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Q&A: Female Ejaculation but No Orgasm?

Dear Sh!

I was on top of my man last night and all of a sudden I was soaking.

I was literally pouring over him, in fact it was him who said I may have had a female ejaculation. It happened twice and I didnt orgasm. I feel embarrassed…

Is it possible to have female ejaculation but not orgasm?

Hi there,

You shouldn’t feel embarrassed (or guilty for that matter)!

Yes – it is possible to ejaculate without orgasm.

Orgasm and ejaculation can be separated in men who study Tantric sex, so it makes sense that we women can ejaculate without orgasm too.

Or perhaps you did orgasm, but you didn’t recognise it as such?

G-Spot orgasms do feel different to external/clitoral ones.

Either way, quite often, when we are really aroused – and particularly if we have a lot of G-spot stimulation (on top of your man is a good way to get this) – we can find ourselves squirting juices.

This can be anything from feeling a bit wetter than usual, to being so wet, so suddenly, that it is hard to accept anything short of a full-blown ejaculation.

If you are  in the throws of passion, then it’s most likely to  be ejaculation

….and not a sudden case of incontinence that many people mistake female ejaculation for – so go with the flow!

Maybe it would be good to nestle a vibrator against your clitoris (it’s easy when you’re on top) and explore the possibilities of a blended orgasm? This is when you experience both a clitoral and a G-Spot orgasm.

Enjoy!

Team Sh!

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