This is a bit embarrassing, but here goes! My best friend is buying me a rabbit vibrator for my birthday - and I've never used one before. I don't want to ask her about how to use a rabbit vibrator! I've not had much sex either, so I wondered if I'll be able to enjoy a rabbit vibrator, or should I ask her for vouchers instead? Will my rabbit vibrator come with instructions?
Hope you can help.
Thanks for getting in touch. Don't panic - women who've had any level of experience can have a lot of fun with a Rabbit!
If it's a new experience for you, we'd suggest taking some time to enjoy it - maybe wait til you've got the house to yourself, turn off the phone and give yourself lots of relaxed, uninterrupted time to really explore its sensations.
The thing about any sex toy is that there is no right or wrong way to use it .
How you use your rabbit vibe is ALL about exploring what feel great for you.
Sh! Rabbit £25
Some people think that a rabbit vibrator is too 'complicated' for a first vibe, but this isn't so. In fact, because it offers a lot of different sensations it's great for exploring what you do like, what you love and what you can leave...
Basically, a rabbit has rotating shaft for penetration and a external vibrator for clitoral stimulation.
The beads inside the shaft provide a massaging sensation just inside the vagina and the twirling motion can also stimulate the G-Spot - thou G-spot orgasms aren't a terribly common experience for most women enjoying their rabbit.
Actually, for most women it is ALL about the clitoral stimulator in the shape of a bunny with two long ears.
In fact, many women tell us this is the only part of their rabbit they play with ie, they don't actually use the shaft-bit during masturbation.
The vibrating rabbit ears work so well because they can sit either side of the clitoris, giving clit vibration that's indirect but intense.
Enjoying the bunny ears, without the shaft, makes it easier to experiment and find what sort of angle and pressure of vibration suit you best.
The beaded shaft provides a massaging sensation you will never have felt before and deffo worth trying!
A Rabbit offers the chance of a blended orgasm!
A blended orgasm is one that is external (clitoral) and internal (possibly G-Spot) at the same time.
The shaft of the Rabbit vibe rotates, so gives a swirling feeling inside, whist the beads stimulate just inside the vagina, where most of the nerve-endings are.
The shaft of the Sh! Rabbit Vibrator is slimmer than most vibrators, so it's ideal if you've not had much experience with penetration.
Lush Pure Lubricant £10
We'd suggest always using a water-based lubricant with toys (and with all kinds of sex, actually) as it makes everything smoother and more sensual.
It sounds like your friend has got a great present lined up for you - hope you have a fab birthday and lots of fun!
Please do give us a shout if you've got any more questions.