My clit is TINY! Please give me some advice?
Full Question Hi, I think i have an abnormally tiny clit. have never come very easily and NEVER through oral sex and it was only when i slept with a woman that she commented what a tiny clit i have. I guess this is my problem. Does anyone know of anything that can help with a tiny clit? I looked up cosmetic surgery but the only thing i can see is g spot augmentation - so has anyone had that or does anyone have any advice about a tiny clit - any ideas mucho appreciated...xxxThe Sh! Girlz answer
We're sorry to hear about your orgasmic problems, but the good news is that there is absolutely no link between clit size and responsiveness/sexual function. A tiny clit does not equal tiny orgasms or no orgasms at all!
Rather than looking at commercial cosmetic surgery sites - which will encourage a feeling of "abnormality", look at educational sites, e.g.
The Clitoris Site which should reassure you that your clit size is not abnormal and having a tiny clit doesnt mean you're never likely to have an orgasm etc
The clit is a very complex structure: the "tiny" part you can see from the outside is just the clit - tip of the iceberg!
You will also be reassured that lots of ladies find orgasm elusive, regardless of whether they have a tiny or large clit!. Partly this can be because they are unaware of how their bodies work.
We recommend a book called
Becoming Orgasmic - a highly-respected, well-written and comprehensive guide to discovering your clit's orgasmic potential.
Also a great book for you might be Clitoral Truth
It explains in great detail exactly what the clit is and is not. It should also help you shed any hang-ups about whats "normal" regarding clit size and help you find new ways of exploring your clit.
Many, many women tell us they have their first (clit) orgasm with a vibrator: A vibe moves faster and for longer than the human body can and it is this sustained stimulation that is often enough to turn pre-orgasmic women into yes! yes! yes! I can do it!! - women!.
Take a look at
Clit Vibes - we'd recommend getting a really "wowser" rated clit vibe like the
Ultra Vector Egg. You could also try some (gentle!)
Clit Pumping to really bring blood rushing to the area and make your whole vulva area and clit swell.
Remember, whatever you do - enjoy every minute of the discovery process!
Luv The Sh! Girlz
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