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Q&A: How do I talk to my wife about pegging?

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Dear Sh!,

Looking for some advice and not sure how to submit to your advice section.

My wife and I have are both quite open minded and have a good sex life.  We have attended your Spanking and Bondage classes and enjoyed them both very much.

I would like to try pegging and potentially attend your pegging class. I don’t though know how to raise this with my wife.
Can you give any advice? Thanks for your help.

A

Hi A,

Thank you for getting in touch with us.

We’re so glad you both enjoyed our Spanking and Bedroom Bondage classes.

We know talking about anal pleasure can feel particularly tricky because it’s been shrouded in taboo for so long. But we also know, from talking to our customers,  just how many couples explore and enjoy it (lots!).

Pegging too is enjoyed by many couples (around 40% of our strap-ons are bought by straight couples and we sell a LOT of strap-ons), not for role-play or BDSM, but simply for the woman to deliver intense pleasure to her partner, which in turn gives her amazing pleasure!

So…  Getting back to your question. The good thing is that you both know us here at Sh! and so there will be no surprises when it comes to how we teach our classes and how comfortable we make it to open up the conversation and talk about sex.

Rest assured our Strap on and Pegging class is just as fun, educational and enlightening as our other classes.

Maybe suggest attending another class to your wife, as the others were so positive, and then gently reveal to her that you  would be open to trying our pegging class – she may be interested too but doesn’t know how to bring it up either!

You can use a conversation about our Strap on and Pegging class as a way to gauge how she feels. This way, there is no pressure on actively trying anything just yet and the class will be a fantastic introduction to you both.

We’d also recommend The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure which gives lots of  advice on pegging and how to communicate your desires, along with everything you need to know about the amazing, orgasmic potential male g-spot. It also covers prostate health, so every reason for you both to be interested and it could too help with opening up communication.

Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure £11.99
Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure £11.99

We hope we’ve  helped giving you some ideas on how to talk about pegging with your wife and we hope to see you in class soon!

If you have any further questions or queries, please don’t hesitate to get in touch. Please send your emails to:
advice@sh-womenstore.com.
Love,

Team Sh! xx

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