Advice

Sex and sextoy advice, drawn from 20+ years advising women & couples. We understand that your sexuality is individual and unique, so whether you visit us in store, contact us online or by phone or simply browse our online guides, we’ll give honest, upfront advice that’s personal and expertly tailored with one aim; to help you discover your own true sexual self.

Laud your Lady Muff! Why new vaginal trends can harm your intimate areas

We at Sh! like to think of ourselves as pretty open-minded and up-to-date in terms of contemporary feminism. Yet, the other day we were flicking through a magazine aimed at women only to discover an article discussing new trends and tips on weeding and watering your luscious lady-garden. Our eyes were opened to a world … Continue reading Laud your Lady Muff! Why new vaginal trends can harm your intimate areas

Free Tickets to Our Popular Orgasmic! Class

 Want to learn more about your orgasmic potential?  Want to come to one of our most popular classes? Want bubbles and discounts, too?! Want it all for FREE? Great! We’re giving away 10 FREE tickets to our bestselling class on female arousal and orgasm.  normally a sell-out event, with tickets costing  £35 Join us for a FREE … Continue reading Free Tickets to Our Popular Orgasmic! Class

Christmas Shopping Events

Instead of our usual line up of educational workshops and talks, this December we are inviting you and your best friends or colleagues to discover cherry-picked toys, treats and sex tips from our fun & friendly team of pleasure experts at our shop in Shoreditch. Join us for our Christmas Shopping Events on Wednesday the … Continue reading Christmas Shopping Events

Your guide to achieving multiple orgasms

The holy grail of the big “o” can only be one thing. Closing the orgasm gap one small step at a time, we present the multiple orgasm. Experiencing more than one during a single sex session is something most of us strive for, but like anything, it can take a little practice. Aching to discover … Continue reading Your guide to achieving multiple orgasms

Winter may finally be coming but that doesn’t mean you can’t be too

We’re already in November and seeing the days get colder and darker, many of us are experiencing lower intakes of vitamin D. This lack of sunlight causes lower levels of serotonin in our brain and increases our production of melatonin – meaning we are more depressed and more tired. Is it any wonder that our … Continue reading Winter may finally be coming but that doesn’t mean you can’t be too

Can Vibrators Cause Damage?

Ah, the humble vibrator; that little buzzing bundle of joy that for the vast majority of women cause guaranteed orgasm with the same surety that night follows day and often at the speed of a Usain Bolt sprint. Vibrators are an absolute godsend to women who find it hard to tip over the edge in two … Continue reading Can Vibrators Cause Damage?

‘Couples on the Couch’ – Couples Therapy on TV

Couples on the Couch is an innovative new series for BBC Three, following real-life couples as they bring their genuine relationships to therapists at our specially created relationship clinic. The series will follow their journey through therapy as well as provide genuine take-home advice for people who may well see their own lives reflected on … Continue reading ‘Couples on the Couch’ – Couples Therapy on TV

3 ways to get your partner to push your buttons in exactly the right way

Let’s face it, no one knows your body and what gets your juices flowing quite like you do. While partners try their very best to push all the right buttons, they sometimes get it wrong. Maybe they lack know-how on your hot-spots, maybe they’re a tad too rough or a little too gentle, maybe they go too … Continue reading 3 ways to get your partner to push your buttons in exactly the right way

Erectile dysfunction: What to do (and not to do) if you are experiencing it

Erectile dysfunction, also known as impotence is the inability to get and keep an erection firm enough for sex. Having erection trouble from time to time isn’t necessarily something to worry about. Up to half of all penis-owners will at some point in their life experience erectile dysfunction, and it can be something as simple … Continue reading Erectile dysfunction: What to do (and not to do) if you are experiencing it

How to dirty talk when the only thing hotter than your cheeks is your kettle

Want to talk dirty but feel your mind go blank every time it comes down to it? This particular skill doesn’t come naturally to all of us – especially those who aren’t reading off a script during a porno. Many people can feel a little shy or embarrassed when communicating their sexual desires to their … Continue reading How to dirty talk when the only thing hotter than your cheeks is your kettle