Advice all about strap ons, with guides on how to choose and use a strap on, whether as a dildo and harness combo or a strapless strap on. We’ve been making our own artisan range of Strap On playthings for over 20 years and have advised countless customers in store, looking to buy their first strap on or upgrade their current model, so we know our stuff!
This month we are celebrating an all time favourite. It’s consistently one of our best sellers and it’s not hard to see why. It’s the Sh! Leather 2-Strap Dildo Harness Our harnesses are hand crafted in our London workshop which is what ensures every piece is of the highest quality. You only have to hop … Continue reading Toy of the Month: Sh! Harness
Whilst we know strap-on sex isn’t for everyone, we want to highlight all the fun that can be had with strap-ons for those who of you who are interested in giving it a try. Using a strap-on is a learned skill – but we’re sure you’ll agree the time it takes to master is time … Continue reading Strap-On Sex For Lesbians
Hi we are a lesbian couple looking for a vibrator that can be used with a harness to allow for some vigorous thrusting. We have a double dildo harness and the receiver is very happy with the dildo we have but the harness wearer wants to have a vibrator with clitoral stimulater. We have tried … Continue reading Q&A: What toy will work in combination with a strap on?
All Names Have Been Changed for the Purposes of Anonymity Dear Sh!, Looking for some advice and not sure how to submit to your advice section. My wife and I have are both quite open minded and have a good sex life. We have attended your Spanking and Bondage classes and enjoyed them both very much. I would like to … Continue reading Q&A: How do I talk to my wife about pegging?
Buying your first strap on, especially when both partners are total beginners and have never tried strap-on play before, can be mind-boggling, we know. Just like buying your first anything, when you’re making your first steps into strap-on sex, you have NO IDEA what to look for in the first model! ( to research browse through our strap on advice & … Continue reading Beginners Guide to Buying Your First Strap On
Signing up for a class on strap-on sex may seem very daunting, and we absolutely understand this. However, as we endeavour to make our classes as relaxed, informal and fun as possible, we think that once any shyness has been overcome, you’ll have lots of fun! Some of our Strap-On classes are for women only … Continue reading Strap-On Sex Erotic Class
Our range of strap on harnesses may look complicated, but essentially there are just two styles to choose from: Why Choose a Harnesses with two back straps The two back straps divide between your legs and curve around your buttocks. This makes it … Continue reading How to Choose & Put On a Strap On Harness
A Strapless dildo is essentially a double dildo, designed for a couple to play with together, to offer strap-on style sex without one partner having to wear a harness to keep a dildo in place. Where this totally different kind of dildo differs for a regular double dildo is in shape – rather than being long … Continue reading How to Use a Strapless Dildo- Strap-On Sex without a Harness
Hi, I’m looking for a harness that’s ok for men to wear to give their partner double penetration i.e. there’s a space for a man’s penis and space for a dildo as well. Also my partner would like to use a harness for either single penetration or double penetration on another woman. Any ideas? Hi … Continue reading Q&A: Man Using a Strap-On for Double Penetration?
Slipping a dildo into a harness creates a “Strap-on” toy with great erotic potential for any couple who enjoy penetrative sex together… As more men discover prostate pleasure, more and more straight couples are coming to Sh! to buy strap-ons, and discovering the delights that lesbian couples have known for decades: the intimate, deeply pleasurable act … Continue reading Strap On Pleasures
