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Q&A: Tiny Clit

Dear Sh!

I think I have an abnormally tiny clit.

I have never come very easily and NEVER through oral sex and it was only when I slept with a woman that she commented what a tiny clit I have. I guess this is my problem.

Does anyone know of anything that can help with a tiny clit?

I looked up cosmetic surgery but the only thing I can see is G-Spot augmentation – so has anyone had that or does anyone have any advice about a tiny clit – any ideas mucho appreciated…

Hi there,

We’re sorry to hear about your orgasmic problems, but the good news is:

There is absolutely no link between clit size and sexual responsiveness or function.

A tiny clitoris certainly does not mean tiny orgasms…or no orgasms at all.

Rather than looking at commercial cosmetic surgery sites – which will encourage a feeling of “abnormality”, take a look at educational sites, such as The Clitoris Site which should reassure you that your clit size is not abnormal and having a tiny clitoris does not mean you’re never likely to have an orgasm.

The clitoris is a very complex structure: the “tiny” part on the outside is just the tip of an iceberg.

Lots of women find orgasms tricky or illusive – you are not alone, we promise. And it has nothing to do with whether their clitoris is tiny, large or somewhere in-between.

Not being able to orgasm is usually down to 3 things:

  • Not being aware of how our body works
  • Not experimenting with what pleasures our body likes best
  • Learning how to ‘be in the moment’
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We recommend a book called Becoming Orgasmic – a highly-respected, well-written and comprehensive guide to discovering your orgasmic potential.

Also a great book for you might be Clitoral Truth It explains in great detail exactly what the clitoris is and is not. It should also help you shed any hang-ups about what’s “normal” regarding clitoral size and help you find new ways of exploring your clitoris.

Lots of women tell us they have their first orgasm with a vibrator.

A vibe delivers steady, sustained and intense stimulation that is often enough to turn pre-orgasmic women into ‘yes! yes! yes! I can do it!’ – women.

Take a look at our clitoral vibes. Different vibes, for different folks, but for pre-orgasmic women we’d recommend getting a really “wowser” (ie super-strong) clit vibe like the intensely powerful Wand Vibrator.

You can always use the vibrator on the lowest setting (or even wrap it in some material) if you find the sensations too intense, but it will give you super-strong vibration if that’s what your body requires.

Remember, whatever you do – enjoy every minute of the discovery process!

Best Wishes

Team Sh!

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