Whereas i enjoy her au natural - Some advice pls!?
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Dear Sh!, My Girlfriend doesnt want sex without showering first ...she wont have it but i really I like her in her natural, just-home state. What can i do?The Sh! Girls Answer
While some of us are happy to strip off and get down to it after a long day at the office, or a long night on the dancefloor, others can't even contemplate sex before a shower. This is totally understandable as we're bombarded by messages and advertisemnets for products to make every part of our body fresh and sweet-smelling and all designed to mask our body's natural scents - whether from under our arms or
within our panties. And yet, the salty, musky tastes and scents our bodies create during sexual excitement are biochemically designed to arouse
and inspire us to have sex!! So, there's a head versus body thing going on - many of us only feel confident to be sexy when we're clean whereas our lovers get turned on by the pheromones (the body's natural attractants) of our 'au natural' state. Very few of us are completely free of sexual
insecurities so if a quick shower for your girlfriend means the difference between her being sex
kitten or shy pussy then there's little point in wading in and forcing the issue. Once your girlfriend is enjoying your attention, all those
musty smells you crave will surface anyway! This isn't to say that you should hussle her into the shower as soon as she steps thru the door!
You should still carry on subtly communicating just how powerfully attractive her body's natural scents are to you and over time this will help build her confidence.
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