Dear Sh! When we're both up for pegging, my girlfriend and I enjoy using a Twista dildo in our strap-on for a bit of pegging anal play. Even though we use loads of lube and take plenty of time, I'm getting the feeling that the dildo itself is a bit long for me. I suppose that she could thrust less deep, but I must admit that we both enjoy this aspect of pegging.

Are we doing anything wrong pegging-wise, or should we look for another dildo?

Hi there,

Thanks for getting in touch!

As you take plenty of time, use plenty of lube and really sound like you know what you’re doing, the issue is probably more with your equipment than your pegging technique. 

Use a shorter dildo for pegging.

As you'll be getting most of your pleasure from the stimulation of your prostate, the extra length of the Twista dildo is probably not doing much except being uncomfortable. You have obviously gotten used to a certain level of “girth” whilst pegging with the Twista, so you may not want to go too narrow. Take a look at our dildo range and go for a shorter but equally girthy alternative.

Best dildos for pegging

• Slim dildos  are our most popular pegging dildos

These silicone dildos feature similar ridges that you enjoy from the Twista, but they're a tad shorter. We recommend looking at WG5 and WG6 as these would give you maximum width but a shorter length.

• G-Spot dildos have the curve for stimulating the prostate

The prostate is also known as the male g-spot so it's no wonder that the curved shape of G-spot toys also work well for prostate stimulation. The only thing to be aware of is to ensure the dildo is positioned correctly in the strap-on so it pleasurably rubs against the prostate - whatever position you are being pegged in, make sure the dildo's curve is towards the front of your body.

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We hope this helps! 

Best Wishes

Team Sh! xx

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