My clitoris is so sensitive it cannot be directly touched - Advice Please?
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My clitoris is so sensitive it cannot be directly touched, to the annoyance of my lover! I can have vaginal orgasms but cannot masturbate in the clitoral area as it feels uncomfortable...help! what can i do or use to stimulate it or make it less sensitive?
The Sh! Girlz Answer Your lover should be pleased your clit is so sensitive, at the end of the day they are not having to work so hard! Many women, no matter how sensitive they are, do not like direct stimulation on the tip of the clit, as it's often uncomfortable - and diving straight for it anyway is never usually the answer. Remember the clit has about the same number of nerve endings as the penis, but all enclosed in a much smaller organ so its no wonder its so sensitive! Its also why men and women respond to very different kinds of touch! As you seem particularly sensitive, ask your partner to go very slowly and sensually around your clit Who says they actually have to touch it The hair-standing-up-on-the-back-of-the-neck sensation you can get from the ANTICIPATION of something can be far more enticing than the actual sensation. Encourage your lover to gently ascend from an erotic stroking of feet, calves, thighs, inner thighs ... to kissing your lips (labia) and blowing on your clit. The clit is there for many as an easy jackpot beacon and pretty play-safe "she's bound to get turned on if I rub on this!" sort of spot, whereas for many women the "sweet spots" are the sides of the clit rather than directly on it! Whatever areas of the clit is "out of bounds", instead of this being a negative thing, your lover still has the full run of the rest of your body to experiment with!
As for stimulating yourself - the labia and your whole genital region is "joined-up" - if the clit is too sensitive to go near, try using a vibe around your lips - you will see just how engorged and rosy they become without any clitoral action!
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