Just like heterosexuality and homosexuality, asexuality is a sexual orientation. It’s where individuals do not experience any form of sexual attraction. In short, that’s really all there is to it! A person is not asexual because they choose to be celibate or abstinent, and not ‘because they haven’t found the right person’. It’s not because … Continue reading What does it mean to be asexual?
If you’ve never been to a sex party before, it can be difficult to know what to expect when attending your first one. Excitement, nerves, anticipation – there are so many mixed emotions flying around when you’ve got an invite to an event like this, so it’s really difficult to know how to act when … Continue reading What to expect when attending your first sex party
Single, in a relationship, or simply want to get better acquainted with yourself? This course is for you! Learning to seduce yourself can be easy if you understand the little details that matter. This workshop will give you 10 Ways to Seduce Yourself and perhaps some ideas for spicing up a relationship as well! Immani … Continue reading 10 Ways to Seduce Yourself – Workshop with Immani Love
Our customers are always looking for fun ways of increasing both the quota and the intensity of their orgasms (aren’t we all!) and a brilliant way of doing this is ‘edging’. Edging has been around for ages and has, until now, been particularly popular with the kink community. The practice of withholding orgasms, as well as … Continue reading What is edging and why should I try it?
Masturbation is healthy, perfectly natural and a wonderful way of getting to know your own body. There are several methods of clitoral masturbation, from a go-it-alone approach to adding a partner or a few toys into the mix to really get the party started! What works for one person may not float the boats of … Continue reading Polish the pearl: Methods of masturbation
The elusive world of squirting is having its time in the sun—and for good reason! What is it? Where does it come from? How do I do it? Sex Educator Lola Jean learned to understand and harness her ability to squirt not only with a lover but on her own through masturbation. It was … Continue reading Squirting & Masturbation Class with Lola Jean (aka the Squirting Queen)
So, you’re heading to a festival and searching for those must-have items that need to go in your backpack. You’ve found all the usual essential items – cleaning wipes, waterproof jacket, and tent decorations you can spot amid the sea of others – but we’ve got a few must-haves you probably haven’t come across yet … Continue reading Festival must-haves to pack this year
Our first Cafe V of the summer this Saturday! Time to be together to celebrate and reconnect with our bodies! This session will be particularly vagtastic, with illustrator & designer Jo Harrison on hand to inspire guests to get creative with pens, glitter & colourful paper. And as per usual, Sh! staff will be on hand with Danish pastries, … Continue reading Cafe V is Back!
The biggest LGBTQIA+ celebration of the year is a just a few weeks away, but we say: Let’s get this Pride party started! Pride is our favourite season and we usually throw an event of our own or have a special product or two to mark the day of London Pride, where we celebrate love … Continue reading Special Edition Rainbow Dildos!
We are delighted to welcome back The Vaginismus Network aka Lisa & Kat for a second meet up on 13th July at 6.30pm. Co-founded by Kat and Lisa, the Network was set up as a relaxed, safe space for women living with Vaginismus to chat and connect. Their mission is to educate, support and empower women who are … Continue reading The Vaginismus Network July Meet Up