Ways to use a Vibrator

Ways to use a vibrator

Many people assume that the only way to use a vibrator is to put it inside, but as the majority of women need some sort of clitoral stimulation to orgasm, isn’t this (literally) missing the point?! In fact the majority of women don't include internal stimulation whilst masturbating, but use their toys or fingers solely for clitoral stimulation.

Even now, despite a positive bombardment of sex tips, toy tricks and “adult” advice in magazines and newspapers theres very little written that actually teaches us all the different ways to use a vibrator. And despite a mammoth choice of vibrators, sex toys and erotic accessories, there still persists the myth that the best toys for sex are size queens at heart and that size really does matter and that bigger the vibrator or dildo, the better! The reality is that its exactly this kind of sex toy that women should not be afraid to leave behind.

Whilst most of us choose to enjoy clitoral attention from our vibrators, its important to remember that vibrators can be used in a number of ways. Actually, given that we are all different and all have different sexual responses, in an infinite number of ways! Certainly your trusty vibe can give you a sure-fire, "this is the way i always do it!" orgasm, but whether alone or with a partner, with sex toys or without it is never good to get stuck in a sexual rut.

Yes, we've divided all the sex toys in the Sh! store into categories to help you choose your toys, but once chosen, try not to think of your vibrator solely as a clitoral vibrator or an internal vibrator or as a G Spot Vibrator, but as an erotic sex toy that can provide stimulating sensations in many areas of the body, as well as a sure-fire way to have an amazing orgasm.

Ways to get the most out of your vibrator

• Allow yourself plenty of time to get used to your new erotic sex toy. Put an evening aside to experiment. Lock the door, turn the phone off, put up a Do Not Disturb sign!

• Give your vibrator a road test. Experiment with all of the different settings (strength or multi-speed controls) and see which ones you prefer. For multi speed control vibes, start on the lowest setting and work your way up; the hornier you get the more stimulation you are likely to want.

• Build the anticipation. Run your vibe along your whole body, trying out how it feels on your different erogenous zones. Nipples, neck, inside of thighs .... anywhere that feels good. As John Cleese says in the famous Monty Python sketch – you don’t have to dive straight for the clitoris!

• If you don’t feel ready for some full-on clitoral stimulation and you already have your vibe on its lowest setting, putting a towel or sheet inbetween you and the vibrator is a good way soften the intensity.

• Try combinations of vibrators – one on your clit, one inside, or a dual vibe like the Rabbit style vibe. Using a Butt Plug at the same time as an internal vibe will give that glorious sense of fullness we sometime crave and can help put some very pleasurable preasure on your G Spot

• Try using a vibe with your “other hand” – it feels like someone else is pleasuring you!

• Introduce vibrators into sex-play with your partner – whether a sex-toy “show” for a lover (who will enjoy the erotic charge of this slightly voyeuristic delight), or a Doctor’s and Nurse’s role play (with vibe as instrument!), or simply your lover’s hand controlling the strength and direction of your toy – a vibrator can be a fun and exciting sexual accoutrement that doesn’t have to be solely for solo play.

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