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Can't Orgasm during Sex?

Unable to orgasm when you are with your lover?

Is striving to orgasm with your lover leading you down the soggy path of frustration, rather than to the pinnacle of passion? If you can't orgasm when you are with a lover, don't despair - it’s not as uncommon as you may think. It's certainly not abnormal.

Women have incredibly complex & individual sexual responses.

Worrying about not orgasming just loops our body into a vicious circle, so the longer an orgasm doesn't arrive, the more we tense up... the more unlikely we are to climax.

Aaarrrrgggghhhhh!!!

This is why so many women end up giving in and feel they have to fake an orgasm. We understand that being in this loop is tiring, frustrating and disheartening, but faking an orgasm is never going to be the answer. Unless you take it to the grave (and so sentence yourself to a lifetime of not knowing how it feels to orgasm with a lover), a fake orgasm lie will come out sooner or later.

Never had an orgasm?

To break  the "I can't orgasm" cycle, you have to do some more homework. If you can orgasm during masturbation, then that is a great starting point. Discovering how to transform ‘can't orgasm’ worries into ‘WILL orgasm’-confidence is the key to future great sex with both yourself and your lovers.

Women on Top

Getting really aroused is absolute key to many women's ability to orgasm - quickies generally don't cut it. Replay a well-loved fantasy, watch a hot DVD or get inspiration from some steamy and arousing Erotica. A good fantasy can really help to get your juices flowing! If juggling book, vibe and orgasm seems too tricky to coordinate, why not get yourself in the mood by watching a sexy film as this can help build ideas for fantasies as well.

Many women need pretty intense, sustained stimulation of the vulva and clitoris to orgasm, but if you find that you’re taking so long to climax, that your clitoris begins to feel over-sensitive or numb, or that your (or your lover's) hand starts to tire, or that you are getting kinda bored even (it happens!), then a vibrator could be a launch pad to sure-fire sexual fireworks for you.

Millions of women find the 200 oscillations per minute delivered by a well-charged vibrator will get them off every time.

Nowadays adding a little extra clitoral stimulation can be as discreet as it is pleasurable: most Finger Vibes are powered by tiny watch batteries, and are so small and light that they simply slip onto a fingertip to add a thrilling buzz to muff-shuffles. A discreet cock-ring vibrator like the LurveHeart Vibe will give you both an extra thrill during penetrative sex, and is small & fun-looking enough to be introduced without being threatening - and may just be the difference between you having an orgasm or not! Low profile vibe-styles like these are probably easier to include during sex with a lover without feeling as if you’ve imposed a threesome!



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