Q&A Spice Up Our Sex Life?

Dear Sh!

My boyfriend and I are looking for something to spice up our sex life – currently fun but a bit ‘ordinary’.

We’re looking for something fun to start us off – toys, games or similar? We’ll give anything within reason a try, but we’re after something not too ‘hard-core’.



Hi there,

Thanks so much for getting in touch. There’s a few things we can suggest to add a little spice to your sex life.

Couple-Friendly Vibrators

Clitoral Pleasure Vibe £24
Clitoral Pleasure Vibe £24

For a start, introducing a couple-friendly vibe into play can be lots of fun for both partners. We’d recommend the Clitoral Pleasure Vibrator, which is great for clit play and is also very good if you want to introduce your partner to vibes. (Some men have reservations about vibrators, but with a small vibe, it’s possible to use it on his sensitive areas too and he’ll begin to see what all the fuss is about!).

Spice Up Your Sex life with Sexy Games

We can also recommend some sexy games as a very good way to liven things up. There are lots of good games on our website, ranging from IOU Hot Sex, a very simple card game, to Monogamy, a detailed board game that allows you to enact your sexual fantasies together.

We’d also suggest maybe trying out massage oil as a way to reconnect with your partner. Massage is very sensuous and relaxing, and is fantastic for long intimate sessions together.

Ostrich Feather £4
Ostrich Feather £4

It’s always fun to try new things, and we recommend a little bit of tie-and-tease play if that’s something you’d be interested in trying. Try out some simple wrist cuffs and maybe a blindfold, and take turns to tease and be teased. Ostrich feathers are great for teasing with, too!

Hope this helps – please give us a shout if you have any more questions.

Best Wishes

Team Sh!

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