So, you’re all ready. Since you got the tickets you’ve been fantasizing about that sexy, all-round fun and frisky love-making you’re going to have. Only one problem: You are afraid your sex toy might prove to be the no. 1 cause of “oh dears” and “my, my” faces at security checks (even though it makes … Continue reading Do’s and Don’ts of Travelling with Your Sex toy
I recently lost my virginity to a guy that I absolutely trust and am very attracted to. He was able to make me cum using his hands, but sex was incredibly painful for me. He isn’t particularly big but I’m pretty sure he caused some tearing as well (I bled a lot, although I think … Continue reading Q&A: Did sex hurt because I’m not attracted enough to men?
Hey, I don’t know if this a weird problem but I also don’t really know who else to ask. I feel really self conscious about asking for what I want during sex. My partner encourages me to tell him what feels good or if something hurts and I want to tell him. I just feel … Continue reading Q&A: I don’t know how to talk to my partner about sex.
Before we start, we’d like to highlight that some readers may feel triggered by this article. If this is the case, please stop reading and practice self-care. Maybe have a cup of tea or phone a friend – or both! You can always come back to this page at a later point. Many of the … Continue reading Cafe V – Feeling Safe When Exploring Bondage Play
If you’re a beginner, living with other people, or looking for a toy for your travels then you might want something a little more disceet than a 9 inch dildo. So this week we’re looking at toys that say Sh! Yes that was a bad pun. Take this week’s quiz or scroll down to see … Continue reading Discreet Sex Toys
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Hi Sh! I have a kind of deep problem. I can never feel totally comfortable while having sex with my partner, or myself. So I’m 20 and I’ve been with my partner for 3 years. I don’t know what it is, but I almost never initiate sex. Ever. Only a few times. I have never achieved … Continue reading Q&A: Help! I feel ashamed about wanting sex
Dear Sh! I’ve been trying to lose my virginity but I can’t. We have tried so many times but I always stop him before he goes in all the way because I can’t handle the pain. He says that I am very tight, I do get very wet, but then this happens and I get … Continue reading Q&A: Help! I can’t have penetrative sex
Hello! I wondered if I could ask for some advice – I would like to buy a vibrator but I have no idea which one to buy. I have never used one on myself (only a partner on me during sex) Is there a particular one that’s good to start with? I also am not sure … Continue reading Q&A: Help! What’s a Good First Vibrator?
Hey Sh! I’m interested in trying spanking with my girlfriend. It’s not something we’ve done before and I can’t make it to one of your classes so I wanted to know how to make it fun and safe. I’d be grateful for any information you can give me. What’s the best type of implement for … Continue reading Q&A: I’m interested in spanking?