Penis Doesn't Fit!! - Help!

The Sh! Girlz Answer
Your ladygarden is an amazing organ that is expandable (rather than an open space) so it's unlikely that your boyfriend is too big!! Just think what happens during childbirth!

The more likely reason is is that your body is not sufficiently aroused, relaxed or wet enough for penetrative sex at that time. A squirt from your trusty Lube bottle and lots more lusty loving of the non-penetrative sort may prime your body to getting to a 'give it to me big boy' state of readiness.

Try not to worry or anticipate failure as this will only cause you to be anxious which will just cause your body to tense-up even more causing a viscous cycle that will not be pleasuable.

Be open with your boyfriend and agree together that sex doesnt automatically have to end in penetration. This may be enough to release you from your worries and allow you to get out of your head and into your body.

Deep breathing can also help as it allows you to relax more...

If things persist or you feel its more than a simple lack of wetness or readiness, then there is a condition called Vaginismus which you might want to investigate. It causes the vaginal muscles to involuntarily constrict making intercourse impossible or painful. It effects 100,000's of women and yet it is rarely discussed and little understood.

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