Strap On Advice

Advice on How To Introducing a Strap-On to your Lover

Stage One of enjoying your strap-on is to introduce it to your lover. One person can have quite a lot of fun with a strap on but never as much as two!!

OUR ADVICE IS: NO SUPRISES!
Unless, as a couple, you’ve already whipped each other into frenzy with your shared strap-on fantasies, or you’ve listened to your lover drop a billion hints that they're ready, willing and able for strap on play, we wouldn't advice slipping on a strap on and shouting “surprise!!”

Only you know how much tact and diplomacy maybe needed when introducing the idea of strap-on play to your lover. Sex toys can cause surprising reactions so even if you’re pretty confident of a delighted response, the best advice is to tread a carefully at first. Let patience and leisurely seduction be your mantra.

Our advice is never to bulldoze in with “I wanna play with a strap-on….” At best, it’ll come across as a me-me attitude with little thought for their desires; at worst, you’ll seem desperate and dissatisfied with your sex life.

BE CAREFUL MENTIONING PREVIOUS EXPERIENCES!
As for any previous strap-on experience, unless you both get hot reminiscing about former sexual encounters, our advice is not to mention past strap on experience - after all this’ll be your first time exploring strap-on sex together - don't dilute it with past sexploits!

OUR ADVICE IS INTRODUCE THE IDEA IN A ROMANTIC SETTING...BUT AWAY FROM THE BEDROOM!
Whispering your strap-on fantasy, away from the heat of the bedroom, but still within a loved-up atmosphere (a romantic bath together?) is a good way to test the water. Wet their appetite (& other places!) by turning them onto the idea and be sure to use words that involve them - “I have this fantasy where we’re playing with a strap-on…” and maybe just talking about it together will cause things to get steamy...

CHOOSE TOGETHER
Anticipation spices up any sexual encounter-use it at every stage of strap-on seduction and you can’t go far wrong. The Sh! Girlz have almost 2 decades experience dishing out advice to strap-on buyers, so browse our website or come to one of our Hoxton or Portobello stores together or browse online. From choosing your dildo to it sliding into your Harness, to making it all slip-slidey with a good squeeze of Lube, to the best bit - teasing your lover mercilessly with your new strap on - if you get the mood right it can be a ride of breathless expectancy all the way.

Enjoy!

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