Beginners

Advice for beginners to sex toys. If you are a newbie to playing with bedroom accompaniments or are yet to start your adventures in sex-toy land, this is the place to find all our posts to help you through the maze and discover the best toy for you…

How to Squirt; Separating the Myths from Reality.

During the process of writing this post we have researched as much as possible about the topic to give a constructive and informed opinion. What we have found is that the little scientific research that has been conducted on female ejaculation is highly contradictory and really inconclusive. Scientists keep arguing, speculating or drawing conclusions based … Continue reading How to Squirt; Separating the Myths from Reality.

Do’s and Don’ts of Travelling with Your Sex toy

So, you’re all ready. Since you got the tickets you’ve been fantasizing about that sexy, all-round fun and frisky love-making you’re going to have. Only one problem: You are afraid your sex toy might prove to be the no. 1 cause of “oh dears” and “my, my” faces at security checks (even though it makes … Continue reading Do’s and Don’ts of Travelling with Your Sex toy

Q&A: Did sex hurt because I’m not attracted enough to men?

I recently lost my virginity to a guy that I absolutely trust and am very attracted to. He was able to make me cum using his hands, but sex was incredibly painful for me. He isn’t particularly big but I’m pretty sure he caused some tearing as well (I bled a lot, although I think … Continue reading Q&A: Did sex hurt because I’m not attracted enough to men?

Q&A: I don’t know how to talk to my partner about sex.

Hey, I don’t know if this a weird problem but I also don’t really know who else to ask. I feel really self conscious about asking for what I want during sex. My partner encourages me to tell him what feels good or if something hurts and I want to tell him. I just feel … Continue reading Q&A: I don’t know how to talk to my partner about sex.

Cafe V – Feeling Safe When Exploring Bondage Play

Before we start, we’d like to highlight that some readers may feel triggered by this article. If this is the case, please stop reading and practice self-care. Maybe have a cup of tea or phone a friend – or both! You can always come back to this page at a later point. Many of the … Continue reading Cafe V – Feeling Safe When Exploring Bondage Play

Q&A: Help! I feel ashamed about wanting sex

Hi Sh! I have a kind of deep problem. I can never feel totally comfortable while having sex with my partner, or myself. So I’m 20 and I’ve been with my partner for 3 years. I don’t know what it is, but I almost never initiate sex. Ever. Only a few times. I have never achieved … Continue reading Q&A: Help! I feel ashamed about wanting sex

Q&A: Help! What’s a Good First Vibrator?

Hello! I wondered if I could ask for some advice – I would like to buy a vibrator but I have no idea which one to buy. I have never used one on myself (only a partner on me during sex) Is there a particular one that’s good to start with? I also am not sure … Continue reading Q&A: Help! What’s a Good First Vibrator?