Ladies - Don't just masturbate, but seduce yourself!
The art of love should be just as much applied to sex with yourself as you would to a new lover. Of course there are times when a quick masturbation session is just what the doctor ordered but don't fall into the habit of having a masturbation routine with little variation anytime you do it. If you dont put time, energy and imagination into having great sex with yourself as you would a lover then you're not really valuing the sex you have with yourself - the longest sexual relationship you will have with anybody! So indulge yourself, treat yourself and celebrate yourself!
So, next time ( ..or the time after) make a date with yourself and enjoy an utterly indulgent time Champagne? Chocs? A rose for
your pillow? A yummy, aromatic bath lit by candlelight? And if the chemistry is
right, let the romance swing into raw desire and have a long, delicious sex session with yourself. Really take your time and build up your arousal. Yes - you know how to give yourself an orgasm. But resist having one until you really cant take it any more. Explore all the different erogenous zones and sensitive places with different touches and different speeds; none of which you'd explore in your route to orgasm. We promise you the orgasm you eventually have will be sooooo much more powerful. And you will love yourslf more for it AND, you will have learnt more about your body and its reactions. A win/win situation.
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