Q&A

Every month we’re asked 100’s of sex questions in store, on the phone and by email. We answer each personally, but we thought you’d like to know too, so we share our answers here ( anonymously of course!)

Q&A: Get that ocean back in motion – how to combat vaginal dryness

Hello, I am in my mid-50s, out of a sexual relationship for over 5 years, and experiencing serious vaginal dryness (PAP smear exams are excruciating.) I am also a sex toy newbie, so I would appreciate advice on what vibrator to use. I don’t have any issues with orgasm — very easy — but I … Continue reading Q&A: Get that ocean back in motion – how to combat vaginal dryness

Q&A: I don’t orgasm during penetration – what can I do?

Hi Sh! I would like some advice if you can. I do not have orgasm by penetration, but I  do by clitoral stimulation. The strength and pleasure of the orgasm is vastly increased by penetration. Is there anything I can do to improve vaginal sex? Can you help me? Hello there, Many thanks for your … Continue reading Q&A: I don’t orgasm during penetration – what can I do?

Is Monogamy Dead? Book Event with Rosie Wilby

Join us for an evening with award-winning comedian and Radio Diva host Rosie Wilby as she presents funny readings and unexpected discoveries from her non-fiction debut Is Monogamy Dead? Hear about her sexual misadventures at the lesbian sauna and the results to her survey asking ‘what counts as cheating?’ After a short talk and reading, … Continue reading Is Monogamy Dead? Book Event with Rosie Wilby

Valentine’s Day Vaginas

Valentine’s Day is almost upon us, but maybe you can’t be bothered with chocolate, roses and Champagne. Single doesn’t always mean ready to mingle, and not all couples are into the lovey-dovey stuff… So what do you do on Valentine’s Day? Here’s an idea: celebrate vaginas! According to a recent survey by The Eve Appeal, … Continue reading Valentine’s Day Vaginas

Non-Monogamy for Beginners

Thinking about opening up your relationship? Or are you perhaps the new amour coupling up with someone who already has a primary partner? Negotiating open relationships can be a minefield and it is not unlikely that you’ll set off a firework or two before you get it right. Join us for an elightening introduction to polyamory & … Continue reading Non-Monogamy for Beginners

An Evening with Curator of Sex, Sarah Forbes

Join us for an amusing, revealing and insightful evening with Curator of Sex, Sarah Forbes, and a peek into her book Sex in the Museum: My Unlikely Career at New York’s Most Provocative Museum. Ever wanted to know what it would be like to work in a Museum of Sex? Come meet Sarah Forbes, aka “the Curator … Continue reading An Evening with Curator of Sex, Sarah Forbes

Q&A: Is Coconut Oil Good For Sex?

My partner and I have been together for 4 years and have been enjoying a busy sexual life until last night, when I couldn’t penetrate her when we moved through to the bedroom. Before that she was fine, well lubed and happy, but when she was on the bed she said it felt like I … Continue reading Q&A: Is Coconut Oil Good For Sex?