How to make you first time anal sex experience pleasurable
The first time you venture into anal sex, and every time after that!) should be a pleasurable experience- never painful! The key to good first time anal sex is pace, patience & communication.
First Off, start gently! Exploring anal sensations with awell-lubed finger, a slim anal vibrator like the slim anal vibrator or an anal Butt Plug is a much better, gentler, less scary introduction to anal sex than having to “take” his enormous member/ her giant dildo (and they will seem big, there's no doubt.) the first time you venture into anal sex.
To experiment with anal sex for the first time we suggest you don a Latex glove ( which make fingers feel smooth and protect the anus from long or scraggy nails), squirt on lots of Lubricant and have a go yourself. See what it feels like before you let anyone else start probing you there! First, try just rubbing a finger around the rim of the anus and slightly inside – both areas are highly sensitive and stimulating them can feel very pleasurable. The more stimulated you are, the more relaxed you will become. Only when anal muscles are relaxed should you even start to think about putting something inside. A slim anal vibe like the Mini Sensation Vibrator is a good first time anal toy Once in, keep the anal toy still for a while until you become accustomed to the sensation. Any potential pain is when something enters the rectum for the first time, as the anal muscles have an extremely strong and involuntary desire to tense-up. Anal tissue is sensitive and delicate so it's all too easy to cause tiny tears. Relaxed anal muscles and lots of lube are essential to making your first time a pleasurable, not painful, anal experience. Starting slowly, gently slide a finger or toy inside, testing the sensations as you go - this will help to give you lots of confidence. Don't use any movement until you're more than ready.
Butt Plugs are good anal toys for this: they are designed to go in and stay there so they can help you get used to the muscles of the anus and the sensations on offer. Squeezing and relaxing against a
Butt Plug will help you be able to learn to better control the muscle, and go onto enjoy lots of relaxed, pleasure-filled anal sex.
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