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How to choose & use a Strap On Dildo (For Lesbian Sex)

 
Guide to our dildo range, with advice on how to choose & use them in a strap on...

- By Kathryn Hoyle

How to Choose the Right Size

The long and the short of it is: dildos can offer different pleasures in all kinds of lesbian strap-on situations! You can always find ways to enjoy the delights that different length dildos can offer, so whilst it's always good to get the "perfect fitting" dildo for your strap on, don't get too hung up on length.

Width, however is much more crucial - a dildo that is too wide will be too uncomfortable to be pleasable and is most likely to spend time in the toy-box so if it's a choice between 2 sizes, always go for the slimmer option. In strap-on play, wanting more, not less, is best!

Most Sh! dildos come in 2 widths with the 1, 2 and 3 versions being slimmer and the 4, 5 and 6 being the fatter of the particular style. There are 3 lenths in each style. So, for instance:
Cupid 1 is the same length, but slimmer than Cupid 4
Cupid 2 is the same length, but slimmer than Cupid 5.
Cupid 3 is the same length, but slimmer than upid 6.

In fact different length dildos lend themselves to different positions in strap-on play.

Shorter dildos like:
Wirly Girly 1
Smoothie 1
Honey 1
.... work best for grinding together during strap on sex. Because the whole length will be constantly inside her: a dildo that’s around 4 inches long should satisfy.

How to use a Strap on; Grinding Together
Here's a great grinding strap on position to try. Your girl straddles your lap whilst you are wearing a strap on with a shorter dildo She can face you for steamy intimacy or face the other way and grant you a fabulous rear view! She then literally lap dances on your strap on dildo!

Longer dildos like :
Wirly Girly 3
Honey 3
.... or any dildo that is about 6 plus inches long, are best for stroking in and out during strap on sex

As you get into your stride, this extra length is essential on the out-stroke to prevent the dildo slipping out of her altogether. It can happen to the best strap-on studettes sometimes, but pumping away into thin air, can be a bit embarrassing as well as very frustrating!

How to use a Strap On: Stroking in and out!
Whist wearing your strap on dildo, form a ring with your finger and thumb around the bottom of the shaft of your dildo. Slide the dildo through this ring as you guide it into her...

• You can feel how far to pull out of her and ensure your aim is always true!

• It’s incredible sexy to feel your wet dildo dipping into her...

• The ring you form will push against her clitoris

• You can lessen the penetrative length of any dildo by adding more fingers to the ring. Try forming a ring with your thumb and up to four fingers to deliver short, shallow thrusts. As most of the sensitive nerve-endings are around the entrance of the vagina, you probably won’t hear any complaints - and you can instantly subtract fingers should she murmur ‘deeper’.

Also see:
Advice on Choosing a Dildo
Advice on Choosing a First Strap On (General)
Advice on Choosing a Dildo for Strap On Lesbian Sex
Advice on Choosing a Strap On For a Man to Wear
Advice on Choosing a Strap On For Pegging

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