Philosophy & Comment

Have Your Say: Sh! Vaginismus Training Kit






The Sh! Soft Silicone Dilating Kit with vibrating bullet became a popular product with women living with Vaginismus and Vulvodynia, as well as  the medical profession, as soon as it was launched on Vaginismus Awareness Day on 15th September 2016. The very first of its kind, the Sh! Dilating Kit made pleasure waves by incorporating … Continue reading Have Your Say: Sh! Vaginismus Training Kit

The Joy of Getting Laid






“I got laid last night – it was great!” She said it with such joy we all spontaneously burst out in a round of applause, before hugging her. At that point, we wouldn’t have been surprised if fireworks had gone off over east London, such was the excitement. It might not seem like such a … Continue reading The Joy of Getting Laid

To Shave or Not To Shave – That Is The Question






With temperatures soaring, we’re all undressing with wild abandon (not just us, surely!) and with that comes the age old question – to shave or not to shave? On this occasion, we’re not interested in leg or arm pit hair – we’re talking about lady-gardening: pubes. Pubic hair has, over the years, been groomed, shaved … Continue reading To Shave or Not To Shave – That Is The Question

Recycling Sex Toys






We often get emails and queries from customers keen to do their bit for the environment when it comes to offloading old vibrators and dildos. Contacting us is often a last resort, however, so many end up hoarding broken vibes just because they don’t know what to do with them. Taking an hour or so … Continue reading Recycling Sex Toys

Cafe V – 2017 Dates






As many have noticed, Cafe V has taken a bit of a well-deserved break  – thank you for bearing with us, lovely people – but we’re sure you’ll be delighted to hear we’ve got new dates planned! The Cafe V dates for 2017 will take a slightly different format and we hope you’ll be as excited as … Continue reading Cafe V – 2017 Dates

7 Common Misconceptions About BDSM






With Fifty Shades Darker playing in cinemas all over the world, we are finding ourselves in conversations with customers and journalists about what it means for love lives – is the level of kink about to hike right up? Or are we over it? In reality, a lot of people who enjoy what is commonly … Continue reading 7 Common Misconceptions About BDSM

Women’s March. Mr President, No means NO!






‘When sleeping women awake, mountains move.’ So goes the ancient Chinese proverb and girl! – Did we rise on Saturday!? From the Isle of Eigg, a tiny Scottish island with a population of 83, where 22 gallantly took to the single-track road to Washington, the hub of the protest, where 500,000 thronged the spaces left … Continue reading Women’s March. Mr President, No means NO!

10 Sex Commandments for 2017






Thou Shalt Have More Orgasms Make 2017 the Year of Your Vagina – celebrate its moist existence and let it out to play regularly. Stay in and feast by yourself or invite others to the party – as long as those climaxes keep coming, you’ll be able to face the grayest of Monday mornings. Smash … Continue reading 10 Sex Commandments for 2017

On Tortilla Chips, Ellen & Gold Medals for Fab People!






‘The tortilla chip strong enough to support guacamole’ How President Obama perfectly, if somewhat bemusedly, describes international treasure Ellen De Generes before clasping around her neck The Presidential Medal of Freedom, THE highest civilian honour in the US He was ‘choked-up’, she was gleaming with tears, both understandably emotional as Mr President says;  ‘It’s easy … Continue reading On Tortilla Chips, Ellen & Gold Medals for Fab People!

Cafe V – Writing Your Own Sex Fantasy






Reading erotica and watching porn can be fun, sexy and empowering activities. But sometimes, when doing those things, you might come across words and scenes that are downright unsexy and triggering – and before you know it, the relaxing evening you had in mind has upped and left the building. It happens. A lot. Maybe … Continue reading Cafe V – Writing Your Own Sex Fantasy