Advice

Sex and sextoy advice, drawn from 20+ years advising women & couples. We understand that your sexuality is individual and unique, so whether you visit us in store, contact us online or by phone or simply browse our online guides, we’ll give honest, upfront advice that’s personal and expertly tailored with one aim; to help you discover your own true sexual self.

Sh! Soirees at Lynda Wallis

Female Arousal, Orgasm & Ejaculation Class Our Award-Winning Store Manager & in-house Sexuality Educator Renee will be giving two wonderful classes at Lynda Wallis’ glamorous barn location in Essex! Lynda is a designer & maker of luxury silk lingerie like you’ve never seen before. Ronja, representative of luxe toy brand Lelo will join Renee & … Continue reading Sh! Soirees at Lynda Wallis

Erotic Book Reading: Kay Jaybee & K D Grace

Not one, but TWO award-winning authors will be joining us for an evening of sexy stories (from their books) as well as some funny, unsexy stories  (because there are always things that can’t be unseen) on March 24th. Kay Jaybee & K D Grace; two peas in a pod, real-life BFF’s and wondrous wordsmiths. Longtime … Continue reading Erotic Book Reading: Kay Jaybee & K D Grace

7 Common Misconceptions About BDSM

With Fifty Shades Darker playing in cinemas all over the world, we are finding ourselves in conversations with customers and journalists about what it means for love lives – is the level of kink about to hike right up? Or are we over it? In reality, a lot of people who enjoy what is commonly … Continue reading 7 Common Misconceptions About BDSM

Q&A: Is Coconut Oil Good For Sex?

My partner and I have been together for 4 years and have been enjoying a busy sexual life until last night, when I couldn’t penetrate her when we moved through to the bedroom. Before that she was fine, well lubed and happy, but when she was on the bed she said it felt like I … Continue reading Q&A: Is Coconut Oil Good For Sex?

Are You Ready for a Hot Valentine’s Weekend?

With Fifty Shades Darker there is no better time to start gathering inspiration and start planning the hottest weekend to date. But before you start the prep, why not take a few minutes to read this excellent blog piece on smashing sexual boundaries, stepping out of comfort zones and upping the O-game for 2017. It’ll put you … Continue reading Are You Ready for a Hot Valentine’s Weekend?

Wow Yourself For V-Day

Valentine’s Day can feel gruesome and daunting if you aren’t coupled up for this luvvy time of year: shops are filled with teddy bears, flower arrangements and cards so sweet your teeth hurt just looking at them. There are plenty of things you can do with equally single friends on V-Day, like going for drinks and watch … Continue reading Wow Yourself For V-Day

Valentine’s Reading Slam

Join us for a fun evening of aural frolics saucy enough to make ears burn and cheeks blush! There will be bubbles whilst you mingle and plenty of time to browse and shop our super collection of sex toys just in time for a fantastic Valentine’s Day. We have a stellar line up for you: … Continue reading Valentine’s Reading Slam

Guest Blog: Corner of Pleasure by Wisp

Corner of Pleasure for intimate lifestyle by Wisp (Anna & Wan)   Sextech is technology, and technology-driven ventures, designed to enhance, innovate and disrupt in every area of human sexuality and human sexual experience. – Cindy Gallop   Corner of Pleasure is a show that celebrates a female intimate lifestyle. Two young sextech startups will … Continue reading Guest Blog: Corner of Pleasure by Wisp

How to Squirt; Separating the Myths from Reality.

During the process of writing this post we have researched as much as possible about the topic to give a constructive and informed opinion. What we have found is that the little scientific research that has been conducted on female ejaculation is highly contradictory and really inconclusive. Scientists keep arguing, speculating or drawing conclusions based … Continue reading How to Squirt; Separating the Myths from Reality.