Advice on sex toys & disability, sexual health, PC muscle exercise and the importance of choosing Phthalates-free and body-safe sex toys… Includes customer Q&A on Vaginismus and painful intercourse.

Reclaim the Menopause Event

Our last event for magnificent women in mid-life and beyond was so much fun, we’ve decided to do it again! This time, we have Cabby Laffy and Eileen Bellot joining us for a deeper look into the effects menopause has on all aspects of women’s lives. The menopause is one of those subjects no one … Continue reading Reclaim the Menopause Event

Q&A: The Truth About Hymens & Sex

Hi Sh! Team! I’m from Indonesia. I am very interested in women empowerment, especially in sexual empowerment. I’d been brainwashed by my family’s custom and religion; leaving me sexually devastated cause I haven’t found a husband to channel everything yet. I actually had a boyfriend (whom I broke up with last August) that was interested … Continue reading Q&A: The Truth About Hymens & Sex

Q&A: I have No Interest in Sex

I’ve suffered from lichen sclerosis for several years (I am now 55) and have finally had successful treatment via the gynaecology team at the Royal Free, who recommended you. I have been using vaginal dilators to help improve elasticity, but the largest one is still uncomfortable to use and penetration by my husband is impossible.  … Continue reading Q&A: I have No Interest in Sex

Cafe V – Update for Guests

Your support is vital in helping My Body Back Project continue its pioneering work, including smear test, STI, contraceptive care, and maternity clinics, as well as Café V sessions. MBBP receives a very small amount of funding for the volume of women it works with. It is a very new organisation, with volunteers who offer … Continue reading Cafe V – Update for Guests

Q&A: I always get thrush after oral sex?

 Hi! I always get vaginal thrush after oral sex. Do you have anything to prevent it? Thanks! W. Hello there, Many thanks for your email. This is an interesting question, and we think many will be surprised to hear that yes, oral sex can bring on an unpleasant bout of thrush. Thrush is a yeast infection … Continue reading Q&A: I always get thrush after oral sex?

Vibrating Breast Massager for Sexual Health & Wellbeing

At first we weren’t hugely impressed with the Inspire Breast Massager. It looks a bit like something you might use to pad out your bra. Inspire Breast Massager can be used for some hands free stimulation when worn inside a bra, but that’s not its main purpose. No, this breast massager is more about women’s … Continue reading Vibrating Breast Massager for Sexual Health & Wellbeing

Brook, Teenage Boys & Sex

“You’ll see me, I have an orange plastic bag on my head” The lovely Tahnee of Brook had us in fits of giggles even before the working day had started. The rain was pouring down and it was quiet. Those of you familiar with Sh! will know that teenage boys aren’t exactly our target market. … Continue reading Brook, Teenage Boys & Sex

Q&A: I think I have vaginismus? What now?

Hi Sh! Team, I find this really difficult and awkward to talk about but I’m guessing you are probably very used to it. I went through an almost 2-year long dry spell before meeting my boyfriend. When we first started having sex it felt uncomfortable and painful.  He’s definitely on the bigger side but I thought I would get … Continue reading Q&A: I think I have vaginismus? What now?

Q&A: Will Oral Sex Give Me Cancer?

Dear Shhhh, Thanks a lot for you existence and the opportunity to ask you questions! I would be grateful to gather your thoughts on the following: I am not very experienced in sex and the past one year when trying to give blowjobs to my partner I keep getting really painful mouth ulcers. I am scared about … Continue reading Q&A: Will Oral Sex Give Me Cancer?