So, you’re all ready. Since you got the tickets you’ve been fantasizing about that sexy, all-round fun and frisky love-making you’re going to have. Only one problem: You are afraid your sex toy might prove to be the no. 1 cause of “oh dears” and “my, my” faces at security checks (even though it makes … Continue reading Do’s and Don’ts of Travelling with Your Sex toy
Hi Sh! Team! I’m from Indonesia. I am very interested in women empowerment, especially in sexual empowerment. I’d been brainwashed by my family’s custom and religion; leaving me sexually devastated cause I haven’t found a husband to channel everything yet. I actually had a boyfriend (whom I broke up with last August) that was interested … Continue reading Q&A: The Truth About Hymens & Sex
Hello. I just found your website today. I would like to buy a book that’s more about the illustrations/ pictures than the words. You have so many books, do you have any like this…maybe a graphic novel? I also want to buy a vibrator. Something soft and maybe not so much vibrating as pulsing. I … Continue reading Q&A: Illustrated Books?
I am a disabled woman and am entering the menopause. Vaginal dryness is a problem and annoyingly I have an allergy to the crèmes recommended by the Drs. which have oestrogen in them so cannot lubricate for sex this way. I have been experimenting with a variety of over the counter non hormone lubricants to … Continue reading Q&A: Which Lube is Best for Me?
I’ve suffered from lichen sclerosis for several years (I am now 55) and have finally had successful treatment via the gynaecology team at the Royal Free, who recommended you. I have been using vaginal dilators to help improve elasticity, but the largest one is still uncomfortable to use and penetration by my husband is impossible. … Continue reading Q&A: I have No Interest in Sex
So I bought a g spot vibrator but umm I don’t know how to use it, how far inside should it go, because it can not go inside… like less than a quarter of if can, and it hurts, so I give up and uhg, i really want to use it but its painful and … Continue reading Q&A: How Do I Use a G-spot Vibrator?
I recently lost my virginity to a guy that I absolutely trust and am very attracted to. He was able to make me cum using his hands, but sex was incredibly painful for me. He isn’t particularly big but I’m pretty sure he caused some tearing as well (I bled a lot, although I think … Continue reading Q&A: Did sex hurt because I’m not attracted enough to men?
I’m in a long distance and my partner recently expressed an interest in me being ‘rougher’ when we next meet up. Like slap her ass hard and talk dirty and throw her around. She also asked for more foreplay. For me when I’m rough I feel like I’m hurting her and it’s kind of a … Continue reading Q&A: My partner wants rough sex
Dear Sh! I wanted to ask about orgasms please. I have multiple sclerosis – I’ve had it for 30 years and have been fine until maybe 2 years ago, when I started having problems with fatigue. It’s then I started having problems with (no) orgasms. I’m not asking for medical advice! I tried to get … Continue reading Ask Sarah: Sex, Orgasms and MS
I feel like I get really horny during my period. I worry about having sex because of the mess but it’s so frustrating because it just feels like the time I am most turned on. Is this normal? Surely that’s the time you should feel least aroused? What’s the deal? J. Hi J, Many thanks … Continue reading Q&A: Why am I horny during my period?