Advice

Sex and sextoy advice, drawn from 20+ years advising women & couples. We understand that your sexuality is individual and unique, so whether you visit us in store, contact us online or by phone or simply browse our online guides, we’ll give honest, upfront advice that’s personal and expertly tailored with one aim; to help you discover your own true sexual self.

The Best Strap Ons in the Biz!

A strap on is a the ultimate lesbian sex toy and in recent years has become an increasingly popular toy for straight couples wishing to explore the delights of pegging. But back when we started, if a woman wanted to strap-on a dildo to pleasure her female or male lover, she had only two choices; either a ridiculous elasticated affair … Continue reading The Best Strap Ons in the Biz!

5 Tips for Having an Orgasm

If you find reaching orgasm with your partner, or even during solo sex, is a bit hit and miss, don’t despair – you are not alone. Women’s sexuality is incredibly complex, driven by what’s going on in our heads as much as what’s happening in our pants. The bad news is that unfortunately pressing all the right buttons may do absolutely … Continue reading 5 Tips for Having an Orgasm

Your Stomach is an Erogenous zone

Many people are unawares of the sexiness of the stomach. When massaged and stroked slowly and deeply, the stomach can offer wonderful pleasure. Here’s how to release the powerful energy that is stored within the erogenous zone of your or your partner’s stomach. A Woman’s Stomach is an Erogenous Zone Erogenous zones are areas of the human … Continue reading Your Stomach is an Erogenous zone

Lube: What you need to know if you’re baby-making…

We’re all getting very savvy in the boudoir and Team Sh! are very pleased about that. We’ve been battling against judgmental attitudes to women’s sexuality for years; sometimes really overt negativity but mostly subtle put-downs that make women feel bad. Take lube. It’s finally coming out of the closet as one of the best sexual accompaniments a woman … Continue reading Lube: What you need to know if you’re baby-making…

Pegging: The Erotic Discovery for Straight Couples

Pegging is mighty popular! Traditionally viewed as lesbian sex toys, nowadays over 40% of strap-on dildos that we manufacture at Sh! are bought by female/male couples. The turnaround came in the noughties when men finally lost their hang-ups and discovered the pleasures of the male G-Spot, aka he prostate gland. ‘Pegging’ as a term, was born from a sex advice … Continue reading Pegging: The Erotic Discovery for Straight Couples