G Spot toys and how to have a g spot orgasm with them.
G Spot Sex Toys
G Spot sex toys have a shaft (to penetrate with) and a curved tip to stimulate the front wall of the vagina, just behind the pubic bone, where the G spot is located. The G Spot can take its own sweet time to respond and when it does, it’s more likely to be through deep pressure and vigorous motion than a delicate touch or light buzz.. The g-spot is located approximately a finger length inside, but it can be tricky and tiring to locate and stimulate it with fingers. A penetrative toy, or penis, angled towards the front of the body can be more g-spot friendly, if a bit hit n’ miss!
A curved dildo, like the popular Honey 2 Silicone Dildo or a special G Spot Vibrator can make g-spot pleasuring easier and more consistent (the g-spot loves consistency!)
No toys, whether with specific g-spot curves, or not can guarantee sure-fire g-spot orgasms - sorry! It will always depend on how you learn to identify and relax into your body’s sensations.
To start exploring g spot pleasure without breaking the bank, it’s worth looking at the Lil Softee Mini G Spot Vibrator or the Mini G Spot Sensation. Both toys feature g-spot friendly curved-tips and have just enough length to massage the g spot.
Silicone is the best material for sex toys – and there are lots of good g spot toys in Silicone Vibrators.
The
G Swirl Silicone Vibrator is a popular toy with swirls all down its shaft and a ridged base for added clitoral stimulation. Most importantly this toy features a pronounced curve at the top which makes it good for accurate angling.
If you are slightly uneasy about penetration and think you may prefer a more gradual bend and slimmer proportions; the
Stranger Vibrator and the
G Twist Silicone Vibrator offer both.
As the g spot is stimulated it swells and can grow from being the size of a pea to the size of a walnut. Many women find toys with a slightly larger head like the
Honey Silicone Dildo and the
Ellove Silicone Vibrator can give great g spot massages.
At totally revolutionary G spot toy, the Rock Chick, works on a pivotal action and taps against, rather than massages, your g spot. The unique action of this toy can make self g-spot stimulation easier to manage than is the case with other more conventional g-spot shapes and this toy certainly has many fans.
How to G Spot Orgasm
Be Physically Responsive
To be physically responsive to your first g spot orgasm means being really, REALLY turned on!
Starting out wielding your new g spot toy with grim determination will get you nowhere. The difference between “Oh! Wow!” success and “This is doing nothing....” disappointment is all about arousal, receptiveness and lots and lots (..and lots more on top....!!) build up. For many of us this will mean at least 30 minutes, if not an hour of "foreplay" with your toy, before going g-spotting!
For many women being responsive to g-spot stimulation also means firing up the body AND the mind. Tease yourself into a state of pillow-chewing readiness with your fingers or toy, fire up your fantasies with a hot read like Nancy Fridays classic
My Secret Garden or a
DVD if you enjoy visuals. Your clitoris and vagina will now be swollen, pumped full of blood and ready for action.
Be Mentally Responsive
To be responsive to your first g spot orgasm you have to get past the feeling you are going to pee! The nerve that sends G-Spot sensations to the brain also broadcasts messages from the bladder and, for many women; a G-Spot orgasm can announce itself with a pleasurable gush of fluid - female ejaculation. Although it's been chemically analyzed as similar to male ejaculate minus the sperm, it's easy to feel intimidated, which will make you tense up, stop breathing and dash your chances of actually orgasming!
It’s important to get past this feeling, so visit the loo before you start so you can relax away from distracting worries about peeing the bed; just put a towel down and go with the flow!
Be Firm!
Although we’re all individual with individual responses, there are some universal rules shared by most of us.
One is that our clitorises enjoy a lighter, subtle touch whereas our g spots cry out for much firmer stimulation. So find a position you can comfortably satisfy your g spot’s need for this - on all fours or on your back with your legs drawn up to your chest. Start putting lots of Lube on your toy and sliding it a couple of inches inside you and pressing firmly, towards your tummy, with a little circular motion.
Some women find pressing down just above their pubic bone with their other hand increases g spot sensitivity. Also try rubbing, in firm circular movements, around your urethra (where your pee comes out of); the g-spot, for some, can be stimulated externally here.
Whilst it all might feel swooningly pleasurable, tune in to the sweet spot that feels different; that’s it - your G Spot! Your body will tell you when to increase the pressure of the stimulation. Try pressing the toy deeper onto your g-spot, moving it back and forth (in doing so quite firmly bumping your g spot) or a mixture of the two. Also try squeezing your PC muscles in rhythm with your g spot stimulation.
Enjoy the Journey!
Learning how to have a g spot orgasm is more usually a process of discovery that a moment of eureka, so it’s important not to get too hung up on the destination and enjoy the journey. Identifying and enjoying this special spot maybe as much as you can hope for (and that’s a lot!) the first few times you try. As you get used to the sensations, bigger and better things WILL come….
Be Open to All Possibilities
Multiple orgasms are more likely to be G Spot rather than clitoral. If you are lucky enough to experience the deep throbbing release of a g spot orgasm, it’s possible to enjoy more very soon after. Keep stimulating your g spot throughout the orgasmic contractions, (usually between 5 – 10 seconds).
Once they subside, rest for a short period (about 20 seconds) and resume firm stimulation with your toy. You may have another g spot orgasm quite quickly. You can keep going, stimulating throughout your orgasm and resting briefly as soon as they’re over ( it can feel uncomfortable without the pause) …until you can take no more!
Good luck!
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