Couples (M/F)

Advice for straight couples from choosing and using toys, introducing sex toys into your relationship and Q&A from other couples…

Are You Ready for a Hot Valentine’s Weekend?






With Fifty Shades Darker there is no better time to start gathering inspiration and start planning the hottest weekend to date. But before you start the prep, why not take a few minutes to read this excellent blog piece on smashing sexual boundaries, stepping out of comfort zones and upping the O-game for 2017. It’ll put you … Continue reading Are You Ready for a Hot Valentine’s Weekend?






Q&A: I don’t know how to talk to my partner about sex.






Hey, I don’t know if this a weird problem but I also don’t really know who else to ask. I feel really self conscious about asking for what I want during sex. My partner encourages me to tell him what feels good or if something hurts and I want to tell him. I just feel … Continue reading Q&A: I don’t know how to talk to my partner about sex.






Q&A: Help! I think my girlfriend might have vaginismus.






Me and my gf, both virgins, tried to have sex for the first time recently. Everything was going fine for a while, we went through our general routine of oral and manual sex, but when we decided I should try penetration we were simply unable to. Lubrication wasn’t the issue, she was very wet from … Continue reading Q&A: Help! I think my girlfriend might have vaginismus.






Q&A: Help! I want a toy to grind on during sex.






Hello there! I’m looking for a toy that I can use as a woman whilst on top during sex. I have never been able to orgasm from penetration alone. I never really liked being on top before either except with my new partner! So it’s new territory. I’d really like to get a small, flattish … Continue reading Q&A: Help! I want a toy to grind on during sex.






Q&A: Help! How do I know if I’m sexting too much?






Hey, So I don’t really know if I have a problem but I didn’t know who to ask. I think I sext too much. Like I sext my SO when we’re in the same house. It’s not like we don’t have sex, we do and it’s good but sometimes I feel like I’m sexting instead … Continue reading Q&A: Help! How do I know if I’m sexting too much?






Q&A: Help! I always finish before my Girlfriend






Hi this feels a little weird talking to someone else about my problem. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months now and we both have a high sex drive. I seem to cum far to quick when we have sex and I feel uncomfortable because I want to give my girlfriend something back. Like … Continue reading Q&A: Help! I always finish before my Girlfriend






Q&A: Will Oral Sex Give Me Cancer?






Dear Shhhh, Thanks a lot for you existence and the opportunity to ask you questions! I would be grateful to gather your thoughts on the following: I am not very experienced in sex and the past one year when trying to give blowjobs to my partner I keep getting really painful mouth ulcers. I am scared about … Continue reading Q&A: Will Oral Sex Give Me Cancer?






No sex on your wedding night?






A photo posted by Sh! Women’s Erotic Emporioum (@shwomenstore) on May 18, 2016 at 12:43pm PDT It’s officially wedding season! ‘Wedding night’ might conjure up images of luxurious hotel rooms and sensuous delights but are people actually having sex on their wedding nights? According to a recent poll 52% of newlyweds don’t get around to … Continue reading No sex on your wedding night?