Your Vagina – celebrate its moist existence and let it out to play regularly. Stay in and feast by yourself or invite others to the party – as long as those climaxes keep coming, you’ll be able to face the grayest of Monday mornings. Smash … Continue reading 10 Sex Commandments for 2017

On Tortilla Chips, Ellen & Gold Medals for Fab People!

‘The tortilla chip strong enough to support guacamole’ How President Obama perfectly, if somewhat bemusedly, describes international treasure Ellen De Generes before clasping around her neck The Presidential Medal of Freedom, THE highest civilian honour in the US He was ‘choked-up’, she was gleaming with tears, both understandably emotional as Mr President says;  ‘It’s easy … Continue reading On Tortilla Chips, Ellen & Gold Medals for Fab People!

Cafe V – Writing Your Own Sex Fantasy

Reading erotica and watching porn can be fun, sexy and empowering activities. But sometimes, when doing those things, you might come across words and scenes that are downright unsexy and triggering – and before you know it, the relaxing evening you had in mind has upped and left the building. It happens. A lot. Maybe … Continue reading Cafe V – Writing Your Own Sex Fantasy

Are You Having Fun Sex?

Are you having fun sex? How would you answer that question? Maybe the answer would be a resounding ‘YES’ or maybe ‘sometimes’ or perhaps ‘no, definitely not’… Or maybe you’d stop and think about the question being asked: what is ‘fun sex’ anyway? During a recent class, we used the term ‘fun sex’ as a way of … Continue reading Are You Having Fun Sex?

Cafe V – Update for Guests

Your support is vital in helping My Body Back Project continue its pioneering work, including smear test, STI, contraceptive care, and maternity clinics, as well as Café V sessions. MBBP receives a very small amount of funding for the volume of women it works with. It is a very new organisation, with volunteers who offer … Continue reading Cafe V – Update for Guests

Pride Alert: We raised $1,058 for the Pulse Victims Fund

Thank you so much to everyone who bid on our Pride Dildo’s or who donated or spent money with us over Pride Weekend.   We promised to donate all the money raised along with 20% of our sales from Pride Weekend to the Pulse Victims Fund are we are so pleased and proud to have … Continue reading Pride Alert: We raised $1,058 for the Pulse Victims Fund

We’re Auctioning Lelo Toys to Raise Money for Solace Women’s Aid

So it seems like feelings might have been running a little high at this time for people to want to bid on Lelo toys, we are planning a Christmas auction with all kinds of fun products and that is where our Lelo toys are headed at the moment. So watch this space! Last week we … Continue reading We’re Auctioning Lelo Toys to Raise Money for Solace Women’s Aid