Anyone who’s ever experienced an orgasm knows just how ruddy marvelous they are: Your heart races, toes curls and breathing speeds up while the feeling builds in waves all over your body until you reach the point of climax and a feeling of intense pleasure and relief washes over you…
Yes, orgasms are pretty fantastic, but have you ever wondered how it might feel to have more than one?
You might be keen to learn about how you can increase your chances of experiencing one (or more, coz let’s be honest, once you’ve had one you’ll want to do it again).
Either way, this short guide to multiple orgasms should give you all of the information that you need to know about multiple orgasms.
What are multiple orgasms?
Bodies are amazing in that there is almost no limit to how much pleasure they can experience and the female body, in particular, is amazing in the sense that it can produce numerous orgasms in any one session (provided it gets the right stimulation).
A multiple is effectively when a woman experiences more than one orgasm during a sex play, either on her own or with a partner.
Can everyone experience them?
Like most things, multiple orgasms are different for everybody and some people are finding hard to have one orgasm, never mind several. Don’t beat yourself up over it – learning more about what your particular hots spots are, and spending a lot of time playing & teasing them, will help you closer to the first orgasm and after that, the world is your oyster!
It is common for the clitoris to become too sensitive for touch after the first climax, but we hear there are women (or female-bodied persons) who have experienced multiple orgasms after working through the period of uncomfortable over-stimulation. If you reckon you can handle it, you may have more than one treat waiting for you on the other side…
A different approach is to work with your G-spot, as this tends to be far more comfortable for continued stimulation. Women who enjoy G-spot play are often in a far better position to become multiple orgasm:ers, as their G-spot doesn’t become overstimulated in the same way the clitoris does. In fact, the G-spot enjoys attention so much, it becomes bigger and firmer, the more you stimulate it!
How to become multi-orgasmic
We’re focusing on the female body in this blog post, but men can also become multi-orgasmic if they are into prostate play.
Once you have mastered the art of one orgasm – or maybe two – you can kick it up a notch and try for a third.
Having the first orgasms by clitoral stimulation (any way you like it: tongue, fingers or toys), before moving on to a blended orgasm is a good middle. A blended orgasm is clitoral & G-spot stimulation at the same time (you’ll need fingers, G-spot toys or a penis for the internal stimulation).
Once you have mastered the blended orgasm, it’s time to practice G-spot orgasms only. For this, you need to be super-turned on, and tease yourself for up to an hour without allowing an orgasm to happen, Take yourself almost there, and then back off, go back up the peak, and then back off… This technique is called edging and works wonders if you want to increase the intensity of your orgasm.
Once you have mastered this (we know, it’s a lot of “homework” involved!), it’s time for the multiple…
After the first G-spot or blended orgasm, give yourself a few seconds before resuming firm stimulation of your G-spot area. Glass toys or steel dildos are particularly good for this, but any G-spot toy should be able to provide the stimulation needed. Once you’ve had a second orgasm, give yourself another few seconds to rest and then carry on…