Advice

Sex and sextoy advice, drawn from 20+ years advising women & couples. We understand that your sexuality is individual and unique, so whether you visit us in store, contact us online or by phone or simply browse our online guides, we’ll give honest, upfront advice that’s personal and expertly tailored with one aim; to help you discover your own true sexual self.

Janet W Hardy Talks Kink at Sh! in October

Exciting news, kinksters! Janet W Hardy, Author, Speaker & Teacher is coming to town and she’ll be hosting a talk at Sh! Here’s the class blurb: Mommy’s hard palm, Daddy’s big belt, Coach’s paddle, Mistress’s cane: few BDSM activities are as erotically and emotionally charged as spanking. Whether you’re a jaded aficionado or a nervous-but-excited novice, … Continue reading Janet W Hardy Talks Kink at Sh! in October

Q&A: I don’t orgasm during penetration – what can I do?

Hi Sh! I would like some advice if you can. I do not have orgasm by penetration, but I  do by clitoral stimulation. The strength and pleasure of the orgasm is vastly increased by penetration. Is there anything I can do to improve vaginal sex? Can you help me? Hello there, Many thanks for your … Continue reading Q&A: I don’t orgasm during penetration – what can I do?

Vaginismus Awareness Event

Did you know that at least 2 in 1,000 women experience Vaginismus once in their lifetime? Vaginismus, a condition where the pelvic muscles spasm to prevent penetration, making sex painful or even impossible affects thousands, but many are too embarrassed or afraid to seek treatment. Sh! is now opening up the conversation about painful sex … Continue reading Vaginismus Awareness Event

Dirty Sexy Words – Erotic Slam

Zak Jane Keir of Dirty Sexy Words presents another sizzling lineup of sex bloggers and erotica authors, sharing their latest and hottest scribblings with you. Appearing: The Other Livvy, Exhibit Unadorned, Meg Philip, Suzanne Portnoy and more. Come along and have your imagination teased and tantalised. The £5 price per person includes fizz and nibbles! … Continue reading Dirty Sexy Words – Erotic Slam

What does it mean to be asexual?

Just like heterosexuality and homosexuality, asexuality is a sexual orientation. It’s where individuals do not experience any form of sexual attraction. In short, that’s really all there is to it! A person is not asexual because they choose to be celibate or abstinent, and not ‘because they haven’t found the right person’.  It’s not because … Continue reading What does it mean to be asexual?

What to expect when attending your first sex party

If you’ve never been to a sex party before, it can be difficult to know what to expect when attending your first one. Excitement, nerves, anticipation – there are so many mixed emotions flying around when you’ve got an invite to an event like this, so it’s really difficult to know how to act when … Continue reading What to expect when attending your first sex party

10 Ways to Seduce Yourself – Workshop with Immani Love

Single, in a relationship, or simply want to get better acquainted with yourself? This course is for you! Learning to seduce yourself can be easy if you understand the little details that matter. This workshop will give you 10 Ways to Seduce Yourself and perhaps some ideas for spicing up a relationship as well! Immani … Continue reading 10 Ways to Seduce Yourself – Workshop with Immani Love

What is edging and why should I try it?

Our customers are always looking for fun ways of increasing both the quota and the intensity of their orgasms (aren’t we all!) and a brilliant way of doing this is ‘edging’. Edging has been around for ages and has, until now, been particularly popular with the kink community. The practice of withholding orgasms, as well as … Continue reading What is edging and why should I try it?

Polish the pearl: Methods of masturbation

Masturbation is healthy, perfectly natural and a wonderful way of getting to know your own body. There are several methods of clitoral masturbation, from a go-it-alone approach to adding a partner or a few toys into the mix to really get the party started! What works for one person may not float the boats of … Continue reading Polish the pearl: Methods of masturbation

Squirting & Masturbation Class with Lola Jean (aka the Squirting Queen)

The elusive world of squirting is having its time in the sun—and for good reason! What is it? Where does it come from? How do I do it?   Sex Educator Lola Jean learned to understand and harness her ability to squirt not only with a lover but on her own through masturbation. It was … Continue reading Squirting & Masturbation Class with Lola Jean (aka the Squirting Queen)